Is he guilty of being a man

Without a doubt.

Aisa kuch Anuj ne kiya hota toh bhar bhar ke adjectives and choicest Greek words nikalte.

For being a man, for not having toxic masculinity, for showing his vulnerable side..that his feelings doesnt matter at all??

I rarely watch Anupamaa's episodes nowadays but today i watched and it was hard watch.

How can literally EVERYONE be so inconsiderate towards Anuj?? Why nobody wants to give him time to grieve?? Why the heck is Holi celebration so damn important than a person's feelings?? 

And why is taking decision on his behalf that he HAS to celebrate holi when he dont want to..

I feel like its because he's a man of Anupamaa's world. And here mens are not supposed to have feelings or emotional pain. Had any woman went through the same, she would've got lot of sympathy and space to cope up with pain. Here, Anuj is getting nothing...no space, no time, no sympathy. Infact he's getting told how wrong he is.

Also his and Anupama's pain is not same. Anupama probably cried more when Samar's ex gf Nandini left than the time when Choti Anu left

For being a man, for not having toxic masculinity, for showing his vulnerable side..that his feelings doesnt matter at all??

I rarely watch Anupamaa's episodes nowadays but today i watched and it was hard watch.

How can literally EVERYONE be so inconsiderate towards Anuj?? Why nobody wants to give him time to grieve?? Why the heck is Holi celebration so damn important than a person's feelings?? 

And why is taking decision on his behalf that he HAS to celebrate holi when he dont want to..

I feel like its because he's a man of Anupamaa's world. And here mens are not supposed to have feelings or emotional pain. Had any woman went through the same, she would've got lot of sympathy and space to cope up with pain. Here, Anuj is getting nothing...no space, no time, no sympathy. Infact he's getting told how wrong he is.

Also his and Anupama's pain is not same. Anupama probably cried more when Samar's ex gf Nandini left than the time when Choti Anu left

The thing is that if they want to celebrate , do it but why keep dragging him in between in the name of his first Holi after marriage . Everyone putting it like he's doing a sin not coming to celebrate because it would hurt his wife. 😒

Dheeraj literally said : BHAI MUJHE KOI FARQ NAHI PADTA TU DEPRESSED WIPRRSSED HAI... BAS HOLI MANANE CHAL TO CHAL.... TERI BIWI KA EX SASURAAL IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT THAN YOUR FEELINGS...