Unpopular opinion - Sai is a horrible mother

Sai may be a feminist but she only thinks what is best for her (getting away from Viraat etc) Which mother would marry a guy without thinking of her daughter once? What is better for Savi - living with a family who clearly does not want her there and have barely accepted the mom OR live with her grand parents and brother and have a normal upbringing? I am not saying she should have got back with Viraat but def should not have rushed into marriage with a guy and forced her daughter to accept the living situation. Is sai even ready to take on responsibilities of a wife and bahu while her two kids suffer? 

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Originally posted by: Shvets84

Sai may be a feminist but she only thinks what is best for her (getting away from Viraat etc) Which mother would marry a guy without thinking of her daughter once? What is better for Savi - living with a family who clearly does not want her there and have barely accepted the mom OR live with her grand parents and brother and have a normal upbringing? I am not saying she should have got back with Viraat but def should not have rushed into marriage with a guy and forced her daughter to accept the living situation. Is sai even ready to take on responsibilities of a wife and bahu while her two kids suffer? 

It is not an unpopular opinion … its a fair enough.. one .. I feel Sai is doing the same thing with Virat n Chavans what patralekha did with her .. Patralekha tried keeping baby Vinayak away from her .. ( and Virat and Chavan family stupidly supported her as Vinayak was an infant ) .. she kept Savi away from her father n grandparents..  assuming she can give her a better parvarish..Virat n patralekha adopted Vinayak without knowing his reality.... Today Vinayak is refusing to accept Sai is his real mother as he is attached to his adopted mother who brought him up ..  Sai has started doing the same mistake .. she is letting  Savi get attached to Satya .. telling her she can’t live with her real father .. and family ..Savi is a small girl .. what if after 2 months she starts having the same real father vibes from Satya ( fairly natural ) he’s. A nice guy and tells her own father police uncle ..How is Sai different from Patralekha..Patralekha did it when she had given birth to Vinayak .. as a surrogate .. yaha toh sai ne satya ( who wants a real family ..  free pass de diya hai ) isn’t it being unfair to Savi n Virat .. How is Sai different from patralekha ..People want Vinayak to accept Sai as his aai and in the same coin want Savi to forget that she has a baba … .. why the duplicity 

Edited by msin - 11 months ago

A worse decision would be for her to potentially get back together with her ex-husband who has a volatile temper and is abusive, and who is also STILL married to his wife. Raising Savi in a hostile environment, and her growing up ultimately watching and realizing her mother has no place in her father's life while he plays house with his CURRENT wife is not better. 

What would be the alternative - she stay single permanently and continue to let her ex-husband play house with her and his current wife? How does Sai remarrying make her a bad mother? Many women who are divorced/widowed re-marry for whatever reason, and their minor children live with them. It is very common. Are they bad mothers? NO. They do what it takes to survive, be it for another chance at love, safety, stability or whatever. And so far, Satya and his family haven't mistreated Savi at all. In fact, 99% of them adore her already, and she is comfortable and healthy.

Besides, Sai hasn't kept the child away from her father. She is simply moving on, and since Savi is a minor, automatically she stays with her mother. This is the case in most countries where the mother gets custody of children. So how is she keeping Savi away from Virat? 

Savi having a lavish lifestyle doesn't mean she's having a good upbringing. There's a difference. The Chavans have proven to be a hateful, narcissistic, and toxic group, so would it be responsible for Sai to let her child be raised in a family like that, especially after being abused by them herself as a young woman?

Edited by mara89 - 11 months ago

Hai na, Sai living with her abusive ex, who was stalking her as his mistress, while bearing her son's hatred, would have been better. Savi getting abused by his wife and witnessing his volatile temper and abuse at the drop of the hat would be better

Popular opinion: Sai is a good mother 

Unpopular kaha ye toh aajkal bahut popular hai...

Savi should have been staying at Chavans jaha pure din kisi ko pata hi nahi hota bacha khana khaya ya nahi, where no one knows where the kid is..

Edited by asmi_ekaa - 11 months ago

Very very popular opinion is  fictional character virat chavan is exemplary role model for all fathers

Obviously Savi would have a great life living with toxic and criminal people. 

She would have learned so much from her Baba about two timings, misusing his position, getting away after doing crime if you are Chavan, seeing her mother getting mistreated, getting locked in rooms when u don't agree to get best DCP

Sai is such a bad mother. She should have left her daughter at CN with toxic criminal people. How dare she separate blood relations, even if they are abusers and people who drugs the daughters of their house, ruining their mental condition. How dare she take her daughter to a household where she is loved and respected as ghar ki lakshmi. Most importantly, how dare she think about her self respect, her dignity, her daughter's well being and her son's mental peace. She should have agreed to stay with her toxic ex, being happy with whatever crumbs of affection he bestows on her acc. to his mood. Such a bad mother and a kalank on all the sanskari obedient women.