~~ Shilpa Shinde AT #24 ~~ ** She came, She saw, She conquered BB ** - Page 78

Originally posted by: mahiya

I thought I had seen pretty girls in my time,

But that was before I met you.

I never saw one that I wanted for mine,

But that was before I met you.

I wanted to ramble and always be free,

But that was before I met you.

I said that no woman could ever hold me,

But that was before I met you.

I thought I was swinging the world by the tail,

I thought I could never be blue,

I thought I'd been kissed and

I thought I'd been loved,

But that was before I met you.

(Movie : Nights in Rodanthe)

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Had written this a few days back and was thinking of making a thread on dis, but then seeing the futility of the forum, decided against it, so am posting why Shilpa was the most deserving winner from among all the HMs dis season here.

BB is a
reality show, not a game show. The very concept of BB is showing one's
personality/ character and the one that ends up connecting with the audience
the most usually emerges the winner. Tasks in BB r never fair coz they too r a
catalyst to bring out the hidden characters of HMs, which dey otherwise may not
want to show. And the incitement given is luxury budget, immunity from
nominations and chance at being the captain.

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What shilpa did was out
of the box thinking. Most of the HMs had the same ghisa pita way of going about
doing BB. Shilpa from the very first day decided to be her real self and in her
mind had set limits for herself as to how far she would go, whether in tasks or
in the house itself and she never wavered from that.

Another important aspect
in BB house is ones actions and reactions and here is where shilpa aced it.
Even BB in her journey video said that most of the time she retaliated with
decency and dignity, when others were simply crossing all lines. And I loved
how she handled all situations with so much dignity, calm and patience. Have never come
across any BB HM who when gets targeted, making the whole situation more funny
or not reacting at all, making the other person stoop lower and lower.

She literally followed
her heart and it wasnt that she didnt have her flaws or was never negative, but
her positives and her appealing nature far out weighed those negatives.

IMO to be in BB one must
be very self aware and also assess themselves continuously in introspect and
this is what shilpa did. Others were given negative feedbacks, yet they didnt
work on that. Shilpa was rarely given that, yet on her own she discarded her
poking vikas, even though she was encouraged to continue.

Also she played a solo
game and she once said Puneesh that playing solo enables one to run faster and
that's exactly she followed. But at the same time she never came across as
selfish coz when she had no option but to back a group she did that by not
wanting things for herself.

She was entertaining to
the core. Some HMs need tasks to prove their mettle, but Shilpa shone by just
being herself in the house. She was caring, warm and helpful and had a great
SOH, that made her quite a dynamic HM.

Frankly in BB one cant
come too planned and prepared as your actions/ reactions/ equations r inter
dependent. One can only go with the flow and dat's what shilpa did. Also
planning would be a self assessment of your nature and not how carrying dresses
and night suits to be not repeated even once or manipulating other HMs to do ur
bidding or playing game according to someone else in the hope that u play safe
and remain safe.

<p>Shilpa played smart,
played solo and also she clearly knew what she was doing and didnt get
influenced by others n hence won unprecedented fan following, coz ppl
connected to her the most and she was the most deserving HM and she won and
how.

Originally posted by: -ruhani-

Yes! She has Anu's essence too. There r many heroines i see in her at times tht i don't keep account of all of them. I stare into her and suddenly some actress come to my mind. Even my mom told many heroines.

TV industry really disrespected her. Such a natural charm, talent and most importantly very hardworking person. Just her personality is not common type and they cud have dealt with it. She gave 100% in all her performances. Even she being unprofessional isn't true. Watched a shooting video. It is sad tht she had to go into depression when she opted for TV.

Now they don't deserve her.

Originally posted by: NancyNuts

Coincidentally happened to watch this interview of Mehz today and she says Shilpa is very real and most down to earth celeb..in fact never behaved like a celeb...also that if she were to leave kitchen even for a day HMs would get to know her value

https://youtu.be/wcsdi8W0lp0

Originally posted by: Rainy_rams

Good morning shilpians
After wkw I used to watch this EKR. That is not comedy when you make fun of others and laugh then I stopped watching when they abused Shilpa. I still couldn't watch it even for her.
Anyways can't tolerate v for another second beside Shilpa.
Actually I am not that active on Twitter anymore but i saw few fans almost blackmailing for Shilpa to come live. It is because of them that she won so they want her to come live all the time and talk to them.
What if she doesn't like to be active on sm why can't we give her some space.
If we love her truely how can we expect something in return for that love. I am sorry if I hurt any fan but I got pissed reading some tweets which looked more like a blackmailing to me. I think for Shilpa she may want to forget the bad things happened in that house and the interviewers keep asking the same questions. She is patient I agree but she may want some break from this BB.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Had written this a few days back and was thinking of making a thread on dis, but then seeing the futility of the forum, decided against it, so am posting why Shilpa was the most deserving winner from among all the HMs dis season here.

BB is a reality show, not a game show. The very concept of BB is showing one's personality/ character and the one that ends up connecting with the audience the most usually emerges the winner. Tasks in BB r never fair coz they too r a catalyst to bring out the hidden characters of HMs, which dey otherwise may not want to show. And the incitement given is luxury budget, immunity from nominations and chance at being the captain.

What shilpa did was out of the box thinking. Most of the HMs had the same ghisa pita way of going about doing BB. Shilpa from the very first day decided to be her real self and in her mind had set limits for herself as to how far she would go, whether in tasks or in the house itself and she never wavered from that.

Another important aspect in BB house is ones actions and reactions and here is where shilpa aced it. Even BB in her journey video said that most of the time she retaliated with decency and dignity, when others were simply crossing all lines. And I loved how she handled all situations with so much dignity, calm and patience. Have never come across any BB HM who when gets targeted, making the whole situation more funny or not reacting at all, making the other person stoop lower and lower.

She literally followed her heart and it wasnt that she didnt have her flaws or was never negative, but her positives and her appealing nature far out weighed those negatives.

IMO to be in BB one must be very self aware and also assess themselves continuously in introspect and this is what shilpa did. Others were given negative feedbacks, yet they didnt work on that. Shilpa was rarely given that, yet on her own she discarded her poking vikas, even though she was encouraged to continue.

Also she played a solo game and she once said Puneesh that playing solo enables one to run faster and that's exactly she followed. But at the same time she never came across as selfish coz when she had no option but to back a group she did that by not wanting things for herself.

She was entertaining to the core. Some HMs need tasks to prove their mettle, but Shilpa shone by just being herself in the house. She was caring, warm and helpful and had a great SOH, that made her quite a dynamic HM.

Frankly in BB one cant come too planned and prepared as your actions/ reactions/ equations r inter dependent. One can only go with the flow and dat's what shilpa did. Also planning would be a self assessment of your nature and not how carrying dresses and night suits to be not repeated even once or manipulating other HMs to do ur bidding or playing game according to someone else in the hope that u play safe and remain safe.

Shilpa played smart, played solo and also she clearly knew what she was doing and didnt get influenced by others n hence won unprecedented fan following, coz ppl connected to her the most and she was the most deserving HM and she won and how.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Thank you guys for the appreciation.

I often contemplate taking some kind of free lance writing, but my problem is I can only write if I feel it dil se.😳

BTW I completely forgot to mention shilpa's cooking, but then again it shows there was much much more to shilpa than her cooking and staying in the kitchen and that's exactly why she won.😃