why girls dont flirt??

well its mostly seen that its guys who flirt more…and gals don't….maybe they (girls) kind of encourage them😆…but don't do it themselves….even at IF…u will find lots of flirts around…...and all guys…I haven't found a single girl who flirts openly….(ofcourse they too do it..but inside) …………….now why is that???

Also guys express their love or whatever so easily…I ve seen many screaming on top of their voices…that they love so and so girl… but gals don't do that…to the maximum they would name is their fav. Actor or any other celebrity..for which they would be fighting for…but no guy in real……why???…………(if u visit our chit-chat section..you will understand better..as to what I m saying…I m not naming anybody here…its jus an example)

So why do u think it is this way??

Are girls too scared to let out their feelings?

Or do they never fall in love or like soemobdy?

Do the guys actually mean it….when they scream out loud that they love xyz girl?

Also….

If a guy flirts around and has lots of gf's… ……he's termed as COOOL!!!

But if a girl flirts around has lots of bf's…….what do u think??? Is it right? Or is it wrong?

So friends….pls answer these qns.. and let me know your opinion on it……

well its mostly seen that its guys who flirt more…and gals don't….maybe they (girls) kind of encourage them😆…but don't do it themselves….even at IF…u will find lots of flirts around…...and all guys…I haven't found a single girl who flirts openly….(ofcourse they too do it..but inside) …………….now why is that???

Sometime it's not even encouraging Star, sometimes you've some friends who gang up against you to bug forever. 😡 (Yes, I am referring to Sapnu 😛)

Also guys express their love or whatever so easily…I ve seen many screaming on top of their voices…that they love so and so girl… but gals don't do that…to the maximum they would name is their fav. Actor or any other celebrity..for which they would be fighting for…but no guy in real……why???…………(if u visit our chit-chat section..you will understand better..as to what I m saying…I m not naming anybody here…its jus an example)

I've never done that either because I am not crazy about anyone. I don't believe in love anyways and cyber love definitely not. That's why and to tell you the truth 99% times when guys are screaming on top of their heads about the 'love' they're usually lying or just doing it for fun or to bug someone.

So why do u think it is this way??

In real life, I think if girls even like someone they are shy to say it in front of all the people. And on net, they know that the guy is just flirting or bugging them so there is nothing like confession.

Are girls too scared to let out their feelings?

Well, this can only be answered by girls who have fallen in love and those who don't say anything about it. Since I don't belong to either category, can't really answer.

Or do they never fall in love or like soemobdy?

I can't talk about every single girl on Earth but for me that's true. I've never fallen in love. As far as like goes, I do like Shahid, Arjun Rampal, and Samir Soni. But that's just liking in terms of good actors. Nothing like craze or anything.

Do the guys actually mean it….when they scream out loud that they love xyz girl?

Nope. I think when guys actually love someone they'll tell about it only to her and if things go well then probably yeah but most of the time that happens is usually they are flirting or bugging a friend.

Also….

If a guy flirts around and has lots of gf's… ……he's termed as COOOL!!!

Cool?? I'd call that anything but cool. If you have a girlfriend then you should be honest and loyal only to her. If you mean girlfriends in terms of what it means today then it'll be bad if the guy has more than one girlfriend. If just technically friends that are girls are named as gf's then that's fine and is neither cool nor bad. It's just that probably the guy is a good friend

But if a girl flirts around has lots of bf's…….what do u think??? Is it right? Or is it wrong?

^^^ Same applies to girls as well.

Originally posted by: Naina_Manam

well its mostly seen that its guys who flirt more…and gals don't….maybe they (girls) kind of encourage them😆…but don't do it themselves….even at IF…u will find lots of flirts around…...and all guys…I haven't found a single girl who flirts openly….(ofcourse they too do it..but inside) …………….now why is that???

Sometime it's not even encouraging Star, sometimes you've some friends who gang up against you to bug forever. 😡 (Yes, I am referring to Sapnu 😛)

^^😆😆

c'mon naina..u ve only answered for IF…but in general….i don't think many girls do flirt around…and sometimes ya..they do encourage guys to flirt with them..........

Even on IF….jus b'coz Sapna says it…...does everybody flirt??? I don't think so….what if they too have some special feelings for u….who knows???? (u know whom I m talking bout…right?😉😉)

Also guys express their love or whatever so easily…I ve seen many screaming on top of their voices…that they love so and so girl… but gals don't do that…to the maximum they would name is their fav. Actor or any other celebrity..for which they would be fighting for…but no guy in real……why???…………(if u visit our chit-chat section..you will understand better..as to what I m saying…I m not naming anybody here…its jus an example)

I've never done that either because I am not crazy about anyone. I don't believe in love anyways and cyber love definitely not. same here…. That's why and to tell you the truth 99% times when guys are screaming on top of their heads about the 'love' they're usually lying or just doing it for fun or to bug someone.

In case of net…ya it could be for fun….but in real life I don't think so…..i feel if a guy (or a girl) screams out bout his love…then they surely must be serious…….otherwise…not for fun..would anybody do that….at least not guys…coz this would mean "no more flirting for them"….and besides u need real guts to do that….

So why do u think it is this way??

In real life, I think if girls even like someone they are shy to say it in front of all the people. And on net, they know that the guy is just flirting or bugging them so there is nothing like confession.I agree

Are girls too scared to let out their feelings?

Well, this can only be answered by girls who have fallen in love and those who don't say anything about it. Since I don't belong to either category, can't really answer.

Maybe they are…………….

Or do they never fall in love or like soemobdy?

I can't talk about every single girl on Earth but for me that's true. I've never fallen in love. As far as like goes, I do like Shahid, Arjun Rampal, and Samir Soni. But that's just liking in terms of good actors. Nothing like craze or anything.

Hey u are a lot like me….even I m not crazy bout anyone....i just cant be….but there are some actors whom I like…..(i don't think its necessary to mention them…..)

Do the guys actually mean it….when they scream out loud that they love xyz girl?

Nope. I think when guys actually love someone they'll tell about it only to her and if things go well then probably yeah but most of the time that happens is usually they are flirting or bugging a friend.

Here I disagree…..i have already mentioned why^^

Also….

If a guy flirts around and has lots of gf's… ……he's termed as COOOL!!!

Cool?? I'd call that anything but cool. If you have a girlfriend then you should be honest and loyal only to her. If you mean girlfriends in terms of what it means today then it'll be bad if the guy has more than one girlfriend. If just technically friends that are girls are named as gf's then that's fine and is neither cool nor bad. It's just that probably the guy is a good friend

ya I mean it the other way….n believe me…..what I said actually happens…..….its like if a guys has a lot of gf's..he's the coolest dude……

But if a girl flirts around has lots of bf's…….what do u think??? Is it right? Or is it wrong?

^^^ Same applies to girls as well.

No I don't think the same thing applies to girls also….and I m not talking bout net here….i mean in real life…..a girl having a bf (not just friend) is not always taken positively…….

loll maybe we shud considerin how much guys flirt 😡

Are girls too scared to let out their feelings? nope...I don't think so...I think its because if they express their feeling then they will love the person forever...unlike boys...who go and say I love u to any girl they meet

Or do they never fall in love or like soemobdy? they do...but as I said...they only say it when they mean it

Do the guys actually mean it….when they scream out loud that they love xyz girl? nope...most of the time no...as soon as they feel they r attracted to someone...they start saying I love u to the person...and iwll make the girl feel as if he will always love her..

If a guy flirts around and has lots of gf's… ……he's termed as COOOL!!!
thats how they r raised for everything...if a boy is not organized...its ok...because he is a boy...if he is not that polite...its ok because he is a boy...thats how the parents raise boys...and thats how society accepts them...they can do whatever they want and no one will ask them

But if a girl flirts around has lots of bf's…….what do u think??? Is it right? Or is it wrong? again...bechari girl...she has to be perfect in everything...coz she is a girl..

I think both should be raised equally...so its bad for both boys and girls...to have lots of bfs/gfs

we're jus too coool for it,lol

^^^ 😆 too right!

and also...we dont NEED to flirt....we're so perfect that we dont NEED the tool of flirting... 😉 😆

i personally think its better if the guy does it, if a girl does it unfortunatly some guys say she has loose morals, thats just the way it is

well its mostly seen that its guys who flirt more…and gals don't….maybe they (girls) kind of encourage them😆…but don't do it themselves….even at IF…u will find lots of flirts around…...and all guys…I haven't found a single girl who flirts openly….(ofcourse they too do it..but inside) …………….now why is that???

Sometime it's not even encouraging Star, sometimes you've some friends who gang up against you to bug forever. 😡 (Yes, I am referring to Sapnu 😛)

^^😆😆

c'mon naina..u ve only answered for IF…but in general….i don't think many girls do flirt around…and sometimes ya..they do encourage guys to flirt with them..........

Even on IF….jus b'coz Sapna says it…...does everybody flirt??? I don't think so….what if they too have some special feelings for u….who knows???? (u know whom I m talking bout…right?😉😉)

I am not declining that girls don't encourage but girls seem to keep their feelings to themselves most of the time and usually they wait for initiative from the guy.

No, Star, not all, see flirting in today's time is just considered funny. Friends bug each other or just be funny and I know who you are referring to but let me know there is nothing at all like that.

Also guys express their love or whatever so easily…I ve seen many screaming on top of their voices…that they love so and so girl… but gals don't do that…to the maximum they would name is their fav. Actor or any other celebrity..for which they would be fighting for…but no guy in real……why???…………(if u visit our chit-chat section..you will understand better..as to what I m saying…I m not naming anybody here…its jus an example)

I've never done that either because I am not crazy about anyone. I don't believe in love anyways and cyber love definitely not. same here…. That's why and to tell you the truth 99% times when guys are screaming on top of their heads about the 'love' they're usually lying or just doing it for fun or to bug someone.

In case of net…ya it could be for fun….but in real life I don't think so…..i feel if a guy (or a girl) screams out bout his love…then they surely must be serious…….otherwise…not for fun..would anybody do that….at least not guys…coz this would mean "no more flirting for them"….and besides u need real guts to do that….

Yeah you're right but I know some guys who'll just do it for fun in real life too. It's not like they are serious and everyone knows that but they'll just do that to either gain attention or just for 'fun.' Maybe not so literally scream on top of their voice but it does happen.

So why do u think it is this way??

In real life, I think if girls even like someone they are shy to say it in front of all the people. And on net, they know that the guy is just flirting or bugging them so there is nothing like confession.I agree

Are girls too scared to let out their feelings?

Well, this can only be answered by girls who have fallen in love and those who don't say anything about it. Since I don't belong to either category, can't really answer.

Maybe they are…………….

Or do they never fall in love or like soemobdy?

I can't talk about every single girl on Earth but for me that's true. I've never fallen in love. As far as like goes, I do like Shahid, Arjun Rampal, and Samir Soni. But that's just liking in terms of good actors. Nothing like craze or anything.

Hey u are a lot like me….even I m not crazy bout anyone....i just cant be….but there are some actors whom I like…..(i don't think its necessary to mention them…..)

Oh that's good, we have many similarities then except you like to bug me and I am too innocent for that. 😳😆

Do the guys actually mean it….when they scream out loud that they love xyz girl?

Nope. I think when guys actually love someone they'll tell about it only to her and if things go well then probably yeah but most of the time that happens is usually they are flirting or bugging a friend.

Here I disagree…..i have already mentioned why^^

Also….

If a guy flirts around and has lots of gf's… ……he's termed as COOOL!!!

Cool?? I'd call that anything but cool. If you have a girlfriend then you should be honest and loyal only to her. If you mean girlfriends in terms of what it means today then it'll be bad if the guy has more than one girlfriend. If just technically friends that are girls are named as gf's then that's fine and is neither cool nor bad. It's just that probably the guy is a good friend

ya I mean it the other way….n believe me…..what I said actually happens…..….its like if a guys has a lot of gf's..he's the coolest dude……

Well, probably for other people, yeah, but I just answered according to my beliefs and he would be anything but cool.

But if a girl flirts around has lots of bf's…….what do u think??? Is it right? Or is it wrong?

^^^ Same applies to girls as well.

No I don't think the same thing applies to girls also….and I m not talking bout net here….i mean in real life…..a girl having a bf (not just friend) is not always taken positively…….

Of course it's not, but again I answered according to my beliefs. A guy having a lot of girlfriends and a girl having a lot of boyfriends both is disgusting according to me. There is something like loyalty and respect in this kind of relationship.

Originally posted by: Naina_Manam

No, Star, not all, see flirting in today's time is just considered funny. Friends bug each other or just be funny and I know who you are referring to but let me know there is nothing at all like that.

Alright!! Alright!!! I know…its all a joke..i was jus kiddin yaar!!😉😉😆

In case of net…ya it could be for fun….but in real life I don't think so…..i feel if a guy (or a girl) screams out bout his love…then they surely must be serious…….otherwise…not for fun..would anybody do that….at least not guys…coz this would mean "no more flirting for them"….and besides u need real guts to do that….

Yeah you're right but I know some guys who'll just do it for fun in real life too. It's not like they are serious and everyone knows that but they'll just do that to either gain attention or just for 'fun.' Maybe not so literally scream on top of their voice but it does happen.

That's bad..if guys does it for fun😕….but I always thought that since its not easy to let the whole world know bout ur love…. they would be serious bout it……😳

but…one thing I know for sure is if a girl says out loud…she is serious…😳😳

Or do they never fall in love or like soemobdy?

I can't talk about every single girl on Earth but for me that's true. I've never fallen in love. As far as like goes, I do like Shahid, Arjun Rampal, and Samir Soni. But that's just liking in terms of good actors. Nothing like craze or anything.

Hey u are a lot like me….even I m not crazy bout anyone....i just cant be….but there are some actors whom I like…..(i don't think its necessary to mention them…..)

Oh that's good, we have many similarities then except you like to bug me and I am too innocent for that. 😳😆

Not its not true…since u r always being bugged so much…I do try to support u😊…..but don't know why it always turns out to be against u😉😆….. believe me I m as innocent as u😃…..its jus that ppl don't understand me…n I hardly explain myself….😃

If a guy flirts around and has lots of gf's… ……he's termed as COOOL!!!

Cool?? I'd call that anything but cool. If you have a girlfriend then you should be honest and loyal only to her. If you mean girlfriends in terms of what it means today then it'll be bad if the guy has more than one girlfriend. If just technically friends that are girls are named as gf's then that's fine and is neither cool nor bad. It's just that probably the guy is a good friend

ya I mean it the other way….n believe me…..what I said actually happens…..….its like if a guys has a lot of gf's..he's the coolest dude……

Well, probably for other people, yeah, but I just answered according to my beliefs and he would be anything but cool.

I have nothing against ur beliefs…I ve answered according to what I have seen…..😳

But if a girl flirts around has lots of bf's…….what do u think??? Is it right? Or is it wrong?

^^^ Same applies to girls as well.

No I don't think the same thing applies to girls also….and I m not talking bout net here….i mean in real life…..a girl having a bf (not just friend) is not always taken positively…….

Of course it's not, but again I answered according to my beliefs. A guy having a lot of girlfriends and a girl having a lot of boyfriends both is disgusting according to me. There is something like loyalty and respect in this kind of relationship.

Oh!! Forget it….there are always different rules for guys n gals… so I don't wanna comment on it further………😕