Few years ago I was a fan of Ranveer's unabashed self and Vijay D's slight arrogance because back then all those things were how I used to perceive a drive to achieve things, a very raw energy which I enjoyed and somewhat connected to.
Cut to few years later, I kind of realize that it is important to regulate the quirks in your personality as per the time and event, as shrewd as it might sound, that is more sustainable and tacit. Not to lose your original self, but slightly regulate it because there are so many things to manage in a social setting, not just your energies and emotions but of others as well, that includes both older and younger folks, juniors and seniors. So that way, I prefer a bit of toned down, well thought-out picture if that is what helps you float and thrive. This is of course more applicable when you reach a certain stage because then the equations get more complex and you are not simply responsible for yourself but a lot of other significant stuff.
All in all, it is important to find a balance of your original self and simultaneously adjusting the settings of your personality that makes easier for people around you to approach you or deal with you. Sometimes you might feel cocky and have that little desire to showoff, truly have the whole limelight on you but it is better to put on a bit of humility even if it pretence because that goes a long way, just an example.
Regarding managing their married lives/ affairs, it is one thing I am very indifferent about, they can do as they please.
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