Gaurav Chopraa aka Rajkumar Fanclub# 3* - Page 114

Originally posted by: vinnu-gaurav

Hey Everyone... time to rejoice is around the corner!
Who is taking initiative to start FC# 4!!This shud be even more special cos our GAVRAU BHAI is also 04-04 Bithday boy!!!! 😊 !!

Why dont you start it? After all, let one fan club for Gaurav be started by a guy 😃

Originally posted by: jojo_100

scenario no 1 waqi no 1 hai 👏👏 👏 ...kash aisa ho jaye ,to kitna maza aye 😍😍😍

Thank you!!

You go on day dreaming... show mein na hi, hum fan club mein toh Abhimanyu ko ek love story de hi denge 😃... after all, jab Gaurav ke liye itni saari ladkiyaan dhoondhi thi, toh Abhimanyu ke paas toh permanent job hai 😆 😆

Originally posted by: scorpiongal

Shvetal….i too liked the scenario one. The thing which excited me most is the big perspective u laid out abt the story. The placing of events that how the two ppl will come in contact, how the start sharing, how the understanding develops & culminates into a commitment…it's very nice. (dj's plz give it a thought.)…..😃😃

And I agree…. .that Abhi has not been vulnerable all times. He is a good soldier, a charming guy and hv a very good understanding of human nature & persons. But still ..his vulnerabilities are a part of him.

Personally..i don't look insecurities as a bad thing. These occur into every person, time to time. Samay was also insecure & vulnerable….but his case was different from 'abhi'. Samay's frailties came into existence when a girl he wanted to marry with , dumped him for another guy ..so when he again fell in love ..he couldn't stand the hatred & rejection of rusty & turned an extremist to get her. His insecurities were occasional..or we can say that he was insecure only as a lover…not as a son or as a friend or as a businessmen or as a brother or as a person. 😊

But 'abhi's insecurities are not occasional. his insecurities have always resisded inside him but they become apparent time to time. He lacked emotional bonding as a son, as a friend, as a teacher & as a lover too. Abhi is living his longing for emotional support & attachment since his childhood. Because he has always been treated on the basis of position and authority. His relation with his father has been less of a 'son & father' and more of a 'prince and king'.

His relation with raj lacked attachment because of their differences of ideologies abt violence & wars..being an army man. Again the 'position' in life stood between two friends.

His relation with his students again put him in his authority or power proving mess. Coz he felt that his students regard him as a teacher who failed to save his cadet & thus they will accept him on the basis of his power not his feelings. 😭

Abhi's emotional needs have been, unrecognized, untouched & unrewarded. They never got a surface to come out & blossom completely. So..this time when I think of someone as love of life…I would prefer it to be someone with whom he doesn't hv to go in a process of "Competing & Proving." Because he has spent his life in this. As a son.he had to prove his dexterity to become a good prince, to become a good soldier with his friend & to become a strong & protective teacher with his students. Acc. to me ..Relationships are a way to self-discovery. They gives u a room to explore urself, to know urself, to understand urself in a better way, to spesk urself , to act urself, to realize urself & finally to accept urself..the way u are. So..i would like to see someone..with whom he feels being himself ..in whom he can rely without thinking that what difference it would cause to their relationship. Someone who can make him feel that he is desired and wanted the way he is..and he don't need to prove himself. 😊

Thank you. Given my willingness to visualise, will someday write a post taking the story forward... now i know how people start writing fan fiction 😆 😆

About insecurity, its a part of life and therefore out of the pale of good and bad for me... i agree with you that Samay was not insecure in his other relationships, though there too he had his vulnerable moments... his world fell apart when he discovered he was adoped, for instance.

As for Abhi, i think his insecurities are a part of him, alongwith the other qualities that i have outlined. As for not being loved since childhood, i have my reservations about going as far as that... but i do agree that the show has always hinted at a difficult and uneasy relationship with his father and with his lineage.

As for not having to prove oneself, sounds perfect to me 😊... but i dont think life works quite like that. Even when two people understand each other entirely, completely and in every way and at every level, there is still the desire to prove oneself, to explain oneself.... not necessarily because the other person wants you to, but becuase you want to do it for them. Anyway, this varies from relationship to relationship and therefore it will come down to how the writer visualises it, how the actors enact it and how it is shot and edited.

Originally posted by: whynot

Why dont you start it? After all, let one fan club for Gaurav be started by a guy 😃

But i think Our GC wud like a GIRL only to do the honours... 😉

Originally posted by: whynot

As for not having to prove oneself, sounds perfect to me 😊... but i dont think life works quite like that. Even when two people understand each other entirely, completely and in every way and at every level, there is still the desire to prove oneself, to explain oneself.... not necessarily because the other person wants you to, but becuase you want to do it for them. .

this is exactly i wanted to say...when u r in a relationship & u enjoy & love being in that relationship...the willingness to prove urself is not annoying or cutting. One likes to prove himself for the person he/ she cares. so..if abhi will go on proving himself on his free will..it is fine....good infact..because doing something to regard ur loved ones..makes ur realtionship even better. till now..abhi went on proving himself ..no because of his happy will but because of his obligations or rejections. and that was disheartning.. 😊

Originally posted by: vinnu-gaurav

👏 Waah! Kya socha hai!! Is B ka hi to khel hai...

agar ye B na lagati jojo 🤪hamare "Big B type " ke liye to aaj LRL mein hoti...🤣🤣

aye mere shaitani hum-nafso😡 !!! ye tum dono mujhe ghalat patti kyun padha rahe ho 😕 k agar ye B na hota to aisa hota 😍 ...B na hota toh waisa hota 😍....

KHABARDAAR Oyeee!! jo phir jojo ko bhatkane ki koshish ki toh 😡😉

Originally posted by: scorpiongal

shayad warnings kha kha k mere taste buds kuch kharab se ho gaye hain 😭...... waise shweta ji meine 10/10 marks iss trouser ko nahi GBC ko diye hain😳 👏 ... yani k unki shakal ko diye hain 😊 unke pehnawe ko nahi 😆...

Originally posted by: vinnu-gaurav

But i think Our GC wud like a GIRL only to do the honours... 😉

mr vinnu think-tank apki thinking ghalat hai 😉... ab aap bahane mat banao aur FC banane mein lag jao 😃..jaldi karo 😡

Originally posted by: jojo_100

shayad warnings kha kha k mere taste buds kuch kharab se ho gaye hain 😭...... waise shweta ji meine 10/10 marks iss trouser ko nahi GBC ko diye hain😳 👏 ... yani k unki shakal ko diye hain 😊 unke pehnawe ko nahi 😆...

phir theek hai jojojaan..mein tumko iske liye..100/1o deti hoon...😃

but kya fayda..tum mujhe huggies to dogi nahin..tumko gulaabo ji se darr lagta hai..😊...hai..meri huggies....😭😭

Originally posted by: whynot

Thank you. Given my willingness to visualise, will someday write a post taking the story forward... now i know how people start writing fan fiction 😆 😆

fan fiction by shvetal 👏 ...aha aha !! kya facfiction hoga😍 ...

shvetal ji apke muun mein ghee shakar ooop maggie noodles 😆...