Kuch kuch hota hai. A movie that's lived by our hearts all our lives. 90's kids will understand!😳
As much as I love the movie, but my perspective towards has changed. Rahul and Anjali best of friends. And Aman the one with one sided and unconditional love for Anjali!
As much as I believe "Agar woh mera/meri sabse achi dost nahi ban sakti toh mujhe usse pyaar hi nai ho sakta" True! To be able to love someone you have to become their friend first. Certainly their best friend.
But did Rahul ever love Anjali?! Why did he not care to find out about her whereabouts when she disappeared from their lives ? Did he ever respect her as a woman?! He starts making fun of her as soon as he sees her dressed like Tina. And suddenly after all the years?! What changed then? Because now she was physically attractive? The only point is why did he not ever try to find out about her whereabouts and suddenly he's all in love with her? Did he ever love Anjali? Or was she just filling absence of Tina? Wat if Tina was alive? Then?
Cut to Aman. A man who loved her unconditionally. Aman's pehla pyaar was Anjali. He treated her so right in every way. Like he said "Pehla pyaar kya hota hai woh mujhse pucho" Aman's first choice was always Anjali. His number one! And still she chose Rahul over Aman!
Growing up I've realized If I was Anjali I'd choose AMAN! <3 I wouldn't want to be someone' s second choice. I'd rather be someone's Pehla Pyaar. Growing up is realizing Anjali should have married Aman.
P.S. My mother always tells me Shaadi usse Karo Jo tumhe pasand karta ho kyunki woh tumhe hamesha Khus rakhega. Kyunki tum uski pasand ho.
So anyone reading this who would you choose? Someone you love or someone who loves you?! Rahul or Aman? Who was right for Anjali?!