Trish's reaction

Trish reactions towards tanya's pregnancy wasn't pleasent....which I understand.....buit even when she didnt know the tanya wasn't pregnant for 8 weeks she got really jealous......Now it doesnt happen that a sister would do that and I understand trish loved raj....but now she is someone's wife...what does she want? she doesnt want to loose rajdeep ....thats what they showed......and on the other hand.....she is so jealous over raj/tanya why...I know there are so many situations...people breakup with their fiance go through divorce..and once they start loving someone else they dont even care abt their past.....even if she is still in love with raj why would she care for a guy who decieved her.........understandbly she wants an answer but appearantly raj gave her an answer as soon he married tanya(eventhough it wasnt truth)......Cant she see her sister's sadness...everyone is noticing that even rajdeep......and she doesnt want to care...no matter how many problems u have.....I dont think anyone hold grudges against their blood relations...she doesnt understand the sister she grew up with..........why didnt she call tanya...when she wanted an answer from raj..only....it shows she cares about her ex......more than her sister.....she is just worried about herself......focusing on herself........I did many things in my life but my sister alwqays understood me......eventhough i was hiding..but her trust on me was stronger and she knew im not going to do anythign against her unless there is a reason.....I think trish will try to do things against raj or tanya........ Now tanya...I really liked that she is becoming stronger......she stopped trish today........trish u need to understand raj is not just the person u loved for few days he is someone's husband.. on the other had nupur has announced that...her bahu is 8 weeks pregnant ..I think raj or rajdeeps need to clear it that tanya and yuv have been married for two months

Human nature drives Trish's attitude. Look, she will NEVER accept the marriage. When she finds out the truth, she will not stop being mad at Tanya. She may be more understanding, less vengeful. But the end result is that her blood relation married Yuv regardless.

There's nothing like a fall from a hill to make you stronger, eh? Good for you Tanya. Good for you.

I think Raj and Deep will try to set everything thing straight about the marriage being 2 months old (mandir). But still, now that the thought is in Nupur's head, she senses something fishy is going on. Now I am waiting for the picture of Raj and Trishna, and for Trishna to find out her mother's role in all of this. It's going to be one hell of a response.

so the person she loved for few days (past now she claims she loves rajdeep) is more imp than her sis....You know what thats true human nature is driving her......but tanya is her own sister....if my sister would be in similar situation I can give away my life for her.....tanya didnt want to tell anyone abt her rape coz she knew it will effect her sister's future...so her motivation to commit suicide after her rape wasnt selfish but she cared more for everyone else ....and esp for her sis...you can see the episode where tanya asked yuv if she has to choose someone'selse happiness and her happiness what would she do....so she was thinking about her sister as her mom told her that it will effect her sisters marriage...again I dont support that idea......but we are looking at actions that human nature drives us to do........if trish doesnt forgive and accept tanya's marriage after hearing the truth then this would be the worst thing u can ever expect from your own sister.....my sister put her life in danger to save me........its very real.....esp in eastren socities where the family bond is much more stronger than anything else...if yuvi was trish's husband ...then I can understand that its hard to choose b/w a sis and husband......but he was just a guy she loved for few days...and now she is someoneelse's wife and she cant live without him thats what she said.........if she married him coz she wanted to take revenge....then why is she making that man to suffer..what is his fault.....this is selfish too......again I dont dislike trish......I know she took really good steps regaring sujata...she was really caring ...and she was always there for tanya..........but the whole thing is she doesnt know the truth....but trust is even bigger than everything else in the world...sometimes things can change , cirumstances can change but if my sis would do something against me.....i would know for sure that she cant hurt me there mightbe a reason..........

Again I am on Trish's side. A betrayal that deep from your sister cuts like a dagger. And her mother's motives were purely selfish for not telling otherwise she would atleast tell her husband. I still believe this show was going in a good direction and the rape ruined everything. I check the forums, but I stopped watching in the US even before the rape happened. Tanya's initial silence over her stalker (can't remember his name) was the first problem. One more show depicting women as silent victims is one show too many. Why do some many of these serials depict women this way? And secondly, Kul and Yuv keeping this from the family is terrible. Especially when it comes to the dad and Trish. Again I say this show started off promising but just because another cliche. Tanya needed justice and mental support not to be married to her sister's boyfriend. And if Trish had known from the beginning she wouldn't be so hurt now. Give this poor girl a break. She married Raj because it was arranged, not because she suddenly loved him. We all know she loved Yuv and you can't get over that so fast, even if all parties are now married. And ESPECIALLY when all parties are living under ONE roof!

Human psychology which includes emotions.....and perception is shaped by different institutes one of them is culture and family background ....now look at what tanya did...I dealt with rape victims there ownt be any single case where u will find someone who will different than her esp......in sub continent.. we have to think about the environment she is living in.......also ou're talking about trish's emotions....which i agree with human being is an emotional being too....you explanied it well how trish is feeling ......now what tanya did was her emotions......she tried to tell trish but trish didnt listen...

First of all, "a few days" is not correct. But I get the message behind it--that how can love a few months old replace the life-long love of sisters. Trishna's crush is not really love.???

How long has Tanya known him and yet they have so much understanding and love??? So when you ask how Trish can put anyone above her sister, then please also ask how Tanya can she put anyone or any situation above her sister, Trishna. And please do not rehatch the rape.

Look, I get your point, and as thick-headed as I am, I am going to say that as hard as it is for me to accept Tanya's decisions, it's hard for people to understand why I don't. Is it really SO OBVIOUS, SO UNAMBIGUOUS? Trish bad; Tanya good. We may not use those words; but that is the implication.

I don't get how everyone just thinks Tanya is the nicer sister: because she was raped, and cries, and is suffering yet thinks about her family's reputation? She was "FORCED" into marrying Yuv so she did not betray her sister. Tanya is the nicer sister. Why? She thinks about her family. Yes, this is true and good for her, good for her family. Yes, last time I looked, Trish was the only one who spoke up for her family when they were belittled in front of others...not once or twice but from the beginning. She was not raped--who do you want her to think about? She has no knowledge only rage. and in the position to show concern for others. It seems that Tanya thinks of everyone else except herself. Now if this was true, she would not have married Yuv, period, or would have told Trish. Look, it's a bunch of bullsh*t when it is said she tried to say no, but Yuv did not listen. Trust me, if you do not want to get married, you would not be married in this situation. Tanya chose hers and her family's "reputation", but put these things above her sister. "Reputation" is important, privacy is important, but ripping your sister's heart out for the time being sucks. So if Tanya expects Trishna to understand without knowing and, irrespective of the explanation, become sister/sister again, well that's just not going to happen. But then again this is our beloved/hated VIVAAH, where anything goes!

You question why someone (Trishna) would love someone (Yuv) more than their sister (Tanya), given all the sacrifices sisters tend to make. Maybe Trishna helped her with her homework, talked her through a crush, helped her pick out things to wear, consoled her through her sadness, worried about how someone feels about and treats her. Can I not expect the same loyalty and love from the other sister Tanya? Did the horrible nature of what happened to her negate this sisterly responsibility? Because if I were in Trish's place, Tanya has one hell of a way showing it.

I personally would be much more devastated if it were my sister who betrayed me in this manner. And it is BETRAYAL. And it doesn't mean I am any less understanding or compassionate or loving of a sister than someone else.

Hi im new to this forum so i thought i would add my 2 cents to this.

Great post gp00 !!!

I completely agree that just because Trishna is a stronger person and can stand up for herself and her family .. she needs to get over it ??

And Tanya is a weak, helpless female without any backbone so we should feel sorry for her ? I am sorry that Tanya was raped and I am sorrier that she is pregnant because of that .. but that is pretty much where it all stops.

I cannot fault Trishna for the way she thinks, she will never forget what Tanya did to her .. perhaps someday she will get over it.

i just want 2 c taaj 2gther no matter wht. i hope trish get 2 knw d reality n accpt it.... dat yuv din betray him but was forced by d situtaion. n she must 4gve tanya.... n she must go wid rajdeep....