My Shenyang girlfriend wants me to carry her bag.

My Shenyang girlfriend keeps complaining about me not carrying her handbag every time we go out for a date. She would always say I don't love her enough and I am no romantic. Seriously, is that even necessary? I mean, foreigners are not really romantic like what they used to appear in some movies or whatever. I have observed that my girlfriend usually carries unnecessary stuffs in her bag which make it heavier. Is she doing that so I will carry it for her? Is that how Shenyang women define sweetness? Help!