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Posted: 18 years ago
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1. Follow a heathy way of living a life, getting up early - Excercise - Eating healthy - sleeps on time.

2. Unhealthy habits on living life.

Final outcome.

There is no gaurantee if one follows 1 or 2 on when life might bid good bye.

Whatever efforts you take to lead long life sometimes are subjected to set backs.

Debate - Is life unfair? (Please think about Yes or No) and then answer...

Your suggestions/thoughts on this.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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good topic, will follow this one from sideline 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Life is very unfair, but you just have to live it with a smile on your face.

There is no guarantee that if you do a certain thing then your life well be great or vis verse.

You can have everything and yet have nothing.

-Rimpy
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Yes most often it is.. but we tend to compromise ourselves into convincing ourselves otherwise most of the time... 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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hmmmmmm ... interesting topic .... okay get ready for another one of my run-on posts 😆:

life is both fair and unfair ... i know that doesn't answer the "yes-or-no" question ... but keep reading ... it will eventually 😆

i'm a strong believer in karma and rebirths ... my take on it is that everything that happens in one person's life is constantly being weighed on a balance ... when the side that is fair gets a little heavy ... life compensates by adding some unfair things ... and vice-versa ...

now one (and this could include me too as i'm often on the "unfairness-receiving end" of life) will argue ... that what about the fact that there are so many people suffering so much in one life that it is impossible to imagine that they ever had anything fair in their lives ....... my response to this is once again: karma ....... as i said life is like a balance .... although this balance is weighed constantly ... there are very many people who end up with imbalanced lives ... either too fair or too unfair ... when this happens it is balanced out in your next life ... so if you had an extraordinarily fair life in your 2nd birth ... your third one will show you the ugly filp side of that coin .... and vice-versa

okay so i don't want to sound like some sort of spiritual guru ... as i'm so far from it ... i have those days too where i can't fathom what i had done in any life to deserve whatever is happening to me at that time ...... and honestly most of the time i do feel that life is unfair ... but i always try to remind myself that my next life will balance things out ..... unfortunately other than trying harder to improve the situation i'm in at the moment, this is the only consolation i have ....

so i guess my answer to the "yes-or-no" question would be .... yes life can be unfair ... but that is because all your lives in all your births need to balance themselves out ...

i do strongly wish however that life always struck a balance in each birth so that the next one wouldn't have to make up for the imbalance of the previous one
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Who said life was supposed to be fair? It is what we make of it and how we deal with it. Keep working at it and look at positive things in life and count your blessings. Grass always looks greener on the other side. My 2 cents on this. 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Who said life was supposed to be fair? It is what we make of it and how we deal with it. Keep working at it and look at positive things in life and count your blessings. Grass always looks greener on the other side. My 2 cents on this. 😃



I agree with DB absolutely!!!! 👏👏

Life sure seems unfair to us, but our intellect in incapable of reasoning beyond😳 whatever is visible to us in this time and space.

we should do the right thing anyway!!
"karmanyevadhikaaraste.. maa phaleshu kadaachana"
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Life is not Unfair....Thats what i think

If there is no life, then how could you post this topic 😆 .... Then how do we register on IF 😉 ...Then how do we use internet 😆 , Enjoy the Moments in School life 😆 and College life 😆 ...Affairs with Girls or Girls with Boys 😆 ...Making Friends 😆 , Watch Films 😆 , EAt and Drink 😆 .....
I've just some of things....there are a lot more.... But there is alwayz a reson behind everything, so there is a reason behind this one also... 😉

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: raj5000

1. Follow a heathy way of living a life, getting up early - Excercise - Eating healthy - sleeps on time.

2. Unhealthy habits on living life.

Final outcome.

There is no gaurantee if one follows 1 or 2 on when life might bid good bye.

Whatever efforts you take to lead long life sometimes are subjected to set backs.

Debate - Is life unfair? (Please think about Yes or No) and then answer...

Your suggestions/thoughts on this.

To quote from Anand (the movie) - "jeena aur marna to upar waaley ke haath mein hai jahanpanah..."

Whatever comes between birth and death is mostly our own doing - it's up to us if we sit and mope over the setbacks, or get over them and try to move ahead! Once again to quote from Anand:

Zindagi Kaisi Hai Paheli Haaye
Kabhi To Hasaye Kabhi Yeh Rulaye

Kabhi Dekho Man Nahin Jaage
Peeche Peeche Sapnon Ke Bhaage
Nis Din Sapnon Ka Rahi
Chala Jaaey Sapnon Ke Aage Kahan
Zindagi Kaisi Hai Paheli Hai

Jinhon Ne Sajaye Yahan Mele
Sukh Dukh Sang Sang Jhele
Wohi Sunkar Khamoshi
Yoon Chale Jaaey Akele Kahan
Zindagi Kaisi Hai Paheli Hai

Paheli - yes! Unfair - no😛

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Who said life was supposed to be fair? It is what we make of it and how we deal with it. Keep working at it and look at positive things in life and count your blessings. Grass always looks greener on the other side. My 2 cents on this. 😃

Yeah I agree with DB. Why blame your life or god or something, you reap as you sow. Yeah sometimes you also suffer for other people's mistakes or natural disasters, but that's just a part of life or external circumstances that are beyond our control, can't really blame life for that.

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