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Posted: 13 years ago
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Mai disgusts me ..
when iccha is saying and confirming that she hasnt come back for hakk but wants mai to control and improve Yuvraj who is nowhere a child who can be controlled. mai goes on to blast iccha with the adhikars and that yuvraj will do what i tell him

one of th worst grandmothers i have seen on national TV

how many times veer forgave his mother cause of iccha or just cause she was his mother but no change in the Thakur blood.

are thakurs royal? its not abt the caste system but still, nani and mai, and ofcourse the CVs of this show disgust me with their regressive plots 🤢

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yeah it disgusts me to see how much Ichcha (and basically even Archana of Pavitra Rishta) always take whatever torture is thrown. For an industry that talks a lot about women-power, most of the serials just show oppressed lead women.

Mai will get what she deserves. Hopefully Ichcha doesnt lose her spine and becomes a doormat again. Damini should smack Nani and Ichcha should smack Mai.

They need it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pip23

Yeah it disgusts me to see how much Ichcha (and basically even Archana of Pavitra Rishta) always take whatever torture is thrown. For an industry that talks a lot about women-power, most of the serials just show oppressed lead women.


Mai will get what she deserves. Hopefully Ichcha doesnt lose her spine and becomes a doormat again. Damini should smack Nani and Ichcha should smack Mai.

They need it.


Damini should smack that "good for nothing Divya" too. I am really waiting for Chanda and Amla to scheme something drastic against Mai. This bashan from Ichcha is not enough for Mai she has to suffer physically and mentally for her acts...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Even I wonder any women like Mai exist in real...
when vanch was dead she was so sad then why can't she understand the pain of iccha before making yuvi to hate his mom...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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damini and iccha have tolerated teh abuse being dished out since the time they came to the thakurs haveli

we have maids in our homes too.. even if we tell them that the utensil is not cleaned e nough they have the self respect to talk back even if they are wrong.
whereas damini iccha were right so many times but still took the abuse, its not divya;s fault cause maybe she had her insecurity with jogi being a total moron and almost like a lover running behind damini and iccha..
but nani and mai are inexcusable.
now mai will want yuvi to get married to some thakur parivar so that some akal comes to his brain which will spoil aman and muktha;s life which is extremely sad


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Posted: 13 years ago
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How can I lady be so insecure in her life for all these years, how many times she expect her husband to prove his love for her?
Can't she understand Jogi's love to Damini is a brotherly love?
Divya never took her life forward and never learnt things by experience never not even tried.
She never support Damini or Ichcha once! How rudely she behaved when Ichcha lost her son? what did she do when she came to know that her own step mother swapped Ichcha's son. Why she is holding that much grudge against Damini and Ichcha without any solid reason???
Divya deserved to be smacked by Damini atleast for her ungratitude attitude.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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divya has been ungrateful
but its definitely not true that she hasnt supported damini n icha ever

if any other woman was in place od divya, in real life i mean, she wud kick out jogi or leave jogi herself if the husband behaves like a maniac for the maid
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Actually according to me Jogi did what a responsible man do since he undertook the responsiblity and most of the time he tried to undo what his family did to Ichcha and Damini.
Damini and Ichcha are not mere servanst to Jogi, Jogi killed their breadwinner and their saviour so Jogi felt a sort of indebted to them, a gratitude shown in the form of kindness nothing else.
He was not helped them always they themselves fought and come out of the crisis.
Ok leave it everyone has their own perspective and I do respect yours.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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thank you :)

i agree with the perspectives but

even if jogi was being a responsible adult
there is a borderline to being responsible or being totally gaga over someone and neglecting ur duties towards urself or the immediate family members
how did he lose his business all of a sudden
when tapasya had run away or done her horrible deeds then also he was working and doing good for the family
and iccha goes to jail and he lost his mind and his wealth.

the connection between the two make me angry though i respect damini the most, just what she did now shud have been done before when she was being kicked around
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The first time Tapasya had gone out of Jogi's life was when he had HIMSELF kicked her out. Even after that he could see his credit card statements and tell that she's living off his money in some hotel so he wasn't really 'worried' for him.
When he cancelled his credit cards and Tapasya was in a bad state, even then HE was the one who got him out of the Basti!!!!!
So don't say he didn't worry for Tapasya only worried for Icha!!!

But this time around, when he thought Tapasya was happy in her life... having Rathore as her husband and then Yuvraj as her son... she just runs away without informing anyone... leaving everyone puzzled!!
This time he doesn't know whether she's safe, or not... whether she's even ALIVE or not!!!!!
At the same time, if the other girl he loves as his daughter, has to go to jail and cannot be bailed out for whatever reason, he has technically lost both daughters...
Losing a kid is more than heartbreaking, it's truly earth-shattering whether it's by death or some other reason!!
I can sooo identify with Jogi's postion.
When my husband was struck with an auto-immune disorder at the age of 32 and my world became upside down, I fell deep into depression and lost interest in all worldly things.
I used to do his filing, handle his finances and everything... now I have 3.5 years worth of stuff lying around and all messed up because I didn't feel like doing those things when he was in the hospital and when he came back, I had too much piled up to start afresh!!!
Not to mention my life had become totally different with him being disabled to when he was able-bodied!!!
So I can identify WHY Jogi would let go of his business and everything else when he lost both his daughters!

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