Originally posted by: stormborn
I don't hate her and I have my fair share of humiliating experiences myself.
But I am never clingy to a guy who has directly told me that he is not into me, let alone accept his sudden marriage proposal when he is clearly in an emotionally vulnerable state. And I would never have stopped him if he were going to tell me the real reason. We would never be engaged if he was openly not in love with me and kept screaming at me and humiliating me in front of another woman all the time. Even if somehow we were engaged, I wouldn't have continued with the marriage rituals when I am suspecting him to be into some other woman. As a woman myself, I don't blame other women for magically making a guy fall into love with her. If an adult man is into a woman that's entirely his responsibility. I would accept that with dignity and move on. I would most definitely not stalk the girl or the guy and most certainly not enter her house and illegally get my hands in her things specially when I have suspicion that she can be a criminal and dangerous.
Mein aiwain hawa me nehi fek rahi. The crime and marriage parts aside, I have experienced similar situations. And that makes me more pissed at her when she sheds even her last bit of dignity, self respect and intelligence. At the first she seemed like an independent brilliant confident dignified woman of today. So now it's disappointing that she is doormat-zoning herself.
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