Meaning of Extra marital affair- Page 3

Originally posted by: mans1234

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">I guess when people are not happy with their current marriage due to difference in opinions or any sought of dis satisfaction from their spouse u start searching for that satisfaction & happiness from a different person .. so u not only become selfish but even coward ... no 2 people can feel same so i guess u have to learn to mould your self a lil with communication, adapting a different life , few changes and things slowly can be sorted out ..</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">if u not happy with your spouse go ahead tell him/her that i m leaving u & then search for ur happiness in a different person .. dont cheat and hurt him/her & their families ..</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">I feel AdiYa loved their spouses passionately but their relationship lacked stability by stability i mean somewhere they both failed to understand their spouses or were ignorant..</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Aditya and Pooja: Aditya always mentioned that Love is Friendship and Pooja being his Best Friend considered her as the love of his life .. He did love her dearly n i dont think it was a friendship zone from him side unless makers twist that .. Aditya went wrong in being ignorant towards Pooja and Pooja ended up feeling lonely ... May be he was immature and failed to understand Pooja but that does not mean he did not love Pooja .. he really did love ..</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Did Pooja just meet Aditya - No na .. she very well knew what was Aditya like .. His family background, his state of mind .. all of it .. Pooja could have communicated and cleared it with him but instead of handling it she chose to be with Yash ..</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Zoya and Yash: Zoya is sweet n innocent not inconsiderate .. Zoya left her family for Yash and did everything in her capacity to make Yash happy .. Zoya also went wrong by not understanding Yash's tensions and that he was in a mess .. after all he took much loan .. may she was ignorant but it doesnot mean she was careless towards Yash .. damn she left her family obvious she loved him ..</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Why was it so difficult for Yash to speak up to his wife and tell her the problems he was facing .. Zoya would have understood .. she might be innocent but she is not stupid .. why he dint mention anything ..</font><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">he went out with Pooja i repeat he chose to be with her and not communicate to Zoya and work out on their relationship</font>

PooSh and AdiYa<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">: I believe PooSh's mistake was intentional by going for EMA and not communicating to their spouses .. AdiYa are flawed for sure but they dint do anything on purpose .. they really dint have any idea .. i m not saying they are right about it , they both were wrong but they deserved a second chance and not EMA .. I feel PooSh never loved AdiYa , i feel according to them they made a mistake in choosing a correct spouse and hence never communicated and started going out with each other ..</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">May be Pooja dint sign divorce papers because she was pregnant with Aditya's kid ... i dont know lets c</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">AdiYa : Problem with Aditya is that he is too strong on Pooja , he is understanding his version not Pooja's version and Problem with Zoya is that she a lil more hard on herself .. she needs to get her Yashji was useless .. both are extreme ..</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Promo: Promo is off my head .. the dialogues given to Zoya come out strongly and i hope it only means that she just wants to make Aditya realize his mistakes as he is in a denial mode and stubborn .. in no way she can make him understand the meaning of love as she herself was wrong and love is subjective .. I guess reading dairy can give u insights and not the complete story as that is only Pooja's perspective and it doesnot include anyone else's PoV .. I hope the makers execute the episodes well .. i feel post IPL they havent given any misleading promo so i m confused wrt this promo .. lets c what they show</font>

Originally posted by: Shaenma

The last line 👏 I hope they don't try to glorify EMA by whitewashing Yash and Pooja. No matter what shortcomings Aditya and Zoya had, Pooja took 5crores from him to give it to Yash. Similarly Yash used Wasim Siddiqui's money to buy not only his mom's house but also a diamond ring for Pooja. Yet after all this they had the audacity to send divorce papers to their respective spouses. Yes Aditya and Zoya aren't perfect husband and wife but Poosh is no different and in my opinion even worse.

Originally posted by: mm250314

Hi ..wonderful posts ...cheating shd b condemned ..affair can never b justified.. CV's !.shd not twist the basic essence of story ... ..Even Pooja was not selfless ..she knew Adi fully well before marriage ..ok .she got the best friend but still she shd have been honest with Adi ..Zoya was quite innocent n Yash ! . He in fact never deserved Zoya ...it shall b a big disappointment if Poosh affair is justified in some ways .. coz CV's can show anything n to show Adi was wrong in his relationship with Pooja is not a good idea at all ...but Sakshi also had blamed him ... Promo is not bad as journey towards acceptance of Adi can b shown .Zoya will not leave him alone she has found a new agenda ..to reform Adi 😆.he shd not b faulted largely for his failed marriage ...Both Yash n Pooja were selfish and had no guilt of their affair .. whatever the makers show now ..the fans of the leads have already taken the sides 😆 - the fans will nvr favr Pooja n Yash !