Originally posted by: VintageWine
I believe he never really loved her, it was just his jawani😆. Say whatever you want, fateh was hell wrong in not having a proper talk about him losing his job. She was very clear Shaadi sirf canada wale se hogi - A, B- she told him if in case he loses his job she should be the first to know about it and aage ka plan.
He could have also stopped right at the mandap while she threw a hissy fit. He knew what a stubborn nasty pos she is.... Should have known to have patient and mannaoed her or begged his parents to wait. But heck even before his parents thought of getting another bride for him he was eager. Khair, bottom line he "no loves her" .
The last paragraph is so so accurate and true. Unfortunately most people don't realize they kinda destroy themselves hate begins to cloud their perspective.
It takes immense courage to move on and be indifferent. It takes time but when you have the predator right in face triggering you constantly, reminding you of their presence in his case, it's very difficult.
I'mma say it what I think. In ITV and culture sex is a taboo. Getting attracted to people is natural, but that doesn't mean we're going to be together, we're never taught this. In fact if you talk about sexual attraction, you're a bad person. Fateh grew up with the same ideas, to accept that he's just hots for her and doesn't know anything about her at all, would defy everything he's known, and disrespectful to both himself and jasso (in his mind).
He should have told her that he has lost the job. However he knew that she'll leave him. You can't fall in that ibadati ishq when you don't have the basic trust. People in ibadati ishq don't leave others just because they lose a job.
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