Shiv's anger and refusal to listen to Surili because she didn't share her problems with him prompted me to open this topic.
We all know that Shiv and Surili are extremely different people.. in fact they are polar opposites.
Some key differences amidst the many -
Surili is free-spirited and believes in living each day as it comes while Shiv lives each day with a plan. He has a tight schedule and knows what he wants from his life, his family, his work and now Surili.
Shiv sees the world in a black and white way, where everything is absolute - its either yes or no, either everything or nothing while Surili sees the world in greys where emotions and decisions aren't a simple yes or no.
Surili values comfort while Shiv is image-conscious.
While differences aren't always bad, and sometimes open doors to new experiences and help keep excitement alive in a relationship, some differences can make it difficult for two people to see eye to eye in a relationship and drive a wedge between them.
My question is - are these merely differences that you think they can work around, or are these red flags that they are ignoring?
Don't just limit your discussion to Shiv / Surili. Please feel free to bring in your real life experiences.😊
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