Tejo's selective behaviour regarding the affair of jasfa

I stopped watching the show somewhere when tejo started playing ghar- ghar with virks. Man even Anupama did not irrirate me this extent the way tejo does. I started re-watching the show from Angad's entry but I can't warm up to tejo. Tejo only blaming jasmine for the affair when fateh was equally involved in it is so wrong. Jasmine could not alone start an affair without fateh's consent something which tejo never gets. She treats fateh normally and keeps looking at him with her yearning eyes. Not to forget she said to jasmine once she would not leave fateh because fateh doesn't deserve someone selfish like jasmine. I'm sorry the show's makers have made a mockery of ema as if it is a normal mistake which happens. Ema is not a small mistake, it's betrayal to the sacred realtionship called marriage it's very sensitive issue. Normalising it is a very shitty thing to do. What message are they going to send through this that only the other woman is responsible for the ema happening and the man should be forgiven because he gets trapped by another woman.

I absolutely hate jasmine but I hate fateh more because unlike jasmine fateh is going to get whitewashed soon but jasmine may remain vamp whole season. If tejo ends up with fateh, she is going to be the most spineless heroine ( as if she not already). It's too much to hope from the makers but please give tejo a realisation that the fateh is equally trash as jasmine.

Except EMA is not the only thing. Despise Fateh but no, he and jasmine aren't same.

About Tejo's behavior, yes she behaves confusedly towards Fateh, she despises him, but she also loves him.

As for her different behavior, I can list a hundred things for that. KSV poisoning, paper leak, academy fraud... And unknown to both, Jass' reentry.. Which is just the topping on this shitcake. It's not just about EMA. She is angry with Fateh, and yes it get inconsistent between episodes, but she's also in love with him. Deeply. Idk why people expect her to behave like a robot who has been given instructions which would make absolute sense. Doesn't matter how much she loves him, or misses him, she won't go back to him(at least for now). She will have that self control. The only time she lost it was when Jass tried to force himself on her (and that was an exception). You can have conflicting feelings and emotions.

I returned to the show with Angad’s entry but don’t think will stay for too long. this show is another show that shows our culture‘s deep rooted misogyny. Everyone hates jasmine but has puppy eyes for fateh. I don’t get women like tejo anyway - when their marriage breaks they blame the other woman. It was not the other woman who had any responsibility or commitment toward YOUR marriage. Your husband did. He fell for the other woman. Here even fateh knows that jasmine doesn’t care about anyone but still chooses to see the good in her.

Tejo is waiting for fateh to come to her. She has the air of superiority- I know you are making a mistake, you will regret and come back to me. Yeah she may reject him initially but she will accept him back and keep him on a leash, even a shorter one than jasmine uses.

Originally posted by: Irshita

I returned to the show with Angad’s entry but don’t think will stay for too long. this show is another show that shows our culture‘s deep rooted misogyny. Everyone hates jasmine but has puppy eyes for fateh. I don’t get women like tejo anyway - when their marriage breaks they blame the other woman. It was not the other woman who had any responsibility or commitment toward YOUR marriage. Your husband did. He fell for the other woman. Here even fateh knows that jasmine doesn’t care about anyone but still chooses to see the good in her.

Tejo is waiting for fateh to come to her. She has the air of superiority- I know you are making a mistake, you will regret and come back to me. Yeah she may reject him initially but she will accept him back and keep him on a leash, even a shorter one than jasmine uses.

You said it all! I don't get this whole redemption thing for fateh that young romance starved fans are waiting for. So, he will realise his mistake and kick himself for being such an ass. Fine, but why expect Tejo to be with him.

She has had two bad experiences with men who have cheated her. At least Jass was a stranger but fateh was a friend. Fateh is far worse than Jass. Jass can be redeemed by sending him to prison but how can Fateh be redeemed?

My days with this show are numbered as well. Tejo is going to disappoint big time.

Fateh and Jasmine's mistakes are not same. In the matter of EMA, Fateh is worse than Jasmine. But other things Jasmine did are criminal activities, most of which Tejo is aware of. So it is obvious that Tejo will behave differently with both.

Coming to Tejo going back to Fateh.. I really hope a day like that won't come. But if she chooses to take that cheater back, then Tejo will definitely be the most spineless and doormat FL of ITV.

Originally posted by: aishwarya12joys

I stopped watching the show somewhere when tejo started playing ghar- ghar with virks. Man even Anupama did not irrirate me this extent the way tejo does. I started re-watching the show from Angad's entry but I can't warm up to tejo. Tejo only blaming jasmine for the affair when fateh was equally involved in it is so wrong. Jasmine could not alone start an affair without fateh's consent something which tejo never gets. She treats fateh normally and keeps looking at him with her yearning eyes. Not to forget she said to jasmine once she would not leave fateh because fateh doesn't deserve someone selfish like jasmine. I'm sorry the show's makers have made a mockery of ema as if it is a normal mistake which happens. Ema is not a small mistake, it's betrayal to the sacred realtionship called marriage it's very sensitive issue. Normalising it is a very shitty thing to do. What message are they going to send through this that only the other woman is responsible for the ema happening and the man should be forgiven because he gets trapped by another woman.

I absolutely hate jasmine but I hate fateh more because unlike jasmine fateh is going to get whitewashed soon but jasmine may remain vamp whole season. If tejo ends up with fateh, she is going to be the most spineless heroine ( as if she not already). It's too much to hope from the makers but please give tejo a realisation that the fateh is equally trash as jasmine.

I felt the same way. I really did till I realised the extent of Jamine's actions.

I will be justifying no other character but Tejo. Yes, her behaviour is inconsistent. This is because she is torn. She knows she was betrayed, she hates Fateh for that but she is also in love with him. Unloving one is a process, not something that happens magically. Tejo is still living under the same roof as him, it is going to take her time.

The reason she is worse on Jasmin is because she had done so much for her sister, and in return this what she got. Not only that Jasmine has go on to fully plot against Tejo. She has committed actual crimes. There is no way she will fall soft towards her now.

Sorry I disagree. Betrayal by Jasmine is bigger Because she is her sister, her blood. Her husband’s betrayal is huge but a sister’s betrayal is soul crushing. You griw up with your sister she is supposed to be your family forever and this same person stabs you in the back. How can one recover from that ? One can divorce ones spouse but one cant divorce ones family.

Originally posted by: kukuraja

Sorry I disagree. Betrayal by Jasmine is bigger Because she is her sister, her blood. Her husband’s betrayal is huge but a sister’s betrayal is soul crushing. You griw up with your sister she is supposed to be your family forever and this same person stabs you in the back. How can one recover from that ? One can divorce ones spouse but one cant divorce ones family.

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