Akshan Mujhe Haq Hai

March 18 Akshan Confrontation & POV was highlight of the Episode.

My Analysis: Mujhe Haq

Haq:

• Today both Mr. & Mrs. Jindal told each other indirectly I have right on you because I am your lawfully wedded spouse.
• Guddan: Jindal Sahab as your Patni I have the Equal Right to make decision of the Jindal Bhavan & Family members for their well being.
• AJ: Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal, even though I am Kathor, I am Kafa with you, I have Haq to worry about your Safety and your well being because you are my Patni as your Pati I have Haq on you.

Equal Rights

• Today Guddan was not forcing her right as wife on Akshat Jindal. She was basically reminding him the "Truth that she is his Dharampatn his Legally Wedded wife with or without the Mangalsutra around her neck.
• She doesnt need to wear MS to fight for her rights, to fight for him or with him, to make her stand. She can do that without wearing it becase her relationship is not based on a biasis of Materialistic Object and it based on the 7 Vows of their Wedding Vows, based on Trust & Respect that they have built in past 6 months.

Her Decision Should be Respected

• As His wife of Mr. Akshat Jindal, Guddan Akshat Jindal has the "Equal Rights to make decision in the Jindal House & For Jindal Family.
• She wants her husband to encourage and respect her decision similar to her respecting his decision regarding their family.
• For the past 15-16 years it was Akshat Jindal as the Head of the Jindal Bhavan always made decision and accepted his family members to carry out the decision. Here is his wife of six month, Guddan Akshat Jindal made a counter decision regarding his brother.

Head & Lady of the House

• Today I enjoyed Guddan and AJ confrontation because despite having a Daraar in their relationship as Husband & Wife due to misunderstanding, both of them voiced their POV with each other for their family safety & concern as Head & Lady & Saas-Sasur of the Jindal House regarding Angad.
• This is the beauty of Akshat & Guddan relationship that has always attracted me from the beginning, whether they are angry with eachother or have misunderstanding between them, after the initial anger is cool-down, in the confine of their bedroom whether its good or bad, right or wrong they they speak out their POV to each other.

Akshan POV

AJ Concern

• AJ was more concern about the safety of his Family, his Brother & indirectly & mostly importantly his Wife.
• As Head of the House, he is concerned that his Brother doesn't harm anyone, he wants to shield Angad away from any troubles, and any upcoming Law & Order with the revelation of him being alive.

Guddans Concern

• Guddan wants Angad to get better and get rid of his mental illness problem, she doesn't want him to be isolated from the love and care of family that he was kept away from 12-15 years by AJ.
• Her stand as Lady of the House is keeping the family together whether they are ill or in good health, a family should remain together under one roof in good n bad times.
• Guddan wants to provide Angad with the shelter of love, family support that both AJ and Dadi have given her.
• When Guddan was speaking AJ was silent, he did walk away from her, has his back to show his Kathor side, because deep down he knows his wife is right.
• During the confrontation scene AJ was trying to read her eyes, he knows she is serious and means it from her heart.

AJ's VIkral Roop

• AJ was indirectly telling his wifey: Do not harm yourself, risk your precious life, and put your life in life and death situation.
• He doesnt mean it, he wants Guddan to succeed in her Vaada of getting Angad better.
• He doesnt want Guddan to mess up in her responsibility of Angad, so the outsiders their Bahus dont BBB Guddan, which he doesnt want.

Placing of the MS

• After hearing Guddan reason, before leaving the room AJ placed the MS back on the dressing table.
• Indication Guddan I understand that the circumstance between us is not right, please give me time too cool down. I respect you as companion, Bahu and Saas of the Jindal House but I need time with my self to encourage, declare and verbally accept you as my Patni.

Wah! Kya likha hai aap ne! 👏

Originally posted by: inlieu

Wah! Kya likha hai aap ne! 👏

Thank you Inlieu🤗

I felt as if I was reading my own thoughts and was nodding at every sentence. I especially loved what your wrote about equal rights, because as a spouse she gets that by being married to him.

• Exactly, with everything out in the open, Guddan is at a stage in her relationship she wants Her Rights in her Jindal Sahab's life, Her House and Her Realationship. In the future she will not let any Bahus or Outsider interfer, she has shown some sign in Friday's episode.

He put some distance between them but did not break of their relationship.

• That's why I love AJ character he is not typical ML who will throw or manhandle is wife at give opportunity. AJ won my heart during the sangeet when he said to her in jest for being with her forever Saath & Jhelo her for rest of his life. Then he won my heart after tearing the contract with Guddan. He said something that for young generation its easy to run away but they need to learn to know what they want in their life.

Just because he's angry doesn't mean she automatically loses her rights as a saas, bahu, biwi and these rights are not dependent on a symbol.

• My sentiments exactly, persons right not dependent on a symbol, with or without a symbol a person still has their Rights and claim their rights on their spouse. In American culture, married woman do not need Sindoor or MS to declare themself a wife of someone.

She will have all these rights by default 24/7/365 and has responsibilities as well that she must fulfill. She saw that Angad was being wronged and she did what she felt was the right thing. Why must her opinion be ignore just because people accused her of something? She's not a criminal, she's a human being who can make mistakes. It doesn't mean that every single thing she does or says is wrong.

• I love Guddan for always accepting her mistake which proves and she knows that no one is perfect and we are all human beings. Here Guddan was not wrong in her decision of keeping Angad at home, because she understands what Angad may go through. She was taunted by society, didn't receive a mothers love, she is accused for her mothers accident.

All said and done, I have to give it to Guddan for remaining so strong and clear headed considering all that is going on in their lives right now.

• During this Daraar she is grounded in her relationship, she is tough and firm on her decision, she is thinking through her mind and analyzing everything. She has clear stated to her hubby she will be in this marriage with him for rest of his life, and she will remove any 3rd wheel.

Pata nahi piku what aj was thinking while saying about rights and his concern for his brother.

But I must say reading ur beautiful analysis it seems dreamy .
Beautifully written as always and convincing.

It looks so beautiful to be true.
One thing I am sure Akshan respect each other
Aj let's guddan take a plunge.
He won't stop her as a guardian he might be watching her .
That cool actually really cool
Building the foundation is more important than falling in love like sick puppy.
Well I really liked guddan confidence even though we have no idea what cv's have planned feels good seeing a guddan confidence giving it back to aj and Durga equally
She respects them equally.
But with aj he is her support system and guideline .

Aj part is not that clear I felt he was worried of angad more than guddan
He fears guddan might mess up and angad might go insane or landup in jail because he somewhere doubts guddan and rawat too near by he fears he might lose angad .

About guddan safety he is not worried because he is there for her and has confidence in him that he will see to it he will safeguard her .

Did u observe aj these days the way he handles guddan is more of wiffy thing than before .
His body language has changed after jail track .
There is some kind of authority/ owning her as his belongings type .
His aggressive nature is being shown the way he pulls her and holds her arms .
Those aggression is only when that person is special or if a person in verge of falling in love .
Intensity is also shown time to time these days .
His anger too has love hidden inside

Buddha has fallen for her but because of mu that has been suppressed for this moment

Pata nahi wo kabh futega ...

I agree to u piku ...
Only in Indian culture that to hindu s we have manglasutra as a symbol and toe ring to say we are married.
But in other countries it's not as such .
Wedding vows is enough
It holds good when couples stand by through thick and thin building a relationship brick by brick soul to soul .


In Hindu culture I remember of reading a book were it mentioned that those days men were not allowed to see women because they had saree to cover up there face
A toe ring used to give hint that she is Married
Manglasutra too
Remember harishchandra saw ms on her neck and got to know the women was his wife ...

Kumkum too had some significance like she is in relationship and not available
In ancient times kumkum was made of turmeric and lime mixed together.
It benefits the health of the women as a whole .

Those things were introduced for a reason but ppl left the depth of it and started following blindly without meaning.

even temples were made for a reason because to have cosmic rays formation is beautiful and effective while doing yoga .if u see closely u see temples build in pyramid /tricone (hindi)

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Pata nahi piku what aj was thinking while saying about rights and his concern for his brother.

• AJ was little enraged that she challenged his warning that he gave to her on Friday but after listening to her he was calm. He was showing his Feku Anger to be near her, he misses touching her, even with his anger he needed to touch his Wifey😉

But I must say reading ur beautiful analysis it seems dreamy .
Beautifully written as always and convincing.

• Thank you Shailu 🤗

It looks so beautiful to be true.
One thing I am sure Akshan respect each other

• Yes they do, both have earned each other's respect😛

Aj let's guddan take a plunge.
He won't stop her as a guardian he might be watching her .
That cool actually really cool
Building the foundation is more important than falling in love like sick puppy.

• I agree building a foundation is more important, when they had misunderstanding of the Dhoka Shaadi they built foundation, now the bricks are scattered, together they need to pick up all the bricks and built their foundation.

Well I really liked guddan confidence even though we have no idea what cv's have planned feels good seeing a guddan confidence giving it back to aj and Durga equally

• Guddan is fighting for her rights, she told AJ last week, what's hers will be hers. As a Jindal Family member, Bahu or Saas Guddan always remained silent, observer and mum but when it comes to Adhikar as Patni- her foundation and pillar of strenght she will fight tooth and nail for it. Durga was questioning her rights as Wife and her relationship with her husband, her Jindal Sahab. Despite having a crack, Guddan knows its not weak.

She respects them equally.
But with aj he is her support system and guideline .

• I agree Guddan respects them both equally but now Guddan is ready to fight for her stand and her rights, she wants her decision to be respect without questioning her.

Aj part is not that clear I felt he was worried of angad more than guddan
He fears guddan might mess up and angad might go insane or landup in jail because he somewhere doubts guddan and rawat too near by he fears he might lose angad .

• I dont think he doubts on Guddan, he fears that the Law & Order will find Angad and blame him for Antra murder. I think Chorni or Durga, my bet is Chorni will inform Rawat or authories that Angad is alive.

About guddan safety he is not worried because he is there for her and has confidence in him that he will see to it he will safeguard her .

• He is worried for her safety because he doesnt want her to do something stupid

Did u observe aj these days the way he handles guddan is more of wiffy thing than before .
His body language has changed after jail track .
There is some kind of authority/ owning her as his belongings type .
His aggressive nature is being shown the way he pulls her and holds her arms .
Those aggression is only when that person is special or if a person in verge of falling in love .
Intensity is also shown time to time these days .
His anger too has love hidden inside

• Shailu I agreed with everything you said about AJ behavior regarding Guddan, he is realizing that she matters more to him than being the Bahu & Saas of Jindal Family. Even today his eyes were reading her, the wheel in his brain is working overtime trying to figure out his wifey. She is a challenge that he cannot understand. The best part about AJ falling in love with Guddan is that the wife doesnt know what affect she has on her husband. She is in the No Entry Zone cloud that AJ cannot love her because she is not Perfect and he can only love Antra Jindal.

Buddha has fallen for her but because of mu that has been suppressed for this moment

Pata nahi wo kabh futega ...

Piku👍🏼

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

I agree to u piku ...
Only in Indian culture that to hindu s we have manglasutra as a symbol and toe ring to say we are married.

• Woman also use sindoor to fill their forehead to declare to outsiders that they are married. 😊

But in other countries it's not as such .
Wedding vows is enough
It holds good when couples stand by through thick and thin building a relationship brick by brick soul to soul .👏

• Yes I agree, in othe cluture & countries wedding vows are enough.

In Hindu culture I remember of reading a book were it mentioned that those days men were not allowed to see women because they had saree to cover up there face
A toe ring used to give hint that she is Married

• I remember in Ramyan during the Sita abduction track, Lakshman Ji said that I only recognize her toe ring.

Manglasutra too
Remember harishchandra saw ms on her neck and got to know the women was his wife ...

• I am unfamiliar with Harishchandra story

Kumkum too had some significance like she is in relationship and not available
In ancient times kumkum was made of turmeric and lime mixed together.

• Wow I didnt know that in ancient times it was made out of haldi & lime, nice too know the history of Kumkum 😳

It benefits the health of the women as a whole .

Those things were introduced for a reason but ppl left the depth of it and started following blindly without meaning.

• That's true we sometimes follow the trend without understanding its significance. My mum and Nani always taught me the importance of each of the symbolize. Like my mum told me a Sindoor in the forehead means a woman is declared a wife by her husband in front of Agni and he filled her Maang has a promise to her for fulfilling all the 7 vows of wedding. He expects her to wear the sindoor in maang to respect him, for his long live and the vows they made together, he accepts she is the only person in his life.

even temples were made for a reason because to have cosmic rays formation is beautiful and effective while doing yoga .if u see closely u see temples build in pyramid /tricone (hindi)

cosmic rays falls evenly on human body seated below it..even temple sculpture had meaning that ppl who can withhold there feelings and win over distractions can only find moksha ...
They left the concept and started with idle worship and more noise in the temple .
no offense temple concept was way different it was more of meditation room than shor in the temple .

• OMG Shailu nice general info regarding the temple.🤗I agree with you regarding the purpose of temple, it was to find peace and moksha for yourself. Right now the temples are too much noisy, not peaceful at all. I find peace in nature or by going near a water.

See church how calm it will be even ramkrishna ashram how peaceful it is

• Even though I am Hindu, I love visiting church because it. Give me peace and makes me calm

Rules were made for a reason instead of seeing the meaning our society followed rules blindly they followed because of fear not the hidden truth about the hidden concept behind it.

• this is one of the arguement in my house, when we teach something to the future generation we should tell them the meaning behind a cultural & its value.

guddan was right while saying break how many ms as possible- I felt as if she saying u break it but I won't walk away but fight for my rights because i own it

• I felt the same thing, with or without MS, I will be your wife and I am not going to back off, I am going to use the rights that I have on you and in this house because I am married to you Mr. Akshat Jindal. She told him last week too via her compass story.

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Pata nahi piku what aj was thinking while saying about rights and his concern for his brother.

But I must say reading ur beautiful analysis it seems dreamy .
Beautifully written as always and convincing.

It looks so beautiful to be true.
One thing I am sure Akshan respect each other
Aj let's guddan take a plunge.
He won't stop her as a guardian he might be watching her .
That cool actually really cool
Building the foundation is more important than falling in love like sick puppy.
Well I really liked guddan confidence even though we have no idea what cv's have planned feels good seeing a guddan confidence giving it back to aj and Durga equally
She respects them equally.
But with aj he is her support system and guideline .

Aj part is not that clear I felt he was worried of angad more than guddan
He fears guddan might mess up and angad might go insane or landup in jail because he somewhere doubts guddan and rawat too near by he fears he might lose angad .

About guddan safety he is not worried because he is there for her and has confidence in him that he will see to it he will safeguard her .

Did u observe aj these days the way he handles guddan is more of wiffy thing than before .
His body language has changed after jail track .
There is some kind of authority/ owning her as his belongings type .
His aggressive nature is being shown the way he pulls her and holds her arms .
Those aggression is only when that person is special or if a person in verge of falling in love .
Intensity is also shown time to time these days .
His anger too has love hidden inside

Buddha has fallen for her but because of mu that has been suppressed for this moment

Pata nahi wo kabh futega ...

👍🏼I have felt it too..yesterday's episode too when he approached her..budda hides too much😆

Originally posted by: shena07

Piku 👍🏼

You have done it beautifully.

• Thank you😛

i have always felt how angry AJ is with guddan he always is concerned for.

• AJ was showing the Nakras of the typical Pati who is Kafa with wifey, but he cannot break his habit of saving her, or helping her because she is his Jaan, & he knows No Life without His Wife. 😉
• He was Kafa with her, for not speaking to him despite having a many opportunities. But after this, he will learn to trust his wife's words over 3rd party & outsiders, he needs to trust her decision and her over the usual tradition and his other family members or realatives.

he is always there for her..they have started their journey as married couple long back..for me he always will be a dramabaaz😆

• I agree they started their journey as married couple long time back but now both Akshan are free of almost everything and they can breath fresh air in their realtionship. Now they are gathering the scattered bricks to make their foundation of their realationship stronger.

I loved the way he approached her and how close he was to her like he could not resist anymore..would love to see GIF on that😉

• That department is of Shailu and Captain😊, I am clueless on GIF