I Am Disgusted

I had decided not to watch the cafe kurukshetra but after reading so many posts praising Virat’s blunt words to Paapi Patralekha I gave in. However, after today’s episode I have to say how disgusted I’ve felt. PP is beyond psychotic. She needs to be admitted in a mental hospital. I mean my 3 year old son better understands when told NO multiple times to not touch a forbidden thing.

As for SaiRat. I was all for Virat showing some indifference towards Sai but here I feel like makers are overdoing and his character is being ruined beyond repair. How does he justify his coffee date with Paapi and make it look like Sai is misunderstanding? How is this okay? How is this not mental torture to Sai? How dare he?!? I feel like if makers need to seriously open their eyes and brains and fix this. I’m so fed up of them showing things for the sake of drama. I strongly feel Virat owes Sai an explanation. He cannot blame her for the distance she is creating between them or the wall around her when she repeatedly has to take this nonsense from Virat and Patralekha?

At this stage makers are showing that it is OK for a man to go do whatever he wants with his EX or any other woman for that matter and it can be brushed off if he presents the story in his way? He doesn’t owe a single explanation to his wife? My brain hurts…how is this okay? How is this not disgusting the audiences? How is Paapi still sachai ki muharat and the perfect Bahu? Are the makers portraying that a perfect Bahu is a cheat, a liar, capable of an EMA and still be the goddess in the family? I just don’t get it!!! Please entertain me with your thoughts friends. Till then, I’ll go in my “do not watch” zone to save my sanity.

Oh don’t u know? When a man is in the throes of lovvvve, his suspecting his wife wrongly & mistreating her friend & taking offence to her normal innocent friendship & accusing her of bad character is fully justified & in fact demonstrates his intense passion. Jealousy is a sign of a man’s love, no? The wife has to look at him understandingly & forgive lovingly.

But when a woman who is in lovvve takes offence to her husband moving closely with another woman (that too an ex) or accuses him of not moving on or speaks sharply to the other woman, it is unjustified & demonstrates her pigheadedness & immachoority. The hubby has to look at her like she has gone mad & is talking thru her hat.

#Ghumgyan

Pakhi was literally begging Virat..like how on sarth they are showing her soo desperate. Virat can not be more clear to her than this about the fact that he does not want to go away from Sai. But she is kust not ready to process it…its obssessive ….and how does this women have the audacity to blame Sai for starting blame game and try to mince her words to what she was actually here for..? Women you where literally a few moments a go planning to break Sais marriage by suggesting Virat to divorce her and then you can unite with him..you can not mince it…and why hide the fact that you guys are meeting outside if apprently there is «nothing» between both of you..?

Virat is being unreasonable to Sai..she has all the right to think what she is thinking…and she is not thinking wrong…pakhi was here to plan her future with Virat….and he is making the same mistake again as Samrakhis wedding time…hiding it from Samrat to give him his happiness but is he really doing it? He is forcing Pakhi on him despite knowing she does not love him and still has feelings for him…agar itna ho pavitr bhawnae thi tum dono ki toh bata dete na Cafe jane se pehle samrat aur sai ko….

I disagree that Virat has been clear. He is not clear until he says the one thing - only thing that has Pakhi holding on to him - I TAKE BACK THE STUPID VAADA. Without saying that, all his spasht words are hollow.

True that…the frame of mind pp is in he needs to say it actually. Lekin uska kiya bharosa..voh bhi uske dimaag main ghusse ke nahi…kehti rahe please aisa kaho aisa mat kaho…

I'm disgusted at what a horrible brother Virat is to Samrat. The guy who started all this mess by hiding his past relationship with Pakhi now wants to hide his not so normal coffee date from Samrat too! Wow what a hypocrite. Typical male ego I can do whatever I want to with a girl but no one can question me. Okay so the deal wife has no rights according to him but what if it was Samrat, Shivani Bua, Mohit or even one of his Seniors from work? Would he still have that I don't have to give an explanation look? Deal marriage or not in the eyes of society they're still husband and wife, and the entire cafe witnessed how these two acted like lovers having a fight. Sai's friends also saw their behavior. My god how I wish Sai continued to sit there laughing with her male friend and sit close to him, let's see how he reacts with that.

After hearing that obsessive rant from Pakhi he still wants her to get back together with Samrat. He must truly hate his brother to set him with Pakhi and destroy his life forever.


Does it mean after all that he still sees the goodness in Pakhi, her maturity, her composure? But one mistake from Sai and she gets the full indifferent mode from him.

Originally posted by: Bana

Oh don’t u know? When a man is in the throes of lovvvve, his suspecting his wife wrongly & mistreating her friend & taking offence to her normal innocent friendship & accusing her of bad character is fully justified & in fact demonstrates his intense passion. Jealousy is a sign of a man’s love, no? The wife has to look at him understandingly & forgive lovingly.

But when a woman who is in lovvve takes offence to her husband moving closely with another woman (that too an ex) or accuses him of not moving on or speaks sharply to the other woman, it is unjustified & demonstrates her pigheadedness & immachoority. The hubby has to look at her like she has gone mad & is talking thru her hat.

#Ghumgyan

Sad…but TRUE… cannot deny this hypocrisy that is being displayed on National television on a Number 2 rated show, followed so dearly by so many people. I wish they would send the right message across to help address some of these problems in domestic households, but its almost as if they’re encouraging the behavior by “okay”ing it on television.

Originally posted by: Abida_angel

Pakhi was literally begging Virat..like how on sarth they are showing her soo desperate. Virat can not be more clear to her than this about the fact that he does not want to go away from Sai. But she is kust not ready to process it…its obssessive ….and how does this women have the audacity to blame Sai for starting blame game and try to mince her words to what she was actually here for..? Women you where literally a few moments a go planning to break Sais marriage by suggesting Virat to divorce her and then you can unite with him..you can not mince it…and why hide the fact that you guys are meeting outside if apprently there is «nothing» between both of you..?

Virat is being unreasonable to Sai..she has all the right to think what she is thinking…and she is not thinking wrong…pakhi was here to plan her future with Virat….and he is making the same mistake again as Samrakhis wedding time…hiding it from Samrat to give him his happiness but is he really doing it? He is forcing Pakhi on him despite knowing she does not love him and still has feelings for him…agar itna ho pavitr bhawnae thi tum dono ki toh bata dete na Cafe jane se pehle samrat aur sai ko….

EXACTLY…PP stood there claiming Sai is wrong and a minute ago she was asking her husband to divorce Sai. But all of that is supported by Virat and hence it has only gotten worse. I’m just so speechless.

My issue to be honest has been with the fact that Virat even agreed to meet her outside. If there is truly nothing, why even say yes? Why can’t he just say NO and move on? Anyway, I know its required for the show to go on…but yaar I’m so fed up of this nonsense.

Originally posted by: Bana

I disagree that Virat has been clear. He is not clear until he says the one thing - only thing that has Pakhi holding on to him - I TAKE BACK THE STUPID VAADA. Without saying that, all his spasht words are hollow.

Agree!! And I believe its high time he says these words CLEARLY in front of the family to Sai and Samrat. I’m so tired of the jalebis.

Originally posted by: Abida_angel

True that…the frame of mind pp is in he needs to say it actually. Lekin uska kiya bharosa..voh bhi uske dimaag main ghusse ke nahi…kehti rahe please aisa kaho aisa mat kaho…

Hence it has to be said in everyone’s presence. He needs to make it crystal clear.