Good morning girls!!!
Thanks for this detail, my friend❤️ I watched late last night, after a emotionally charged day, tired, thought I would unwind🤢 Bruhhhhh....... What should I say? I am a hypocrite😲 How do you unwind when you know that there are hints of irritating drama in the offing?😡
These lines indeed are gold when you look at the context of Imlie and Aryan👍🏼 or just in vaccum. I just couldn't enjoy them at all🤢, as the poor guy is being taken for a ride and we know why these lines are being uttered👎🏼. He thought, she is talking about themselves and has those warm fuzzies, which he clearly feels and shows in his eyes😭 ( remember, this guy can show us anything with his eyes without opening his mouth👍🏼). But her agenda is different, something so rhetorical and stupid😡
It absolutely made no sense applying it to Arpita. Come on, that family went through the worst trauma ever possible. They lost their pillar of support, their elder, their son, brother, husband, friend, protector and they haven't even dealt with their grief😭. What they thought was an unfortunate accident by riled up emotions, turned out to be a vile, intentional homicide😭 In this context, who talks about " some Sundar-jeevansaathi" because you have a tunnel vision? 😡 While she herself who was in an abusive, non-relationship thought that it could be years before she can move on. Arpita in a loving, cherished relationship, who just went through a gut wrenching trauma should be married off ASAP with a jeevan saathi👎🏼.
And it is ridiculous to assume Sundar-jeevan saathi would give her a secure, safe relationship. The guy is ever in a inferiority complex ridden mind-set, I am only a " naukar", his words, not mine👎🏼. So, what confidence is he going to give her? Every time a BM utters these words, he will withdraw into his shell and cry and Arpita has to cajole him out of it?
Girls, if we want to take away anything from this show, today's gyaan from me...... if you are with a guy/girl who feels inferior ( so called inferirority complex), please run in the other direction.😡 They make their companion's life a living hell- cos' whatever you do, you are out to get them😲 You smile- you are laughing at their plight, you cry- you want to show the world how miserable you are with them, you dress up- you want to show off how good you are to the world, you don't dress up- they got a dowdy spouse, you succeed- you want to show off you are better than them, you fail- they are the unlucky ones who has to put up with a failure like you. so on and so forth...... I think you are getting the idea. In some sense, a guy/girl with superiority complex like the dreaded patrakaar is better, because their head is in the clouds, jahan bhi dekhein, khud hi nazar aate hain, they are the best, their work changes the world, their life is the most unique ( I guess so, with two wives and multiple marriages), their intentions are the best, so on and so forth.......😡They don't see you anywhere in their vision and so won't bug you🤔 So take your pick😃I am no psychologist or psychiatrist, just some observations looking at the world my profession lets me watch So, please take this with a pinch of salt. Moving on......
I am hopeful Aryan will put the stops to this runaway Imlie train👍🏼But, nevertheless, he will be like us eating his words at the end, agreeing what a progressive, visionary Imlie is😡 This is giving me the heart burn😡He already said that his 4 years of grief is a story he cooked up in his head and not real😡😭. He doesn't stand a chance with the concept of "Imlie is the only well wisher who knows what is good for Arpita😡" A loving and responsible brother toh shortsighted hain, who doesn't care/know or understand what is good for his sister😡
Remember, she already cured Nishant's leukemia with marriage😡 She will cure Arpita's grief with marriage too😡 I am beyond annoyed😡
I could care less about the rest of the episode. And then the preaching and gyaan about role and responsibility of wife thrown in for a good measure had be completely undone😡 Need to find something more cerebral girls🤔 This show is provoking unnecessary angst😡 If character Aryan goes down, there is nothing in this show😭. I didn't sign up to see an impulsive 19 year old playing God😡in every freaking way.
Sorry, Shalu for venting here and forgive me for the early AM rant🤢
Edited by mili9 - 2 years ago
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