Originally posted by: dusk2dawn
Hey dear you have summed up all valid points so well..ššš¼
Point 1)
You have explained it so well. True Yogi still not able to understand that why a girl like Pari , who is not like him will fall in love with him. Her confession has shaken him to the core. When she confessed her feelings. Yogiās expressions changed from anger to shock while lip reading what Pari had just said. He was totally taken a back.
Because every other girl has rejected him. Even gunjan has rejected him. So he felt like no one in the world can love a Person like him with all his imperfections and flaws. After witnessing the rishta scene he was giving a thought that why Pari turned down the perfect guy like Anirudh. As he was superior to what he is. Be it financially, highly educated and having a high position in the society. Yogiās mind got stuck there that a girl like Pari deserves much more in life not a person like him. N Pari to fall in love with him it out of the box thought for him.
Point 2) Thin line between friendship and relationship.
You have described it so well.
True , Yogi and Pari has come a long way since their first encounter. Their story started from hate, then cordial and formal friendship, then close friends and now besties n each otherās shoulder to cry on. Only they both knows about each otherās pain , real self , real emotions and insecurities. They both donāt need to pretend anything in front of each other.
I second you on the thought that friendship and relationship has a thin line in between. N pari has crossed that line by giving her heartfelt confession. Yogi thinks she stepped and crossed the line by getting too much involved in his life. When he found her in his room. N how prakash might have scolded him like Pari knows everything about you and Your whereabouts but your own family donāt know a thing.( we donāt know that yet.) . Then he thought that she overstepped the border.
N Pariās accidental confession really hit him hard like anything. N true it would be very tough for Yogi to think straight, win over his insecurities and step out of that line and meet Pari on the middle ground. He has fear of losing Pari and thus going through the same pain again.
N in the Precap scene too. He doesnāt have any problems with Pari , he likes her to stay around him. His only problem right now is the word called āloveā. Like āthappad se darr nahi lagta, pyaar se lagta haiā kinda.š
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Here for Yogi it is āPari se darr nahi lagta , I like her, but uske pyaar se darr lagta hai , because I canāt blame her for that and donāt want to lose herā.š
3 ) Aftermath
The Aftermath is going to be a defense mechanism of Yogi by avoiding Pari. As Yogi is going to avoid Pari and Pari will feel the awkwardness that why she confessed her heart out to Yogi and Was it the right time to do that?
As Yogi is confused about what to answer and what to do in the situation?
N Pari would be confused that what would be Yogiās answer.
4) Conclusion
So now Yogi will build a wall around his heart and never let Pari to break into it atleast for some time. He will go into the shell. N in the process might hurt Pari.
True Pari ās confession has challenged Yogiās thoughts and created a turmoil inside him. still a long way to go for Yogi as he is still has to fight the demons of the past ( not only gunjan but also how the world made him feel dejected till now) who are haunting his thought process.
5) Final words
Yogi has to win over the demons and come out victorious and as stronger person without any insecurities. Everyone has equal rights to find a love, falling in love or to have someone in their life who complements and completes them. N bring out the best in them. And Pari is that person for Yogi.
He definitely has to break the chains of insecurities around his mind and heart. And think clearly about he deserves all the things in life same as others and he deserves Pariās love too.
My 2 cents
Hope Yogi will come out of this phase and comes out victorious over his thoughts. His confusion gets cleared out he accepts Pari with whole his heart just like she has accepted him with all his imperfections and flaws.
As since last few days he has seen Pari in a different light , he has developed new found feelings for Pari. Feelings of admiration.
The way he has started admiring her qualities, get to know about her fears , the way he has seen her in saree she doesnāt need to dress up heavily but her beauty is in simplicity and inner self. Till now he has different image of a beauty in his mind which was superficial( just like we think of all the actresses on the screen) .
On the other hand Pari had never made Yogi to feel like he is imperfect or he canāt hear or speak . ( gunjan did that though, on their date š”š”)
Pari is indifferent towards him and behaves with him same as everybody, normally. She never thought of anything and doesnāt pity him about anything.
These are my POVs.( sorry in advance if that hurts anyone)
P.S. I understand how it feels . I have a colleague who is going through the same and is in depression. We are trying hard to make the person understand to get over it and move on. But that person is still stuck with the past. It is easier to say but hard to get over things.
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