Meaning of Extra marital affair

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Extra marital affair can never termed as love
Any affair can never be termed as love
It can only be termed as extreme selfishness

Real love the commitment and companionship takes years to build together

Putting ur own marriage and ur innocent spouse into a form of jeopardy
For there own selfishness can never be termed as love

communication,bit of compromise trying to mend things if spouse are not listening or not able to understand is perfect goal to any couple lot of patients is needed .

Adiya are 2 innocent souls what have they done wrong trusting there spouses blindly was that wrong
Both were in lala land what that a sin
It's not they did was in purpose it there nature

Are ppl that perfect
Are all married couple perfect ?
Come on there is nothing like it it's the couple goals to make it work .
What is sapthapadhi ?
Did pooja understand those vows because her marriage was perfect with rituals right
Forget about yash he was useless I don't think he had any rituals.
Both poosh had love marriage from there spouses.
It's not that they were force to
Pooja knew how Adi was with his dad because of the affair ...

To have an affair there can never be any reason to hide there weakness term there spouses as not perfect

I want to ask poosh were they that perfect
I don't think soo


Cvs in the promo want to justify poosh affair

What's with zoya now she is going to preach Adi why he was not perfect
God this is crazy I tell u

Seeing the promo we think she might change Adi but I feel she might reopen the case were both realized what was there weak point and what was poosh strong point which clicked .

Well I have nothing to say on poosh

For me EMA is selfishness act they can't be any concrete reason to have it .

Poosh had that but hiding it made them disgusting ppl in this universe
If they revealed they had affair Adi wouldn't have minded instead he would have let go her wholeheartedly.

Zoya is other type she is way too sweet


One more thing the way ladies think is way different from men

That's why women are Kshamayeshu dharithri and even has patience of Mother Earth so may be zoya as a women is able to forgive them

Adi is denial but slowly he will



But it's good move till the past is not forgiven there is no future for them .
If they are able to forgive there past then they can move on

I am happy if that happens

Forgiving them will also help them to investigate further that to Adi who is following his father words he will be able to do his own investigation without any wounds of the past .
Both can move on and think practical when they do there own investigation.

Let's see this

If they try to justify poosh ( hell with the writer ) I won't bother I watch it for entertainment and mystery is main thing rest I don't care

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ya.. extra martial affair is nvr justified
I gs what cvs r gonna do is... justify their feelings... (the circumstances which led them to fall out of love) but never their actions coz the truth is nvr gonna change... that they cheated!!
AdiYa ll probably understand them, their own faults in a marriage... n just move on! Coz keeping hatred at times weakens oneself!
Lets see... what cvs have in store this time!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bepannaah.is about adiya..so whatever will.be shown will.be about them..and...for them..they might want to show how it all happened between poosh...and once adiya realizes that they werent perfect either to save their marriage..its very important to forget and forgive poosh for them to.move on from their bitterness...they can never move on without accepting the past...thats what it is...poosh was their past..there is.no.point blaming and suffering when the deed is done..it should always be about oneself..whatever poosh did..adiya deserves to be loved..they deserve to lead a normal life and be happy with life..and that can.happen.only if they accept what happened in the past and not fight it...and once they make.peace with themselves..they will.be able to move on in.life..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very well said dear cheating never be justified and it is truth that poosh were cheaters only cheaters who cheated their innocent spouse who believe them blindly bitter truth is that Aditya were too innocent adi for whom Pooja was his best friend with whom he shared his sorrow happiness so he thought he can also share his life with her he was happy and I m damm sure ki wo kabhi bhi in his whole life ye kabhi feel nahi karta ki it is not love for him his friendship with Pooja was his love according to Pooja she wanted passion in love adi touch her (we also saw there was no spark the hug the close moments between has no spark he behaves her like a friend and when he holds zoya 's hand it looks different the look he gives her is also different the way he stares her is also different,i m sorry if I m wrong please correct me actually I m single😉😉) but if Pooja feels that she could talk to him he was his best friend and she knows how to handle him and she also knew he hates cheaters but bhi she was doing this I think adi was right wo adi we pyaar karti thi ya nafrat
And in zoya case I think she was influenced by Hindi movies so she left her parents for Yash and thought it is her true love for Yash and Yash pampered her like a child he also never tried to open up with zoya like Adi if Yash tried she definitely understand him but he also cheated her she was so innocent that she thought her husband is working very hard for her and what was he doing

So according to me there's was no love between any of them Na hi Pooja adi we pyaar karti thi aur nahi Yash we same for Yash Na wo Pooja she pyaar karta that Na wo zoya se they both love only themselves who wanted their happiness only their happiness at any cost or by killing two pure innocent souls adiya
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with your pov. EMA is cheating. There can't be any justification of cheating. In a marriage there is 2 people. Both are human being, so noone is perfect. Perfection is only an illusion. Noone is perfect, noone can be perfect but a good couple try to understand each other & can rectify their mistake by understanding or by making understand the other where is the problem lying. But for PooSh I don't think they ever have tried making their spouses understand their problems. AdiYa also thought their marriage is perfect but that was not. Two people only can make their marriage successful with being together, sometimes through compromises, sometimes through communication. Noone is perfect human being. 2 imperfect person with great care, maturity & love can make a marriage successful. But this kind of maturity & communication level were always missing in their marriage. But whatever PooSh did having EMA no justification can be there. Writers will want to prove they were correct at their places but for me they were not. They were correct if they divorced their spouse (if couldn't make them understand their problem) & then they would move on. But I agree that AdiYa have to let their past go for a new beginning. For that they have to come out from the illusion called 'Perfection'.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautifully Put Gal 👏
What Poosh did was Adultery... Infidelity!!
From what we saw...Pooja was hungry for love and Adi considered Pyaar Dosti Hai. She voiced out many a times.. mujhe dost nahi pyaar chahiye. "ADI TUM MERE DOST THE..AB MERE PATI HO" which according to me Adi failed to fulfill. Her actions were still justifiable as her interests matched with Yash. But Yash was a CHEAT. He has never voiced out what was wrong in their relationship... who forgot his love Zoya at the snap of his finger. There was no ounce of communication of his expectations from Zoya. They lacked commitment and efforts.
Their respective marriage lacked Emotional Intimacy. .. all it was ...was just Physical Inclination. It was never Love between both the couples. It was only Zoya who remained Pure in her relationship.

Purely My POV.. No Offence.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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agreed ur all points
the best way of leading future is forgetting/forgiving past
i hv no pbm of adi n zoya forgiving poosh
in my point of adi n zoya hv no fault at all,they r truly love n trust their partners
but they r not get any love n trust in return
i really feel bad for adiya becoz in their past relationship they only get sympathy from their partners in the name love
love is selfless so affair is not love becoz affair is full of selfishness
Poosh try to ended their 5 yrs relationship over their 1/2 yr love
then no one give assurance n validity of their new relationship
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I guess when people are not happy with their current marriage due to difference in opinions or any sought of dis satisfaction from their spouse u start searching for that satisfaction & happiness from a different person .. so u not only become selfish but even coward ... no 2 people can feel same so i guess u have to learn to mould your self a lil with communication, adapting a different life , few changes and things slowly can be sorted out ..
if u not happy with your spouse go ahead tell him/her that i m leaving u & then search for ur happiness in a different person .. dont cheat and hurt him/her & their families ..

I feel AdiYa loved their spouses passionately but their relationship lacked stability by stability i mean somewhere they both failed to understand their spouses or were ignorant..

Aditya and Pooja: Aditya always mentioned that Love is Friendship and Pooja being his Best Friend considered her as the love of his life .. He did love her dearly n i dont think it was a friendship zone from him side unless makers twist that .. Aditya went wrong in being ignorant towards Pooja and Pooja ended up feeling lonely ... May be he was immature and failed to understand Pooja but that does not mean he did not love Pooja .. he really did love ..
Did Pooja just meet Aditya - No na .. she very well knew what was Aditya like .. His family background, his state of mind .. all of it .. Pooja could have communicated and cleared it with him but instead of handling it she chose to be with Yash ..

Zoya and Yash: Zoya is sweet n innocent not inconsiderate .. Zoya left her family for Yash and did everything in her capacity to make Yash happy .. Zoya also went wrong by not understanding Yash's tensions and that he was in a mess .. after all he took much loan .. may she was ignorant but it doesnot mean she was careless towards Yash .. damn she left her family obvious she loved him ..
Why was it so difficult for Yash to speak up to his wife and tell her the problems he was facing .. Zoya would have understood .. she might be innocent but she is not stupid .. why he dint mention anything .. he went out with Pooja i repeat he chose to be with her and not communicate to Zoya and work out on their relationship

PooSh and AdiYa : I believe PooSh's mistake was intentional by going for EMA and not communicating to their spouses .. AdiYa are flawed for sure but they dint do anything on purpose .. they really dint have any idea .. i m not saying they are right about it , they both were wrong but they deserved a second chance and not EMA .. I feel PooSh never loved AdiYa , i feel according to them they made a mistake in choosing a correct spouse and hence never communicated and started going out with each other ..
May be Pooja dint sign divorce papers because she was pregnant with Aditya's kid ... i dont know lets c

AdiYa : Problem with Aditya is that he is too strong on Pooja , he is understanding his version not Pooja's version and Problem with Zoya is that she a lil more hard on herself .. she needs to get her Yashji was useless .. both are extreme ..

Promo: Promo is off my head .. the dialogues given to Zoya come out strongly and i hope it only means that she just wants to make Aditya realize his mistakes as he is in a denial mode and stubborn .. in no way she can make him understand the meaning of love as she herself was wrong and love is subjective .. I guess reading dairy can give u insights and not the complete story as that is only Pooja's perspective and it doesnot include anyone else's PoV .. I hope the makers execute the episodes well .. i feel post IPL they havent given any misleading promo so i m confused wrt this promo .. lets c what they show
Edited by mans1234 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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very well said!
a strong relationship take years to build.. it is never justified
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yash and Pooja's affair just proves that their respective marriage was of no meaning at the first place.
Pooja-Adi and Yash-Zoya's relationship was meaningless, and that's exactly the reason why they chose to seek pleasure with someone else.
Yash and Pooja never put their heart and soul into their marriage. They never really followed the vows..they were only a married couple without following of legalities of a loveless marriage. They insulted the institution of marriage.

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