I just wanted to make a post about this triangle turned quadrilateral with the entry of Arjun.
Since the start there has been discussions on how DJ although doesn't love Ruhi, but is very respectful about her and how he is completely into Simone loving her most in life. However as show is progressing, I really doubt if he can really be credited for either of these positive attributes???
He might not love Ruhi, but he knows she is his wife, has he ever even tried to understand what she really wants? Maybe he cant love her or give her wifely rights, but has he even tried to find out about her passion? On how much writing matters to her and supported her in it? OK he doesn't love her, but at least do a basic courtesy of not calling your girlfriend in front of her (especially when you know she doesn't like it, and what exactly did he mean by saying that if someone sees the lipstick mark is noticed by someone, he will say that it was Ruhi's?), can there be a bigger shock given to a wife? Don't love her, ignore her, but no, DJ wants her to be a cover for his affair, what is this if not a mental assault? Only thing you can say is he doesn't physically assault her, is that all that needs to be a respectful husband? He is everything that a toxic husband can be.
DJ Simone lesser said the better. DJ might love Simone truly, but his love isn't unconditional as I asked yesterday. He wants Simone to always behave in the way he wants, Simone doesn't expect anything out of this love, she is dedicated to him, ready to let go her ideology for him and doesn't want anything from him, not even a promise of togetherness, she is ready to be his second woman throughout her life for his happiness.
DJ on the other hand hasn't given her anything except orders, never stood for his love and agreed to marry for a deal, he wants Simone to be available whenever he wants, gets angry if she takes up a project on her own(I still don't get what was his issue with Simone if she did that photoshoot of watches, its not like he had confided her plan with her), orders her to go against her ethics..
Unlike most who think that DJ's love in true and Simone's is infatuation, I think Simone is much more devoted into this relationship. She is a really strong charactered girl(hats off for showing second woman so classy), but DJ is a toxic BF to her, she deserves much better
In the nutshell, both these women who have devoted onto him unconditionally are just a matter of convenience for him, he can order them to behave the way it suits him and they dare not go against him. Be it the relationship of husband wife of be it of Girl friend boy friend, its always about him, the other person has no space in the relation over what he allows...
I really want him to have a reality check, I want Simone to leave him but not for Arjun, rather because she understands the toxicity in their relationship. Also I don't want Ruhi to be a backup plan/rebound for him once Simone breaks up with him.
Arjun Simone, DJ Ruhi if planned needs to be organically developed.