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Posted: 18 years ago
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Communication is paramount for any relationship, particularly between husband and wife. Most serials show what happens when important things are hidden from the significant other. SR is another example.

Suman should have confided in Rajeev, not only what had happened to Tanu but also how Shalaka keep taunting her. Together they can find a solution to the problem.

It may be more difficult to confide about Prem. But then since she knows Rajeev's character by now she should not hesitate in telling about him too. She can make him understand that she did not deliberately set out to deceive him. She could remind him of the many times when she tried to tell him before the marriage but how circumstances did not allow her to. But for this she has to first confront her own feelings for Prem. Going by his behaviour lately she should realise she is better off without him.

Well if everything happens according to this we may not have a story. Maybe that is why they always show characters hiding things from each other. Personally I find it ery difficult to keep a secret. so cannot understand others who do.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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but sometime inrelationship some used to hide thing cause of loosing some one
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i totally agree with optimist. in the husband wife relationship, there is always mis-communication or no communication. that is why you see lot of divorces going on.

I dont know how Suman will handle two secrets to rajiv in her life? one is out about tanu and another of prem. I belive Suman is going to wait will six months and then reveal about prem and her relationship. Suman wont tell at the moment coz at the moment.

there is going to be series of happeningin saathi Re.
1. Tanu MMS
2. Jignesh in jail
3. Prakar overpowering the company.
4. Adesh and vishaka marriage( could be a possibility)
5. Tanu and prem relationship.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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u r so right. communication is must between husband and wife. by which your relationship's bonding become more stronger. but problem is if serial's heroines dont hide anything from their husbands, we wont have the story.

i agree that no matter wife shouldn't hide anything from husband. sometimes it may happens that for some reason and for the benefit of others, you have no choice but to hide the thingfrom him.

here suman share a special relation with rajiv. their relation is not a typical wife-husband relation. reason we all know. "suman's past". here it is more of suman's duty & responsibility than rajiv that their married life goes smoothly. because suman knows under which circumstances she got married to rajiv. rajiv dont know anything about it. so his behaviour and reaction comes
in a natural way with suman. if suman wants that their marriage life goes smoothly, she should not hide anything from rajiv. not a big thing and not a small thing. on the contrary she should take rajiv into confidence in every matter. as i said suman's intension was not wrong but the way she choose to solve the matter is wrong.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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ya optimist. there should not be a gap of communication between husband and wife. that is the key element which bind this relation more strongly.

rajiv never hide anything from suman. he always express his thoughts to her. so she knew, how rajiv is by nature. so it was suman's duty that she should have aware rajiv about tanu from the very first day she saw tanu with kul. if not that time, she must have told him as soon as she had that sms. but she didnt. she must understand how rajiv feel when the whole sms issue come out in the family? so now if rajiv gets angree with her, it is not appropriate for suman by accusing rajiv that he once told her that he will always be with her side. he is always be with her side no doubt. but when things affects their married life or family or character of the person, hiding thing from each other is not good.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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ya optimist. there should not be a gap of communication between husband and wife. that is the key element which bind this relation more strongly.

rajiv never hide anything from suman. he always express his thoughts to her. so she knew, how rajiv is by nature. so it was suman's duty that she should have aware rajiv about tanu from the very first day she saw tanu with kul. if not that time, she must have told him as soon as she had that sms. but she didnt. she must understand how rajiv feel when the whole sms issue come out in the family? so now if rajiv gets angree with her, it is not appropriate for suman by accusing rajiv that he once told her that he will always be with her side. he is always be with her side no doubt. but when things affects their married life or family or character of the person, hiding thing from each other is not good.

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