Originally posted by: Onyourface
Bold - no , not at all , definitely not from where I saw it ...tell me one thing how does it feel to see your spouse involving into an ugly cat fight in front of your big joint famlly, yes mishti was not wrong I throwing words at kuhu's face , but was she completely right? No , even she misunderstood kuhu ( not blaming mishti but just stating fact ) ...abir had 2 options , either fully support mishti, be a party to fight and make is messier for everyone or remain the calmer one and get into the root cause of the fight ..he choose to be the second one ... I don't know but when I see some one fighting or being angry, my first reaction is also to ask them to calm down, besides abir also doesn't know what exactly is the experience and level of bitterness between the sisters ...it ranges to their childhood , AM are yet to discuss this in lengths ...we can't expect abir to understand everything without being told about it
N this is something what mishti also does , meenu and abir ending up fighting a lot , but mishti doesn't get involved between throwing words and start fighting she remains the calmer one and asks abir to calm down , just like abir asked her to think from kuhu's pov for a while , mishti also asks him to think from meenu's pov for a while....that doesn't make abir a bro supporter or mishti a meenu's supporter
in a couple when one becomes an angry bird, the other one has to take up a role of being the calm bird ...that's what AM do ... they had difference of opinions because both of them were too pumped up to listen to each other thats all ...
He can't stop mishti from fighting, therefore he let her speak what she wanted to with kuhu but beyond a point he can't encourage her to go on and on and on ...so he asked her to calm down ...
He never asked her to apologise or bow down or even agree with him , he just asked her to calm down
If this gesture makes him a villain type of husband to mishti or makes him a blind bro supporter so be it then
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