does romantic love exist? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Supari_khala

Yes but no more than 3-4 years on average for me. Isse zyada mujhse nahin hota, bhaiya

I feel like I always skip the romantic love stage and leap right into obsession. Like I won’t love you but I’ll follow you home kinda vibes. Okay I’m exaggerating big time but ya get me, right? 😆

Originally posted by: Flyhigh_9

Yes but only 4-5 yrs as it's expiry date is just slightly longer than that of pantene shampoo (pantene shampoo expiry date is : use 3 yrs before mfg date)

But what I think about romantic love in real life does not affect my viewing or reading of love stories in fiction.

Oh because since i can be a bit skeptical about love in real too so it does affect my consumption of such fiction,i wish to be completely involved in it but i just keep wondering if such love exists in real life.I am not talking about dupattas flying or hour long eye locks but about the intensity of feelings.

That example of pantene shampoo though😆

It's just temporary. You can't expect someone to be romantic with you 24/7 for your whole life, especially after you have kids and other things to stress about.

Real life love is nothing like the filmy love shown on TV. It requires so much more effort/ maturity and understanding

Originally posted by: PyaasaMacchhar

I don’t know much about romance and true love, but my parents seem to be in love even after all these years.

They fight, have screaming matches, bitch about each other, but will get back to being all lovey dovey right after.
My mom would often just stick to dad like a baby monkey or betaal (the height difference helps), misses him when he’s not around, often telling me “tere papa ke bagair bilkul jee nahi lagra” which is usually every day he goes to work.

A few years ago, my dad would steal flowers from his office garden and then get down on one knee to offer them to my mom, then my mom would force me to click pics. He stopped when the office maali got suspicious.😆
They’ll go out of their way to make the other comfortable, sometimes being annoyingly self sacrificial.

There are a lot of other annoying and not so annoying things they do.

So I guess it does exist, but needs a lot of patience.

But then again, what do I know.

Your parents love life sounds a lot like mine.😆

Originally posted by: Shwetha02

@Bold

True story of most of married people... I would be suspicious if my husband is not fighting with me😆

Patience is th key...whether it is love,romance or marriage👍🏼

Fights are very important to keep a relationship going and make your bond stronger. Warna uderstanding kabhi develop nahi ho sakti aur relationship bhi pheeki par jati hai😆

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I feel like I always skip the romantic love stage and leap right into obsession. Like I won’t love you but I’ll follow you home kinda vibes. Okay I’m exaggerating big time but ya get me, right? 😆

Isn't that everyone at the beginning of every relationship. So you're completely normal.😆

Originally posted by: la_Reine

Isn't that everyone at the beginning of every relationship. So you're completely normal.😆

What relationship though? I’d be happy to even be on a first name basis. 😆

Originally posted by: la_Reine

Fights are very important to keep a relationship going and make your bond stronger. Warna uderstanding kabhi develop nahi ho sakti aur relationship bhi pheeki par jati hai😆

True👍🏼

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

What relationship though? I’d be happy to even be on a first name basis. 😆

Then it's even more normal.😆 My husband used to stalk me on social media like crazy for years before I even accepted his proposal, stayed awake all night and what not. I only started stalking him after marriage.😆

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

What relationship though? I’d be happy to even be on a first name basis. 😆

Rahul. 😛Rahul naam hai mera. 😛Naam toh suna hi hoga?😛😆