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Posted: 8 years ago
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Janani janmabhumischa swargadapi gariyasi
Mother and mother land are higher than heaven in status.

Tvameva Mata cha pita tvameva tvameva bandhuscha sakha tvameva
tvameva vidya cha dravinam tvameva tvameva Sarvam mama deva deva.

You are my mother,father,friend,relative,learning,wealth. O Lord you are everything for me.

In both the instances it is the mother who is placed first,higher than anything or anyone else.

The first line was said by Rama in Ramayan when he returns back to Ayodhya after his exile.

In the growing up years it is the mother who would be the inspiration and guiding light for children.Mother needs to be there more than the father to be with the kid and to help her/him see right and wrong . Children are vulnerable and get influenced so easily. It is not their mistake if they get diverted from studies or get influenced by bad ways.

Iswari as the mother became successful in being the right source of inspiration. Dev 's single minded attention towards his goal fetched him the position he now enjoys and we can not undermine the contribution of Iswari for that.

Sonakshi achieved so much and both Asha and Bijoy drove her towards success by always motivating her and standing by her in crisis. Here also her formative years as a good daughter and student paved the way to success and Asha definitely should be credited for that.

Vicky was always misguided by RR who never let him learn anything instead persuaded him towards achieving everything in short ways by adopting wrong means. The result is before us to see how a mother like RR can spoil the life of her own son by her ambition and lust.

Now we have Sonakshi the mother who definitely should get the applause for bringing up Soha as Suhana the most descilpined,hard working,smart and well mannered kid that she became. But of late Sona became too busy to spare even a little time for her daughter and the effect shows on Soha.

Suhana is used to her mother moniter her studies and other things. She now is brought into an atmosphere where she sees less of her mother and more of Golu . She is getting influenced by Golu's fabricated stories about his Big Cha and started believing that her father really endorses all the mischevous ways to avoid studies and take it easy.

It really is disheartening to see Soha display such arrogance and disrespect even towards her mother. Suhana stepped into the danger zone and it is Sonakshi's responsibility to bring her out . I hope Sonakshi takes the right steps to avert the danger. If she could spare time that will be enough to make Suhana realise and change. I am sure Dev will stand by her in achieving this.

Wake up Sonakshi! Soha needs you.

Last but not least Elena the mother of Golu...opened her eyes before it is too late for Golu.Instead of blaming Dev for spoiling Golu Elena should concentrate more on Golu who I think may take longer to correct his wrong notions that he has towards the importance of studies. He misunderstood his BigCha. Golu darling! Your BigCha never neglected his studies. Ask your grand mother.

I hope everything will fall in place . Kids are like butte which is so soft and change the shape.as per the vessel it gets into for storage


After a long time felt relieved seeing Dev and Sonakshi live their moments. It gave a nice feeling within. I wish I get to see more such beautiful moments...


Lakshmi

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree Sonakshi should wake up now and see what Suhana is and what changed her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i dnt get it
why elena blaming dev ?
blame vickey
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I'm sure sonakshi can solve this matter .
It's both dev and sona's fault just bcz of their silly fights children r showing disrespect towards them .
Hope both understand it .

and elena she never act like a mother .

Yesterday she was giving a look towards Devakshi like look u both spoiled our children 😆
I think in future Vicky will become a better parent than her
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree Sona shud have caught on Soha's lies n behaviour changes n now that she knows abt it, she shud handle it sensibly. But as someone said in other post, as kids grow n learn, so do parents learn d art of parenting..n they r bound to make mistakes too. What matters is how they handle things next.

Regd Ish..she definitely has played a big role in Dev's achievements but she falied to become as good a mother for rest of her kids who always craved for mother's affection, never learnt to be independent or responsibile.

Elena is totally hopeless n selfish person as it is...long way for her to become a good parent.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _suchi_

I'm sure sonakshi can solve this matter .
It's both dev and sona's fault just bcz of their silly fights children r showing disrespect towards them .
Hope both understand it .

and elena she never act like a mother .

Yesterday she was giving a look towards Devakshi like look u both spoiled our children 😆
I think in future Vicky will become a better parent than her

I don't know about Vicky but Elena should learn to take responsibility as ultimately it is her duty to take care of her child.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings

Agree Sona shud have caught on Soha's lies n behaviour changes n now that she knows abt it, she shud handle it sensibly. But as someone said in other post, as kids grow n learn, so do parents learn d art of parenting..n they r bound to make mistakes too. What matters is how they handle things next.


Regd Ish..she definitely has played a big role in Dev's achievements but she falied to become as good a mother for rest of her kids who always craved for mother's affection, never learnt to be independent or responsibile.

Elena is totally hopeless n selfish person as it is...long way for her to become a good parent.

I don't feel Iswari's girls failed to live up to the standards.

Neha though not educated looked after the in house work too well and it is commendable. Then she learnt English,got married and when she could not adjust with Ranveer frankly admitted her decision and moved on. She is happy in her own life.

Ria studied well worked for her brother got married and settled in life.

Nikki is frank and clear a go getter..she lived life her own way most important she believed in herself that is why her relationship with Laksh did not look fake or dishonest. She is doing some project I think.

On the whole all the three are sorted out,good natured and well mannered . They still respect their mother and Iswari's success as a mother needs no proof.

Strictly my views.


Lakshmi

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara


Janani janmabhumischa swargadapi gariyasi
Mother and mother land are higher than heaven in status.

Tvameva Mata cha pita tvameva tvameva bandhuscha sakha tvameva
tvameva vidya cha dravinam tvameva tvameva Sarvam mama deva deva.

You are my mother,father,friend,relative,learning,wealth. O Lord you are everything for me.

In both the instances it is the mother who is placed first,higher than anything or anyone else.

The first line was said by Rama in Ramayan when he returns back to Ayodhya after his exile.

In the growing up years it is the mother who would be the inspiration and guiding light for children.Mother needs to be there more than the father to be with the kid and to help her/him see right and wrong . Children are vulnerable and get influenced so easily. It is not their mistake if they get diverted from studies or get influenced by bad ways.

Iswari as the mother became successful in being the right source of inspiration. Dev 's single minded attention towards his goal fetched him the position he now enjoys and we can not undermine the contribution of Iswari for that.

Sonakshi achieved so much and both Asha and Bijoy drove her towards success by always motivating her and standing by her in crisis. Here also her formative years as a good daughter and student paved the way to success and Asha definitely should be credited for that.

Vicky was always misguided by RR who never let him learn anything instead persuaded him towards achieving everything in short ways by adopting wrong means. The result is before us to see how a mother like RR can spoil the life of her own son by her ambition and lust.

Now we have Sonakshi the mother who definitely should get the applause for bringing up Soha as Suhana the most descilpined,hard working,smart and well mannered kid that she became. But of late Sona became too busy to spare even a little time for her daughter and the effect shows on Soha.

Suhana is used to her mother moniter her studies and other things. She now is brought into an atmosphere where she sees less of her mother and more of Golu . She is getting influenced by Golu's fabricated stories about his Big Cha and started believing that her father really endorses all the mischevous ways to avoid studies and take it easy.

It really is disheartening to see Soha display such arrogance and disrespect even towards her mother. Suhana stepped into the danger zone and it is Sonakshi's responsibility to bring her out . I hope Sonakshi takes the right steps to avert the danger. If she could spare time that will be enough to make Suhana realise and change. I am sure Dev will stand by her in achieving this.

Wake up Sonakshi! Soha needs you.

Last but not least Elena the mother of Golu...opened her eyes before it is too late for Golu.Instead of blaming Dev for spoiling Golu Elena should concentrate more on Golu who I think may take longer to correct his wrong notions that he has towards the importance of studies. He misunderstood his BigCha. Golu darling! Your BigCha never neglected his studies. Ask your grand mother.

I hope everything will fall in place . Kids are like butte which is so soft and change the shape.as per the vessel it gets into for storage


After a long time felt relieved seeing Dev and Sonakshi live their moments. It gave a nice feeling within. I wish I get to see more such beautiful moments...


Lakshmi




I kind of agree and disagree both here. While I do agree that a mother has the most important role in the up bringing of a child but it no way demeans the role of a father. Both are important for the development of a child, so in this case both she and Dev have the equal responsibility for correcting the behaviour of there child. While I do agree that the sudden change of the household atmosphere from the Bose family to Dixit family might have affected Suhana but then both Dev and Sonakshi need to take the responsibility of this as it was there decision to get back together without solving there issues of the past. In fact both had agreed that unless they resolve the past they cannot move into the future and Suhana is a part of that future.

I just hope this track is handled properly unlike some of the other tracks in the recent past and does not end up showing Dev to be the guilty one
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I can't understand why Dev should be made guilty. As such he was made to sign the agreement by Sonakshi which gives Sonakshi the rights on Soha more than him. Soha is tuned to Sonakshi's way of functioning so it is easy for her to tackle Soha . Dev can give moral support but it is Sonakshi who should take the lead.

It is not about father and his responsibilities. Children are of different kinds. Some will understand the softer methods. Some will listen only when the voice of the parent riises. Some do not need either and be so understanding like Soha used to be once. So Sonakshi should handle Soha.

I feel that way.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I don't know about Vicky but Elena should learn to take responsibility as ultimately it is her duty to take care of her child.

I don't care about elena & Vicky .I wouldn't mind if in future they didn't take care of their child 😆 . I Always wanted to see golu soha as Devakshi's child. And I very much enjoyed yesterday's scene. They four r like a perfect family 😳

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