What's ishitha's obligation to the bhalla family

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm just stuck with this question .. Exactly how much crud does shitha have to take in this marriage of convenience. Why does she even have to stay in this house? Raman is beyond rude .. No civility even .. Forget a sense of gratitude for what the woman has done for his daughter. The poor girl still has to live out of a suitcase. The sr.Mrs. Bhalla .. Well she is jealous, rude and plain obnoxious.
So why is ishitha in the bhalla house? Her parents home is next door .. She ca stay in her home and still take care of ruhi. So why does she take this? Does being a wife and daughter-in-law mean accepting every insult piled on you? Honestly ramans behavior is just putting me off now.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have wondered the same thing. Why does Ishita take this kind of crap from both Raman and her loud mouth M I L.

The Iyers have been nice to both Raman and love Ruhi without much hullabaloo.

Is it really a difference in education or is there such big difference in where one comes from whether it is North or South.

Raman better learn to be more appreciative of his hired Mom/ Wife for his daughter or Ishita better be more clear in telling Raman to keep his attitude to himself.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ishita is a genuinely a nice person...she is just concentrating on helping simmi no matter what anybody says or does...she knew how Raman and Mrs Bhalla are before marriage itself and has learnt to accept it...I am sure when they learn about her golden heart they will feel very ashamed and will truly start to love here 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I really don't understand if there is something so worse is happening with her.. She is equally rude with Raman and insults him.. And Mrs Bhalla is not torturing her.. Two different ppl staying together, generation, culture, whole upbringing difference so argument has to be there.. Mrs Bhalla is not positive but she is not plotting and doing something wrong with Ishita.. She is very much normal person .. Everyone cant accept and understand new totally different person out of blue. It takes time. She is not vamp. I am sorry to say, but I dnt find Ishita bechari from any angle.. She is not telling reason of coming home at 3am so ppl will shout.. My parents would slap me if I come home at 3am and show so much attitude and refuse to tell reason.

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