Whom should Ishita call?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is important to answer not only for Ishita but also socially for tho those who are suffering from the same situation .This time she was being attacked that was not a hit. Hiding in some once room forcibly holding even if the person is stopping So this is serious. My take -
1. She did absolutely right by telling straight way to everyone present in the house as this activity is more for yourself as well as the attacker , because now he knew definitely she is not interested in him after this 2 things can happen as his hits stops to an end OR he'll plan something BIG. so this was not enough one more thing to do was necessary and important NEXT call ! But to Whom?

2. Either Girls parents or Siblings or a Best friend or your Husband(if you are married).
a. in Ishita's case she has a very strong family behind her for me best choice is Her sister who is perfect and her husband can also support in case of need .I want her to tell the truth that this is happening in her own life No 3rd person story.
b. her parents maybe her mother i know her mother is laud but still she is the mother and can have a full watch as they are there next door neighbor. and she also knows how sensitive the case is and she could be very strong in terms of giving signals to Param that she is with her daughter and she knew what is he doing .
c. 3rd and very important is Husband as this is delicate and important , I myself don't believe in hiding and also my take is she should have told him even though he is anywhere in the world that what is going on in her life , these things are not to be ignored also . she could have text him Important thing to discuss Pl. call back again . Then the main question what to say , She could have told him someone tries to be physical with me and he was so smart that no-one is believing me I am scared and I don't know what to do ? or she could have told him that a friend of mine have gone through this and she don't know what to do pl. advice . here she could tell the relation of the attacker also . and when your husband came you should told him the truth without thinking others as at that point of time you are saving all the females in the House in case of Ishita Simmi, younger SIL, herself including RUHI as the stalker is how much dirty you never know.

Now the Next part what to do after this happens in your House and no one believe you -
Leave the house right away ... don't wait for another second in her case that was so easy she should have moved to her house and tell them I am going to stay here for 2-3 days and tell those also whose are not believing you that I am not feeling safe here I am going to my parents house and will be back when my husband will be back . As per spoilers he attacked again as she was in the same premises with that person this could be avoided if she would have left the premises.

This piece of advice is for all the females. Please add your comments as healthy discussions gave a lot of advises and definitely help during crisis time.

A big round of applause for Divyanka to show all her emotions at there best her fear, anger, betrayed, frustration , eagerness, helplessness , happiness ... 👏👏👏 for Divyanka.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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she should actually call her husband first...
in ishita's case it can be bala and vandita first..

coz they are the one who will believe her
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: craziekudi

she should actually call her husband first...

in ishita's case it can be bala and vandita first..

coz they are the one who will believe her

Yeah! Vandu and Bala both are The one for Ishita .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i think the husband shud knw first
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If not Raman , then Vandu and Bala
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshi4ever

i think the husband shud knw first


Absolutely right In normal cases that is the right thing . Ishita also did the same thing but couldn't reach.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jojo1986

The husband or sister

True! Very True!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..N3rDyM0R0N..

If not Raman , then Vandu and Bala


True!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bala and Vandu. Bala even helped out Mihika in that MMS case.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikita99

Bala and Vandu. Bala even helped out Mihika in that MMS case.


Agree ! Even i took a long time to right only Vandu as if Bala got to know directly from Ishu he could hit Parmeet like he did to Mihir .and in this process could get more hurt by himself , as we all know Vandu and Bala shares a very nice relationship if that information will reach through Vandu , He'll definitely think through mind then heart n He is the only one there who can catch that Parmeet . Maybe I am wrong .

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