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Posted: 15 years ago
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U know when I was looking back at Veer and Ichha story..I felt that Veer-Ichha never actually had any understanding and there r numerous circumstances which I witnessed when whole day I was watching all Veer-Ichha scenes😆😳
Firstly Veer came to see Tapasya but everytime Ichha ended up spending time with him...Eventually they both fell in love..nothing out of the box..in young age if u spend more time with each other..any couple can fall for each other..lets not forget both were good looking and attractive..so the love automatically blossomed between them😳
But Ichha never showed any courage to reciprocate her love for Veer..it was always Veer who took the first step in their relationship whether its convincing Jogi or convincing his own family regarding Ichha...and Ichha just went with the flow..I never saw any desperation in Ichha for Veer's love...Its Tapasya who actually gave Ichha's hand to Veer and only then she admits her feelings openly...
When I compare the same in Vansh's case..I see exactly the opposite..here Ichha is the one who did the act of convincing Jogi for this marriage..yes we can argue that she was forced to do all this...but still for the first time she showed the courage of challenging Jogi's refusal and forcing him to say yes for the marriage...
Secondly when the grt Veer-Ichha marriage fiasco happened..Ichha could hv handled the situation in a different manner rather than easily giving her Shaadi ka joda to Tappu and asking her to sit in the mandap...she could hv gone downstairs running to Jogi and told him quickly about how Tappu is trying to commit suicide...or she could hv gone downstairs and told everyone that she cannot do this marriage becuase she can't see her friend Tappu dieing upstairs...but Ichha never showed such guts and handed over Veer to Tapasya
When I compare the same in Vansh's case...we saw for the first time Ichha slapping Tapasya and warning her to stay out of her married life...She could gather this courrage only after marrying Vansh but she continued to b timid when she was engaged to Veer...
In short we cannot really define whats true love is all about...just becuase someone is hving a better chemistry doesn't mean its true love...Love is something which happens...gradually....and if u can sustain a relationship over 30-40 yrs only then u can declare it as true love...so I don't see how Veer and Ichha's love can b defined as true love which could not even sustain for 3-4 months and the fact that Ichha sacrficied Veer for her friend Tapasya without even thinking twice says it all...whether Ichha really considered her love for Veer that true or not....because she herseld said she can sacrifice 100 Veers for Tappu..don't really remember the episode date but I saw it on youtube😆😆😆...so yeah true love..right😆
I m not saying VanCha love is true love..naah..they hv a long way to go..they need to trust each other first..open up more..share their problems together..only few coochie-cooing scenes cannot define true love...its the time factor which defines true love😊
Edited by jyoti06 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well guys it would be difficult to quote every one but,,one thing i believe from the day one that vansh-ichha dont have any chemistry....and ichha's love for vansh,,her blushing,,her expressions every thing reminds me of veer ichha romance days,,seriously no one can move on the way ichha did... if the love is true then it cant end by burning pictures and cards,,,, whatever ichha did/doing is indigestible for me,, and if they want to prove her pativrata or honest etc...then there is no need to cry when vansh was not romancing her and still ichha is no more than a nurse for vansh,,oh i forgot to wish ichha... it was world nurses day yesterday.... and veer he is also namard at times he had thousands of options to expose and get rid of taps but he preferred to play her pet.. plss guys they have no values.. dont bring sacred human relations into the discussion of uttaran.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree that Veer and Ichcha's love was pure and divine. I cannot understand why Ichcha is behaving the way she is , but being an Ichhca fan all along I take solace in the following meaning.......Ichcha is aware that Tapasya is rubbish and would die as a bachelor if not for Veer hence decides to adjust with Vansh and prove a point to Veer to get over her and move on with Taps....I know its not fair for Veer, but if may I say so...i wud say Ichcha has given Veer this punishment for failing to expose Tapasya adequately....now plzzzz its only my opinion to keep my mind to rest in this non sensical story...bass aur kuch nahiiii
Edited by shivani109 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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QUOTE=Dhriti_roy]For me Veer-Ichha love is true, pure and divine love, ofcourse we can say that it is love at first sight
but there love is purely based upon mutual understanding and admiration for each other.
Initially it must be a infatuation when both of them saw each other for the first time but Veer came for Tapasya and hence he tried his best to impress Tapasya but in the process he came closer to Ichha and get impressed by her values, morals and simplicity. In the same way Ichha too started admiring Veer's down-to-earth and gentlemanliness behaviour.
They had all the qualities which are needed for a perfect relationship- love, understanding and above all trust and the best thing was that their love was not one-sided, they had the same feelings at the same time for each other.
But in the case of Vansh- Ichha.....Vansh's love is love at first sight which with time grew into an obsession and he even didn't bother to ask Ichha abt her feelings. After marriage i think they only have passion in their love but is this enough for life time marriage......
Therefore for me there is no comparison between Veer's love and Vansh's love.....bcoz for me Veer's love is far more better than Vansh's love.....
I think its much better to say 'I Trust U' than to say 'I Love U' in a relationship.

yeah its better 2 say "i trust U" than "I Luv U".👏👏 i havn't watched sum of veer- iccha scenes as may b at dat time i was on official tour.
but 1 thing is sure dat vansh-iccha has really got da chem. i m not sayng veer-iccha didn'i've chem. but now dats gone thing.though i prefer vansh 2 b more trusting but i m only giving his ckt a chance bcoz of his past drug addiction. if he has normal past den i wud've liked iccha wid veer only.😃😃😃
and yes theres no comparison between vansh & veer's luv. both r equal in their own sense. once vansh cums out of da side effects of his past addiction den i wud like 2 see their relationship &"ll b able 2 comment or compare it wid veer's. though i feel its really bad 2 compare both's luv as they r rite in their own places.👏👏👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

U know when I was looking back at Veer and Ichha story..I felt that Veer-Ichha never actually had any understanding and there r numerous circumstances which I witnessed when whole day I was watching all Veer-Ichha scenes😆😳
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Firstly Veer came to see Tapasya but everytime Ichha ended up spending time with him...Eventually they both fell in love..nothing out of the box..in young age if u spend more time with each other..any couple can fall for each other..lets not forget both were good looking and attractive..so the love automatically blossomed between them😳[/DIV]
But Ichha never showed any courage to reciprocate her love for Veer..it was always Veer who took the first step in their relationship whether its convincing Jogi or convincing his own family regarding Ichha...and Ichha just went with the flow..I never saw any desperation in Ichha for Veer's love...Its Tapasya who actually gave Ichha's hand to Veer and only then she admits her feelings openly...[/DIV]

When I compare the same in Vansh's case..I see exactly the opposite..here Ichha is the one whodid the act of convincing Jogi for this marriage..yes we can argue that she was forced to do all this...but still for the first time she showed the courage of challenging Jogi's refusal and forcing him to say yes for the marriage...


Secondly when the grt Veer-Ichhamarriage fiasco happened..Ichha could hv handled the situation in a different manner rather than easily giving her Shaadi ka joda to Tappu and asking her to sit in the mandap...she could hv gone downstairs running to Jogi and told him quickly about how Tappu is trying to commit suicide...or she could hv gone downstairs and told everyone that she cannot do this marriage becuase she can't see her friend Tappu dieing upstairs...but Ichha never showed such guts and handed over Veer to Tapasya


When I compare the same in Vansh's case...we saw for the first time Ichha slapping Tapasya and warning her to stay out of her married life...She could gather this courrage only after marrying Vansh but she continued to b timid when she was engaged to Veer...


In short we cannot really define whats true love is all about...just becuase someone is hving a better chemistry doesn't mean its true love...Love is something which happens...gradually....and if u can sustain a relationship over 30-40 yrs only then u can declare it as true love...so I don't see how Veer and Ichha's love can b defined as true love which could not even sustain for 3-4 months and the fact that Ichha sacrficied Veer for her friend Tapasya without even thinking twice says it all...whether Ichha really considered her love for Veer that true or not....because she herseld said she can sacrifice 100 Veers for Tappu..don't really remember the episode date but I saw it on youtube😆😆😆...so yeah true love..right😆


I m not saying VanCha love is true love..naah..they hv a long way to go..they need to trust each other first..open up more..share their problems together..only few coochie-cooing scenes cannot define true love...its the time factor which defines true love😊



The only conclusion that can be drawn here is that Iccha never deserved Veer's love since she had never played her part in the relationship.

So I think it serves her right when her Dedication to Vansh is not getting reciprocated because of being misunderstood each time...

I don't know if Veer Iccha shall get married in future or not but Vansh Iccha relationship is heading for its doom if it continues like this
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes serves ichcha right
now she will at least understand what veer has been through or is going through to a certain extent ..
veer and iccha are the sacrificial lambs ...to promote the growth of taps
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Posted: 15 years ago
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and today it was super loving wife day... ichha ji was treating veer as her driver...and bhaiya was asking kids about the hidden talents of his own brother.... seriously vansh bhaiyya needs to grow up,,,,
Edited by shonuu - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shonuu

and today it was super loving wife day... ichha ji was treating veer as her driver...and bhaiya was asking kinds about the hidden talents of his own brother.... seriously vansh bhaiyya needs to grow up,,,,



yes shonnu ...if vansh tries to dig out all the hidden talents ..especially of taps ..
he will need to be in asylum soon
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shonuu

and today it was super loving wife day... ichha ji was treating veer as her driver...and bhaiya was asking kinds about the hidden talents of his own brother.... seriously vansh bhaiyya needs to grow up,,,,

yaar shonnu u r really v.funny & now dis vansh is again going back 2 square1 but yeh dracula kisika peecha chhode tab na afterall dracula sticks 2 its victims till it sucks all of its victims blood.😡😡😡🤢🤢🥱
in da end only blood"ll bavailable wid drac-naani jodi or at blood bank. & wen any member of T & B-family want blood they've 2 take it from dracula which"ll b polluted bcoz of staying there 4 so long & both family's"ll not b able 2 take it & won't b in state of going 2 blood bank. den all"ll bcum bloodless b hoots in their havelis wid dracula their king & naani as chamchi.😉😉😉😆😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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not square 1 ..but square 2 or round 2 of the game by taps madam 😆
and all the 4 idiots will aagain play ring a ringa roses ...and then sit
again taps will start a new game again ...start running around ...😆😆

Edited by vijaya_ls - 15 years ago

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