Well you have to take everything into account. First her father who was the closest person in the world to her committed suicide. His name as well as her was slandered all over the media and papers. Now the slandering and his losing his position, financial, as well as social loss was enough to make her father give up on life Yet she still survived. Her name is linked with her dad's so she too suffers the consequence. Next his committing suicide. Death of a family member sometimes drives people into depression and this kind of death is horrible. Then when she confronts the people who did this to him, she sees no remorse. On top of that someone was holding her down, while someone else was doing something unimaginable to her. In addition were people watching. And it gets even better, they tried to burn her alive. Plus she is pregnant. It seems as though she might never even have kissed a guy, and then this. I'm not sure what happened in Kyunki, so I can't comment on that. But if you add the stress factors up that Shalini went through. Well I just watched an episode or two of the show and it was a bit shocking.