Originally posted by: SwatchColor
In Main Hoon Aparajita the lady (Aparajita) is left alone with her three daughters after her husband (Akshay) falls in love with another women (Mohini). 15 years later he comes back and his wife kicks Aparajita and the children out of their house to claim her rights on being Akshay’s wife. Chhavi’s been traumatized and on her birthday she would always call Akshay to come and visit but he wouldn’t and she would get panic attacks.Honestly out of all the daughters (eldest to youngest/ Chhavi, Disha, and Aasha) Disha has been the ONLY one to stand with her mother (Aparajita) even though she has developed anger issues because her father (Akshay) left Aparajita and has become cold towards him. Aasha, being the youngest, hasn’t even had a proper conversation with her father b/c he left Aparajita when she was pregnant with Aasha. Hopes this clears some things.
adding on to these;
chhavi has a cut-throat father complex, more ubiquitously known as "daddy issues". Her father abandoned her and she seeks love, validation, security and comfort from her partner. veer provides all these but in a very toxic and abusive manner (unhealthy possessive, isolating her from the people around, manipulation etc.). although she doesn't realise it, she chooses to see all of his red flags as a sign of affection and love. she places him on a pedestal and idealises whatever he does. her attachment pattern is an anxious one.
Asha is only 16 and has her own fair share of issues although they aren't as overt. She seems generally stable mentally and emotionally. granted, she hasn't ever seen her father or had an actual conversation with him but she has a pretty doting mother and sisters who love and adore her. I am confused as to why they keep mentioning that she is a mini version of Disha. I personally don't see the similarities.
Disha is the complete opposite of chhavi. her attachment pattern is avoidant. in the early episodes, she expresses her disinterest in finding a romantic relationship and distrust of love itself. the only person she has actually let in is her mother. Of the sisters, she seems to be the most responsible and headstrong. it could be the result of always needing to be there for her mother and sisters. I personally see her as the protector. her anger issues are understandable and expected even. it makes sense for her to be the last one to crack and call Akshay "papa" and that too under pressure.
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