Anupamaa Chat Club #1 [DT NOTE PG 116, 120] - Page 128

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

okay. Baa slapping him and bapuji transferring the property in her name is enough for her to forget Vanraj’s words/insults? 

Of what use is the property and money when there is no respect in that house? What is the use of any material comfort if she does not have self respect?  There is a saying-“Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent “

 Unfortunately, she lets him do exactly that(inferior) every time. That is sad. A bad example for everyone who looks up to her. 

They took back everything…property, Vanraj inside the house and started talking to him again. Saza kab mili?

Aakhir ghar se nikala to Maa ko hi na? Wo bhi ek bar nahi…bar bar…may be they will soon throw her out again, but she will be back next morning…naate potis ki khatir ! 😂

Anupama  said to Kanta during   first  raksha bandhan  celebrate  on  anupama  serial  that  baa ke taane  gusse  mein  bhi pyaar  hai

Anupama  get happy  When  Bas gave new saree  to anupama  during toshu engagement 

Baa ne haste  hue poocha batao yeh saree  kaise hi  anupama  happily reply  bahut acchi hai baa and  baa return  jewelry  to anupama ( as baa take jewelry  from  anupama  and lock in Almira because  anupama  sell her mayka  jewelry  to buy kinjal  diamond  ring  so baa get angry and hide jewelry  given  by baa during  wedding)

But during  toshu  engagement  baa return jewelry  to anupama  and gave new seee and ask her  to wear  new saree  and jewelry  saying  Main nahi chahti ki meri bahu  toshu  ke engagement  mein  Bina gehne ke rahe 

Humare yahan agar ghar mein shadi hoti hai to househelps ko bhi naye kapde aur infact shadi ki shopping karwate hain. Baa ne apni Bahu ko “Ek” saree di 😂 
Ek normal Saree to log Diwali par New Year par yu hi de dete hain!

Usi ka Stree Dhan usko wapas de diya! Wohi jo Baa ne itni beizzati karke le liya tha😂

Baa kitni Mahaan hai, no wonder Anupamaa calls her Bhagwan!
Kaise US mein Baa ko dekhte hi daud kar pair dabane baith gayi thi 😂

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

okay. Baa slapping him and bapuji transferring the property in her name is enough for her to forget Vanraj’s words/insults? 

Of what use is the property and money when there is no respect in that house? What is the use of any material comfort if she does not have self respect?  There is a saying-“Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent “

 Unfortunately, she lets him do exactly that(inferior) every time. That is sad. A bad example for everyone who looks up to her. 

Yes, it is more than enough. It was also how they manipulated her to continue being their unpaid maid even after divorce. The point is that she is happy being one. 

Also, what self respect are we talking about? It doesn't apply to Anupamaa, as she never had any in the first place. She is happy existing, without any self respect or dignity. 

And, the only consent which matters here is of her masters - Vanraj and his family. 

So, if she is happy and her solo udaan is super successful, the question that begs to be asked is 

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anupama  said to Kanta during   first  raksha bandhan  celebrate  on  anupama  serial  that  baa ke taane  gusse  mein  bhi pyaar  hai

Anupama  get happy  When  Bas gave new saree  to anupama  during toshu engagement 

Baa ne haste  hue poocha batao yeh saree  kaise hi  anupama  happily reply  bahut acchi hai baa and  baa return  jewelry  to anupama ( as baa take jewelry  from  anupama  and lock in Almira because  anupama  sell her mayka  jewelry  to buy kinjal  diamond  ring  so baa get angry and hide jewelry  given  by baa during  wedding)

But during  toshu  engagement  baa return jewelry  to anupama  and gave new seee and ask her  to wear  new saree  and jewelry  saying  Main nahi chahti ki meri bahu  toshu  ke engagement  mein  Bina gehne ke rahe 

Do saree aur char jewelry dene se 26 saal ke taane aur abuse maaf ho gaya?

Anupama me itni bhi self respect nahi ki mana kare aur apni sagi Maa ki baat mane?

What kind of a daughter is she jo apni maa ki baat nahi manti?

Aaj uska hi karm vapas laut kar aaya hai jo na Pakhi na Adhya uski izzat karte hai. Aur Kinjal sirf apne matlab ke liye usse bulati hai.

She is paying for what she did to her own mother

Jub school  fire mein  anupama  ke dono haath mein Patti bandhi 

To anupama  khana nahi  khaa paa rahi thi  baa ne apne haath  se anupama  ko khaana  khilaaya and tear fell down  from  anupama  seeing  love of baa 

Maaf ho jaata  hai ki nahi lt is not my point i am telling  anupama  feeling  which she told to Kanta  

Ek baar  kimjal  ke pet mein dard hua  to baa  got worried  seeing kinjal  ke pet mein  dard ho raha baa ne nuskhe bataya 

Yen baa kya cheez hau

Leela ki Leela aparampar hai main  unki Leela ki koi thah nahi le sakta  koi Leela  ki Leela koi samjh  nahi paaya

Leela ko dekh kar Gaana yaad  aata 

Kabhi neem kabhi shahad shahad 

So, it is safe to conclude that she faced no "abuse" in the 26 years at Shah House and there is no history of Dukh, Peeda or a traumatic past and everything she has been doing is out of her free will and full consciousness.?

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

So, it is safe to conclude that she faced no "abuse" in the 26 years at Shah House and there is no history of Dukh, Peeda or a traumatic past and everything she has been doing is out of her free will and full consciousness.?

Yes, it was heaven on earth (read: Vanraj aur Leela ke charnon mein swarg)