Originally posted by: colorsAddict
<font size="3">Come on Prithika...say something whole burden is on srkluvr only? we would love to hear from you. we are open, I loved her very much in teh begining...but she is unpardonable now...</font>
see i luved tapu from the start of uttaran-a rich but large-hearted girl and jogi's daughter in true sense.then cums ichcha who becomes taps constant companion and they develop a strong bond of freindship.till here everything was fine until jogi started treating ichcha as his daughter.tapasya was the only luved and pampered one in the house and all of a sudden jogi-divya's luv was divided.this was too much for a little kid.just tell me one thing how would u feel if ur mom-dad gave equal importance to a servant's child without telling u any valid reason.jogi sometimes ignored tapu and bought lot of things for ichcha which was not done intentionaly but he should have known this will effect tapu very badly.and then jealously started creeping into tapasya which was further poisoned by nani's words.and her jealousy turned into blind hatred for ichcha as she was made to beleive that her parents luv ichcha more than her,
when she grew up she was in a typical rich bad company which was the reason of her fling with sid.her hatred and dislike for ichcha had increased so much that made her do all the evil things.in her opinion ichcha got all the happiness in life by snatching away her joys'her pe=arents,her luved ones so she thinks she can have happiness by making ichcha life a living hell.
tell me in making tapu like this was it her own fault are jogi,diva and nani to be blamed for this.it was jogi-divya's duty as a parent to think before making decision of adopting another girl that it may greatly effect their own daughter to a large extent.
tapu would'nt have changed if jogi spent time with her made her understand that even if ichcha cums into their life their luv for tapu wuold never change and the most important thing he should have thrown nani out but tapu grew up under the constant influence of nani.
tapu has this mindset that ichcha is the only one who is luved which makes her hatred even more stronger