Originally posted by: meghan432
you shldn't give birth to children if u are too shallow that is true well i think tab shagun ma banna chahta tha bt uske liye ek lifeless marriage mai atka rahe not fair and ruhi ke papa ne to uska zimmadari liya hai agar woh thik se khayal nahi rak sakta is main shagun ki kya galti
I don't know if it was a lifeless marriage or if all the money and sparkling jewelery is what prompted her to leave. Perhaps $$ meant more to her than her husband and child. As for Raman? I think he is still not over Shagun's betrayal. It appears that he loved and trusted her a lot so it has effected him more than he lets on. He needs to get him self in the right frame of mind and let go of all Shagun has done to him and his daughter before he will be able to emotionally step up to the plate and be a real father to Ruhi...Until that time neither parent is fit. The only thing I have to say in Raman's defense is that he is being responsible for Ruhi (be it indirectly) but that is more than I can say of Shagun who walked out on her small daughter, a daughter that must have been so young that she couldn't even recognize her own mother that was sitting at the same table in front of her...
Either way though, Ruhi is still the victim and I feel really bad for her. I'm so glad she has her dadi in her life and now Ishita.