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Posted: 8 years ago
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The mandir scene looked a bit random in the middle of nowhere. Serial land mein kuch bhi ho sakta hai. Kanak is firm on not changing her name. Uma doesn't protest it. May be someday it will come back. The steps scene was beautiful according me. Kanak making her point using Uma's language. But is Uma convinced? Not very sure. I feel Uma is a kind of person who needs to be probed a lot to know what is really in his mind. He forms opinions about people but never suggests them openly unless he is caught off guard in Shiv's case when he told Kanak that he didn't expect a girl like her to know about the value of relationships. I thought it was very judgemental of him and also sort of wrong to think that when he barely knew her.

And also in parallel we get a glimpse of the khichdi that been brewing in masima's head. Strange that it is her turn to plot now when she could smell everyone else's khichdi. She is very clear that till her wounds heal she will seek revenge and she knows that Palomi will be more than willing to be her partner. She knows that she can use Palomi till she wants and Palomi will happily do whatever it takes. She wants Kanak to have no identity, she wants Kanak to be a slave to Uma's thoughts and in turn her world. Is she really worried for Uma or for herself? If Kanak resists, she is even willing to separate her from Uma. She even gives false(?) hopes to Palomi.

The curry leaves and hing were used to drive home a point. It was indeed not very subtle but enough for viewers to understand what is happening story wise. But I felt it was important social commentary. Sadly, a woman's tastes, preferences and her choices are not given enough respect even today. It is always, "Why don't you eat this/ cook this? Your husband loves it! rather than. "What do you like to eat?

So, for a girl to be in sasuraal she needs to surrender herself to the tastes of the family, if she tries to mix in her tastes she will be thrown out or not accepted! Even though this is a serial and I know it is far away from real life, I love how reality of some women and their thinking was depicted and they are so absorbed in their worlds that even if they watch this episode it would probably go over their heads. I am amazed at how the writers weave in little things like these in the story line which mirrors our society and they talk about issues that reside deep inside my heart.

Vansh has a mission now, Saraswatichandra, oops!

Mission Saras!

Operation Saras!

Tu saras , mein Vansh !

Tu kaun hai Saras?

Vansh ki waxed hands ki kasam, I am confused.

Issi confusion ke saath,

Shatru ji ne kaha hai,

Jali ko aag kehte hai,

Bhuji ko raak kehte hai!

Jai Bholenath!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Desi Tadka 3

Too shocked and disgusted to say anything. What the hell was that? I never thought the writers would go this route. I think they should be more careful as to what they show. And how can so much of fire cause only that little harm? Absolutely shocking and very irresponsible of the makers, the way that scene was executed. Of course they have all the liberty to show whatever they want but I think this was very poorly executed and will do more harm than good.

So Masima wants to destroy Kanak's identity. But in the process she will hurt herself. But, Uma will again be that person who will heal her wounds. What shocked me further was no one was able to see through Masi's acting. Not even Uma. Or did he? He did protest for a bit which I thought was good but then he gave in.

Masi is using Kanak's strength and weakness she can do anything for the people she loves. But the lines are blurry between hate and love. Being a protective mother is one thing, being manipulative and making it a war is another. I would understand if she sulked, or even hated Kanak but this makes me sick.

Coming to Palomi, wearing masi's Saree and coming in front of Kanak and asking if Kanak felt bad. She has just entered the first step of her self destruction. In the end she will have only herself to blame.

Dost ya Premika?

Ye banda itna shirt oops kurta kyun nikaltha hain?

Aur yoga karne se 6 packs milte hai?

Where did all his chest hair go? Koi Ayurved ka raaz?

Sirf sawaal.. jawaab koi nahi.

Jao ja ke KBC dekho.

Shubh Ratri.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Woh Banda hamara eye feast keliye apna chest hair tyag Kiya( wax).
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sandhya456

Woh Banda hamara eye feast keliye apna chest hair tyag Kiya( wax).



🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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😆..may be he uses knife..and chest hair ka mundan karthein hein..probably his special dharm grandh says its paap for a man not to shave and show his 6pack abs..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: deeps07

😆..may be he uses knife..and chest hair ka mundan karthein hein..probably his special dharm grandh says its paap for a man not to shave and show his 6pack abs..



Ye kaunsa granth hai? 😲

Isko jaroor padna chahiyiye muhje!😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Desi Tadka 4


Can a husband and wife be friends?

I have battled with this question for long. I hate to say this but I agree with Uma on this. A marriage requires compromise but friendship doesn't necessarily. I definitely feel your husband can be your lover but can't be your friend. You can share your bed with your husband but sometimes you can't share your feelings with him.

Because ego is something you need to deal with on a daily basis if you are married. Because a marriage is not about two people like in friendship. Because you have to take care and balance so many things especially when there are so many people involved.

You have to camouflage your anger, mince your words, and even hide your happiness in cases. There is always the danger of jeopardizing so much if you ever show your true colours. All I am saying is you can never be completely open about the way you are in a marriage. And I am not saying only the woman does all of the above, a man also has to compromise equally to make the marriage work. Am not talking about trust, respect, or love, the dynamics of marriage and friendship are totally different.

So there is a little glimpse of the future with the Suman Saras conversation or is Vansh convinced with Bhabho's words? Looks like Saras is too mature in spite of being lost in her love stories. But which girl doesn't like to have her own love story? Will be interesting to see how that develops.

I tell you our Uma bittuwa is very fast and probably flexible too (yoga)! The way he pulled Kanak towards him. And seems like he doesn't need movies to teach him how to romance his wife. He deserves an award for his patience. All the meditation has prepared him for this.

Chai se rishta?

Yeh Rishta kya kehlta hai?

Galat show.

Jai Ram ji!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think our hero read a book to learn how to romance with wife.may be kamsutra.(saying just for fun)
Mostly, all the serial heros don't do romance till 200-300 episodes.all the heros wait so patiently.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: desigal2017

Desi Tadka 4


Can a husband and wife be friends?

I have battled with this question for long. I hate to say this but I agree with Uma on this. A marriage requires compromise but friendship doesn't necessarily. I definitely feel your husband can be your lover but can't be your friend. You can share your bed with your husband but sometimes you can't share your feelings with him.

Because ego is something you need to deal with on a daily basis if you are married. Because a marriage is not about two people like in friendship. Because you have to take care and balance so many things especially when there are so many people involved.

You have to camouflage your anger, mince your words, and even hide your happiness in cases. There is always the danger of jeopardizing so much if you ever show your true colours. All I am saying is you can never be completely open about the way you are in a marriage. And I am not saying only the woman does all of the above, a man also has to compromise equally to make the marriage work. Am not talking about trust, respect, or love, the dynamics of marriage and friendship are totally different.

So there is a little glimpse of the future with the Suman Saras conversation or is Vansh convinced with Bhabho's words? Looks like Saras is too mature in spite of being lost in her love stories. But which girl doesn't like to have her own love story? Will be interesting to see how that develops.

I tell you our Uma bittuwa is very fast and probably flexible too (yoga)! The way he pulled Kanak towards him. And seems like he doesn't need movies to teach him how to romance his wife. He deserves an award for his patience. All the meditation has prepared him for this.

Chai se rishta?

Yeh Rishta kya kehlta hai?

Galat show.

Jai Ram ji!


very nice post ...good analysis on the epi ...

please post it as new so that no need to serach for new ones in ur thread
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sandhya456

I think our hero read a book to learn how to romance with wife.may be kamsutra.(saying just for fun)

Mostly, all the serial heros don't do romance till 200-300 episodes.all the heros wait so patiently.




Ah ha.. I see! 😆

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