Why shd anyone sacrifice?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Why shd anyone sacrifice? Does rape render the victim untouchable and at mercy and sympathy of others? Why shdnt the victim not have the right to live and choose as before? And why doesnt anyone ques the absurd and insensitive mindset of blaming the victim? Why isnt the process of medical examination and registration of case with police not shown? Why is the victim not taken for counselling? Isnt it atrocious & insensible to make a rape victim marry?😕 A far sensible approach is to counsel Tanya and register a case and enable law to punish Kanhaiya instead of this senseless and inhuman thought of marriage.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Wonderful post Lavanya 👏

You are right, why should anyone sacrifice. But unfortunately, people are prejudiced against topics like rape and all.

I also think that Tanya shouldnt be left aside like this. She's a human, besides she hasnt done anaything. She's the VICTIM.

What i'd like to see is Kul reacting. What Tanya needs teh most now it's her mother support, but how can she live peacfully when her mother told her not to talk about this accident to anyone. Tanya needs to be soothed, and that would be possible only when she'll get support and therefore she needs to tell what happened to her.

So Kul should support her, whatever may people think. Besides by doing so she can knwo whether Rajdeep is actually a Good human being or not. If R supports the family or not.

Lets' hope Kul realizes her mistakes soon, because she ruining all her daughters life! Jago Kuldeepppppppppp

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Posted: 17 years ago
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well, i think that tanya has every right to get married no matter wat. even ppl who r victims of rape shud have the lifelong commitment of marriage. but ur right she shud be able to fight against the law n kahaniya. 😃
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Posted: 17 years ago
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🤗🤗Humera dear for appreciating and thanks for understanding my viewpoint.

You have very rightly put that its the mother here Kul who needs to care and make Tanya feel secure and loved just like before. I wld like to see the bonding betn the two and other sisters. I feel even father's support wld be encouraging.

I too wld like to see what is Deep's reaction on this.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: pakirani

well, i think that tanya has every right to get married no matter wat. even ppl who r victims of rape shud have the lifelong commitment of marriage. but ur right she shud be able to fight against the law n kahaniya. 😃

Thanks dear for agreeing that law shd take its course. Regd marriage rape victims can marry surely. What I meant was its not a humane approach at this time. Right now Tanya is traumatised and needs care, love, affection and counselling to come out of it. Later on whenever she desires she can marry whomsoever she wishes. But you wld agree its not the appropriate time for a relnship like marriage.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Really awesome post! You're absolutely-but unfortunately, this is a soap opera 😆 It never deals with reality! The track of the show has been set in a way that without a new lead role, Tanya will be considered "Bad" in the society. How sick is that? Was it her fault? Did she do something do something bad? No, it was someone else's fault but girls always get blamed for such things! 🤢 And someone has to sacrifice, I guess, just because the story turns that way. But in reality, of course not! 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: realitybites

Thanks dear for agreeing that law shd take its course. Regd marriage rape victims can marry surely. What I meant was its not a humane approach at this time. Right now Tanya is traumatised and needs care, love, affection and counselling to come out of it. Later on whenever she desires she can marry whomsoever she wishes. But you wld agree its not the appropriate time for a relnship like marriage.

actually u r right!!! 😳 i misunderstood wat u meant. tanya is traumatised n i dont think anyone who has jus been raped cud even think bout getting married for a second there. they lose all trust in a guy for a while n i kno marriage will jus make things worse for her since she is frightened of her worst exprience in her life. 🤢🤢 i jus hope kahaniya stays far away from her life n soon she finds a guy that will love her unconditionally 😳

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: realitybites

🤗🤗Humera dear for appreciating and thanks for understanding my viewpoint.

You have very rightly put that its the mother here Kul who needs to care and make Tanya feel secure and loved just like before. I wld like to see the bonding betn the two and other sisters. I feel even father's support wld be encouraging.

I too wld like to see what is Deep's reaction on this.

No problem Lavanya 🤗

Yep u are right, at this moement, i'd love to see a real family bonding. I know this serial is all about marriages. But because of marriages we shouldnt forget the "maayka" 😉

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonikudi1

Really awesome post! You're absolutely-but unfortunately, this is a soap opera 😆 It never deals with reality! The track of the show has been set in a way that without a new lead role, Tanya will be considered "Bad" in the society. How sick is that? Was it her fault? Did she do something do something bad? No, it was someone else's fault but girls always get blamed for such things! 🤢 And someone has to sacrifice, I guess, just because the story turns that way. But in reality, of course not! 😳

Thanks for the appreciating. I know dear its a soap but surely it will have touch or basis of reality. If they can take inspiration for marriage, kids etc then why cant something more valuable which is still part of reality. Today the soaps have a large reach and by showing that a girl can be courageous and fight for justice it thereby targeting to remove the castigation of victim. I feel if the soaps are promoting the denigrating mindset of sacrifice and sympathy marriage. Wish they dont.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: pakirani

actually u r right!!! 😳 i misunderstood wat u meant. tanya is traumatised n i dont think anyone who has jus been raped cud even think bout getting married for a second there. they lose all trust in a guy for a while n i kno marriage will jus make things worse for her since she is frightened of her worst exprience in her life. 🤢🤢 i jus hope kahaniya stays far away from her life n soon she finds a guy that will love her unconditionally 😳

Thats ok dear, I am glad I cld clarify. You are right at time point Tanya will be abhoring men and a marriage will only aggravate her wounds. She needs Kul's love and encouragement which sadly she isnt giving. I hope they show Kanhaiya incarcerated for life.

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