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sonal

@SONAL30

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Posted: 6 years ago

#11

Well i love this show n KalMa very much but still i accept that malhar's torcher n his abuses r going overboard now

I even pointed that out on YouTube but the problem is there most of the prople doesn't even want to listen but here scenario is different n i m actually proud of this forum that here everybody is against malhar

See problem is show is getting TRP...that means people r liking it which i can't even understand how...Matlab m still confused itna violence logo ko pasand kaisey a rha h even last week we all were discussing that makers needs to tone down this torcher varna viewers bhaag jayenge n dont worry we all r trying our best we r telling the makers on social networking sites

See we all r against this shit but the truth is we all love this show so i don't know about others but m not going to file a complaint against show coz i seriously don't want any trouble for my favorite show...n this is human nature right but m not stopping u...u r completely free to file a complaint...aur agar kuch faayda hua aapki complain ka toh i'll be the happiest one

N yeah i admit i m guilty coz m still watching this show...PEACE

Edited by SONAL30 - 6 years ago

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slippery_chilka

@slippery_chilka

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

i didnt say what they are showing that is good ya awesome soo dont misinterpret my words
i clearly said even iam not liking what they are showing but there is no need to complain as the way ur saying second
dont tell me about my limit because i didnt say about ur limit third u complain good for you as you said ur not watching the show soo leave the show
because fans know what the are watching

These are your words:

yes we are against of abuse but that is in real life not in reel life where everything is scripted and we know that

You said you are against abuse in real life, not in reel life. I have your original post quoted in my post. Which I interpreted as you thinking this is fine and awesome. You also said

there is nothing to complain about

The abuse they are showing is nothing to complain about? Surprising. Sadly some people do not know how to differentiate between real and reel. Maybe people on this forum can but not every normal viewer. That's what I meant but you keep repeating that everyone knows how to differentiate. If that were true, crimes inspired from TV shows wouldn't happen. This show has no limits to the torture it is showing. It's appalling really.

And about the limit, I asked you not to try and tell me what I am doing, feeling because you have no right to. If I saw a husband abusing his wife, I would still complain about him even if I don't know them and it's not my business because I am like that. And that's why even if I don't watch this show, I will still speak up about the despicable abuse they are promoting because it is wrong. And that is my right. If you don't agree, then you can ignore this topic and leave me alone.

Yes, Fans know what they are watching and I am asking the fans who have a problem with it to complain. I am not forcing anyone with a gun to their head.

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slippery_chilka

@slippery_chilka

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: SONAL30
Well i love this show n KalMa very much but still i accept that malhar's tourcher n his abuses r going overboard now
I even pointed that out on YouTube but the problem is there most of the prople doesn't even want to listen but here scenario is different n i m actually proud of this forum that here everybody is against malhar
See problem is show is getting TRP...that means people r liking it which i can't even understand how...Matlab m still confused itna violence logo ko pasand kaisey a rha h even last week we all were discussing that makers needs to tone down this tourcher varna viewers bhaag jayenge n dont worry we all r trying our best we r telling the makers on social networking sites
See we all r against this shit but the truth is we all love this show so i don't know about others but m not going to file a complaint against show coz i seriously don't want any trouble for my favorite show...n this is human nature right but m not stopping u...u r completely free to file a complaint...aur agar kuch faayda hua aapki complain ka toh i'll be the happiest one
N yeah i admit i m guilty coz m still watching this show...PEACE

Thank you. I do understand that you understand what the makers are showing is wrong and voicing it on social media to them but not wanting to complain because they would get in trouble. That's alright, I understand how one can love a show and want to protect it. At least you are not trying to discourage, dismiss or shoo me because you see I am right in my place. Hopefully, the show will get better and the disgusting tortures will end soon. 😊

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Lumos_18

@Lumos_18

Navigator

Posted: 6 years ago

#14

I was really apprehensive about watching this show, but the mother daughter bond attracted me.

But ever since the leads got married, I don't know what has happened really.

There was a scene where he made her stay on ice. I started getting alarm bells right from there and true to my intuition, it has only gotten worse.

I waited and waited, all the while feeling guilty for watching, for it to get better but it has only gotten worse.

I know in Indian tv, a lot of regressive things are shown. But this is really unacceptable and I refuse to see content like this. This show has very high viewership and an abusive husband later shown in a romantic light is just plain wrong.

This show depicts patriarchy, male dominance and mental and physical torture as justifiable or redeemable when it's not.

And as a responsible citizen and a self-respecting female, it would be wrong of me to support this or give excuses and justify no matter how much I love this show.

So yes, in gist I support you.

Action should be taken against this.

Edited by Lumos_18 - 6 years ago

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Nushrat

@Nush_Rat

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 6 years ago

#15

Thanks for taking the initiative. I used to follow this show for the mother-daughter bond but it has crossed its' limit a long time ago & such shows should be banned.

I am with you.

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slippery_chilka

@slippery_chilka

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Lumos_18
I was really apprehensive about watching this show, but the mother daughter bond attracted me.
But ever since the leads got married, I don't know what has happened really.
There was a scene where he made her stay on ice. I started getting alarm bells right from there and true to my intuition, it has only gotten worse.
I waited and waited, all the while feeling guilty for watching, for it to get better but it has only gotten worse.
I know in Indian tv, a lot of regressive things are shown. But this is really unacceptable and I refuse to see content like this. This show has very high viewership and an abusive husband later shown in a romantic light is just plain wrong.
This show depicts patriarchy, male dominance and mental and physical torture as justifiable or redeemable when it's not.
And as a responsible citizen and a self-respecting female, it would be wrong of me to support this or give excuses and justify no matter how much I love this show.
So yes, in gist I support you.
Action should be taken against this.

Thank you. Please fill the form and complain if you want this tortures to end. It will only take a few minutes, I promise you that and its simple. Unfortunately, the show will get a slap on its hand and a warning to buck up but it won't end, so fans can breathe easy. Unfortunately, because I personally, like you, wouldn't like to see the heroine fall in love and choose to be with an abusive guy since it sends the wrong message to females world wide, especially with the #MeToo movement going on around the world, that is trying to highlight and end the same abuses, that the show is glorifying. I saw a few clips shown by my sibling and I literally saw red. It was so horrifyingly disgusting. I had no idea about the ice slabs torture. Can this guy even be redeemed? Really? I personally don't think so.

I really wonder about the writers and what makes them come up with such disgusting abuses. Not only the physical, the "hero" even mentally abuses her and degrades her, chipping at her confidence and her self worth as a person. He makes her feel worthless, this is what drives people to suicide. What was with the sneering of "She has to go to college or he will feel ashamed of having an illiterate wife?" How is this excusable? And she will be shown romancing him later? Really? Why are they trying to show that abusive men can be changed? Because that is not true. Do these people know the statistics of how many women have lost their lives by choosing to love and live with abusive men? Because shows like these give them false hope that they can be changed if given chances over chances? Also this show is showing police in the bad light. He has no fear of the law because he is the law. 🤢 What is this show trying to prove exactly?

BTW, thank you again for the support. Please, please complain when you have time.

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slippery_chilka

@slippery_chilka

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: nushy1995
Thanks for taking the initiative. I used to follow this show for the mother-daughter bond but it has crossed its' limit a long time ago & such shows should be banned.

I am with you.

Thank you nushy.😊 Please take the time to complain in the link provided in the main post when you have the time.