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Posted: 6 years ago
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How do we judge a character? based on one incident or based on series of incidents.
I don't judge a character by one incident. He is the same veer who understood that misti dint like the ring his mother chose for her even without telling. He is same person who was seeing misti dancing with half naked man (bachelor s party) and not judging misti for that. He was perfectly fine. He is same person who was disturbed to see misti with ruhaan in an intimate position yet dint say a word to misti. If there was some other fiancee he would start doubting these two and even start fighting. He was there to remove ansh from room only for dadi. Misti family is more like his family. Misti s bday also he thought she would be happiest with family. He has always adjusted and kept misti s happiness n her family above him. This time he was genuinely hurt and after all a human being. When we become hurt it often affects others in background. Here it is total misti s mistake he is just a reactor to the situation. Yes he could have reacted differently but Everytime it's not possible. Considering all the points I totally understand him.


if veer in past would be someone who would fight with misti for smallest things n never reach out for her family and makes her wear what his mother wants and this particular incident occurred then I would judge him harshly.

the person past karmic account matters the good n bad everything has to be taken into consideration before a judgement.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Tanvi it is such a sensible post and I agree completely
Many are so obsessed with proving Veer wrong somehow that they ignore everything good about him but scrutinize him for every small action which I feel goes overboard

Veer is not perfect and I have said this so many times...he is a normal guy who is prone to making mistakes but is sensible enough to realise them, own up to them and rectify them as well

People blame Veer that he doesn't understand Mishti - But at various occasions he has shown that he understands her, those icidents u have already pointed out in your post

He was accused was not being caring towards Mishti's family and he again proved them wrong

He made a mistake by overreacting and I agree...But people again blamed him not for overreacting but for not understanding Mishti and accepting the real Mishti ...This was not even the point ! This was not the real Mishti ! Real Mishti wouldn't have bashed an innocent guy blindly without hearing his side of the story ! and this is what Veer meant that he doesn't know this new Mishti...but people twisted this whole thing into something else


Anway so yes he should have stayed but he didn't ...He realised his mistake and now wants to sort it out with Mishti ,,,,Real life couples bicker, fight and then patch up by keeping aside their egos ! This is pretty normal in any normal relation ! MishVeer are also a normal , realistic couple

So far Veer hasn't been nothing else but real and relatable and the hate that he gets is most of the time unnecessary 😆



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Posted: 6 years ago
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if veer is angry with mishti, i dont know whats the big deal about it.. roothna manana is a part of a relationship.. its normal..
mishti was also harsh with him, saying things like tumare liye tumara dost mujse ziada important hogaya etc.. they are behaving like a typical couple.. what is so bad about it.. i dont understand..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Tanvi in my post i have said one thing
Veer isn't wrong...the problem is with viewers
We r not ready for an out n out positive male lead
We just can't accept him coz he is flawless...he was sad he left mish there but he realized his mistake n wanted to talk to her but he got busy with his clients
So he isn't lacking we as viewers don't want to accept him coz we r more into Sparks n tashan wala pyar
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshvi

Tanvi it is such a sensible post and I agree completely

Many are so obsessed with proving Veer wrong somehow that they ignore everything good about him but scrutinize him for every small action which I feel goes overboard

Veer is not perfect and I have said this so many times...he is a normal guy who is prone to making mistakes but is sensible enough to realise them, own up to them and rectify them as well

People blame Veer that he doesn't understand Mishti - But at various occasions he has shown that he understands her, those icidents u have already pointed out in your post

He was accused was not being caring towards Mishti's family and he again proved them wrong

He made a mistake by overreacting and I agree...But people again blamed him not for overreacting but for not understanding Mishti and accepting the real Mishti ...This was not even the point ! This was not the real Mishti ! Real Mishti wouldn't have bashed an innocent guy blindly without hearing his side of the story ! and this is what Veer meant that he doesn't know this new Mishti...but people twisted this whole thing into something else


Anway so yes he should have stayed but he didn't ...He realised his mistake and now wants to sort it out with Mishti ,,,,Real life couples bicker, fight and then patch up by keeping aside their egos ! This is pretty normal in any normal relation ! MishVeer are also a normal , realistic couple

So far Veer hasn't been nothing else but real and relatable and the hate that he gets is most of the time unnecessary 😆




Thank u so much. I think very few of us do really understand veer judge him same way we judge others. Yes veer is human being and prone to make mistakes. He always can't be understanding or sensible. Whats more important is his past record. If veer would fight daily with misti and doubt her or only give more importance to his family not her family and this incident occurred then even I would have judged him harshly. We can't do ignore the stuff he did before and conclude ruhaan is perfect for her.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: ria_9

if veer is angry with mishti, i dont know whats the big deal about it.. roothna manana is a part of a relationship.. its normal..

mishti was also harsh with him, saying things like tumare liye tumara dost mujse ziada important hogaya etc.. they are behaving like a typical couple.. what is so bad about it.. i dont understand..


Exactly every normal relationship will have roothna manana and it's normal. It would be extremely harsh to expect to always give perfect reactions.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: SONAL30

Tanvi in my post i have said one thing

Veer isn't wrong...the problem is with viewers
We r not ready for an out n out positive male lead
We just can't accept him coz he is flawless...he was sad he left mish there but he realized his mistake n wanted to talk to her but he got busy with his clients
So he isn't lacking we as viewers don't want to accept him coz we r more into Sparks n tashan wala pyar


I agree. This is the mentality of most viewers. I m not even bothered about them because I understand they are justifying the tashan which is going to take place but there are a few who were like he dint inform dadi... When we are angry we are so messed up we can't think about others when we are hurt.. When he realised as u said he got busy with clients... He is just human being... judge him like a human taking all points

But I m glad there are few of us who judge after seeing good n bad... not just one incident.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I agree Veer is not bad, but there is a void in Mishti-Veers relation. If things won't work out then they can end their relation on mutual basis. Both Mishti and Veer are good but not right for each other. Cheating will not be there hopefully.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Veer is a good guy and I have no problem with him unless he keeps wearing kunal's pink lipstick😆
He's really concerned about mishti's behaviour coz he's hasn't seen this side of her. I have no problem with him despite being a mishaan fan👍🏼
Eventhough he wasn't completely wrong yesterday, he realised today that he over reacted. And in the meeting also all his focus was on mishti feeling bad for her
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Some how they have to break the engagement so angry veer stubborn veer
Who cares I liked mauli but mishti is unlike mauli impulsive forms opinion
Teenage kids have lot of problem smoking is just a very nascent one but slapping is not the way.
The way mishti and Pari gulls beer is it the way people behave ?
Mishti is quite dominating she is caring but her strictness is not needed with her siblings
Anyway I do not care who ends up with whom

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