Dear Makers, Thank you for making a mockery out of abuse survivors!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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They might need a Jupiter sized dabba to white wash trashraj now coz makers dont seem to back down from their mission anymore.I am pissed today but more than that hurt and curious to know the reason as to why did they write a scene with Anuj and V being a witness to her break down. Why the hell do men have to be weaved in every story even when the narrative doesnt require them😔😔😔 Recently, Greys anatomy had an episode with a domestic violence and sexual abuse survivor. During the epi, the actor who played the survivor(also a real abuse survivor herself) was feeling shame and fear to the point she dint want to be treated for her wounds and she whimpered at the sight of a man so all the women in the hospital line the halls with other women co workers and prohibited any man to enter. The scene itself was an inspiration from a true incident at a hospital in Virginia, USA. The director once said, we dint require a man to remind us we are strong coz this fight is personal for our species and we sisters are enough to show solidarity!! Mukku's outburst today would have been more powerful if that vulnerable yet powerful moment was just between her and Anu coz they were enough!!šŸ’«šŸ’«šŸ™


Episode begins with Anuj wishing he was dead instead of being witness to such a nightmare that is eating up his sister. Just when he finds solace on Anu's laps, Vanraj makes an entry. Honestly I am out of vocabulary to even understand why would makers fit him in this track??like why??why? 🤢🤮


Back at shah's, most of them are relieved to know the kapadias are fine. Someone really need to shut Kavya right now, like right now or am going to throw something at her. Seriously, what have they done to her character man.. her cribbing and nagging have reached new levels of annoyance🤯🤯 she is again instigating Pakhi against Anu stating 'Mukku and her bhai are a priority to Anu and not you' ..like who does that? They all write their New year desires on paper chits, greet each other and go to sleep and Kanhaji couldnt be more thankfulšŸ™


Vanraj is seen consoling Anuj with his trademark dialogue ' mein bhi ek bhai hoon' yes you are the brother who constantly reminded your sister of all the sacrifices you made for her and when she questioned a decision of yours, you wanted her to forgo her share of property! Waaah! The whole I am there for you monologue made my skin crawl. Anuj/Gaurav's expressions to his craps summed up everything for me. I could write pages here decoding his expressions but his face deffo screamed "Kya ch@$#&pa hai"!!šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


Anu nursing Mukku's wounds by asking her to let out the anger and hurt with the bg of Rahman's Bombay theme was haunting!! The scene personally hit me coz when I saw my mom going through this almost kissing death everyday, my only solace and light in the darkness was Ar rahmans music. Music from Roja and bombay felt healing and hopeful and today listening to it felt like life has come a full circle!! The music actually has lyrics in the movie towards the climax and one of the lines in tamil quotes "Vidiyathu iraivendrum vaanil illai, oli odu oli serattum" which means there is no night sky that doesnt turn into dawn...a line apt for Mukku or any trauma survivors. This too shall pass!!

Precap- Vanraj takes over as the angel guardian of the house when he says Anu Men should change for this to change. Ahem! Ahem! Anuj is missing and Anu drags Mukku to go look out for him. I think they are throwing her a surprise party may be. Anu was dressed in the bts pics we all saw!

Verdict- the impact of the message that makers wanted to convey lost its plot when they decided to include an abuser himself in the narrative. Epi dint work for me at all! I will leave few clips of trashraj down here for the new fans who are here post Anuj's entry. Now you guys tell me if he is indeed the most appropriate person for this track. Dhanyavad!!


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Posted: 3 years ago
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I totally agree with you Makers have made a total mockery of the DV track. won't say much, because I have finished my venting session on twitter and I just can't anymore lest I ruin my entire day. I won't be surprised if Gaurav/rupali post a nice reel today as damage control. The CVS totally missed the mark with today's episode. I so relate to the Grey's anatomy episode. that one was so breathtaking. total let down by today's episode... utter rubbish
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Thank you sunshine! šŸ¤—

I have no motivation to watch the episode. Beautiful line indeed - " there is no night sky that doesnt turn into dawn"ā¤ļø

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yr aaj sach bolu to review tak padhne ka man nahi h

I don't know tumne dekha kaise ye sab I think bahut patience h yr tumme mere andar nahi h mera synopsis and precap se hi para chad gaya

Aur dekhti to kasam se galiya nikal jati aaj 😔

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Completely agree with each and every word.

Trashraj ke bare mein to kya hi kehna....so leave it. Subah subah mood nahi kharab karna apna mujhe.

The only saving grace for makers will be that at the end it will turn out that trashraj was being just chameleon and saying all these nice words to win MaAn, mukku's trust and at ultimately he will show his true face by usurping kapadia empire.

If not this then they must show trashraj had some kind of hidden agenda behind acting all nice suddenly.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunshine36


Verdict- the impact of the message that makers wanted to convey lost its plot when they decided to include an abuser himself in the narrative. Epi dint work for me at all! I will leave few clips of trashraj down here for the new fans who are here post Anuj's entry. Now you guys tell me if he is indeed the most appropriate person for this track. Dhanyavad!!



Thanks Sunny.


To say that today I have reached a point where I question and regret my choice to see this serial wont be wrong.

I said few days back, am sensitive and would like them to handle this correctly.


And they didn't disappoint me, anything absolutely anything for the Hero or KhalNayak.


Making him witness, giving his tipadi.. why didn't Anuj showed his the door like he used to with Anu or say it's his family matter like he used to tell Anuj..


Are kaha, Anupama aur Anuj ki kya aukaat, jo wo Vanraj uff makers Laadla ko kuch bole..


This time, I will and so want the TRP drop and SM troll to really hold makers accountable. They can't abuse the position and power viewer's gave them..


Just the way Vanraj abuses MaAn, these makers are abusing the viewers..


I have not seen the torture episode neither have seen Saturday wala. Reading update is enough of torture for me..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yaar..I commend you to see the episode and share this detailed analysis. Mera to blood boil ho raha hai sirf padh ke hi


Thanks again Sunny.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Sunny- absolutely agree to your post word by word 1000% percent.



Felt so disgusted seeing V pour in sympathies and mouth mard badalna etc etc. I had poured in out in DD thread so calm now but it was blood boiling to watch 😔



Exactly, the scene would have been more powerful with just Anu n Mukku… men were not needed. Mukku pouring out her anger and ripping the pillow …uff those scene was painful and heart wrenching moments.


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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

Completely agree with each and every word.

Trashraj ke bare mein to kya hi kehna....so leave it. Subah subah mood nahi kharab karna apna mujhe.

The only saving grace for makers will be that at the end it will turn out that trashraj was being just chameleon and saying all these nice words to win MaAn, mukku's trust and at ultimately he will show his true face by usurping kapadia empire.

If not this then they must show trashraj had some kind of hidden agenda behind acting all nice suddenly.



Yaar bhale hi show him as the biggest khalnayak in end. It won't take away the fact that makers didn't provide the required compassion to this track... Muku should have got chance to heal in private..

Why are Anuj and Muku wounds available for public display. This is outright disgusting for me.

He could have just got to hear it somehow and use to take advantage but why why he has to sit in that house.

But ya hi is makers ka Laadla and this track is created for his bada aadmi dream to ...

Bhad main jaye muku, Anuj and wo viewer's who are so emotionally attached with these characters

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Whose idea is it to include V in every scene! This was certainly very very ill placed. Didn't know why I expected them to act sensitively towards a delicate topic and hoped they'd keep their hero out for the day.

The scene with just the three was so impactful. I felt like hugging them and joining them on Anu's lap. This episode could have gone down as one of the best presented but no! They had to bring "tache on white"

Biryani mein elaichi feeling aa rahi. Poore muh ka taste bighad diya. Hope the trp falls. They should learn and wake up


Kudos to you Sunny for going through the epis without missing a beat. The line you used and translated for us is amazingšŸ‘šŸ¼ More power to you girlā¤ļø

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