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I've been reading over all of your comments, and i find most of them just lack sympathy and understanding of vividha's position. I'm new to this forum in terms of posting but have been visiting here for a while. But as my title asks, i want to know whether it is possible for a woman to be able to love two men at once. I know some of you may think it is either a stupid question or isn't possible, but vividha's positions makes me wonder about this.
I can't even begin to fathom what it must have felt like to be in vividha's position as a woman. The main reason why the title question came to my mind was because we all know that vividha loves atharv immensely and her love didn't weaken even during her marriage to ravish or when everyone considered atharv dead, which is so refreshing to see, seeing as such tracks are so predictable in indian serials. But besides this the other reason why i am confused and hence the title question is seeing the love that both atharv and ravish have for vividha.
Both of them love her a lot. Both of them can do anything for her love, and for both of them, vividha is their strength and weakness. For atharv, his life is of no value in front of vividha's life and happiness and so for him he would unflinchingly put his life on the line for vividha without any care of consequences...when it comes to vividha, for atharv, life or death doesn't matter. For ravish on the other hand, it doesn't matter whether vividha loves him or not, he will do the needed to see her happy. Atharv loves her to the extremes to the point he would never think twice before risking his life for hers, where as ravish loves her unconditionally and silently, knowing she loves someone else.
With vividha having spent time and got to know both of the men and seeing their goodness and their devotion for her, how hard it must be not to have an inclination for both? How can a girl not fall for a guy like atharv whose love is not only passionate, but undying, fearless, and not wavered by fear of death, and how can a girl not fall for a guy like ravish who loves her unconditionally and whose love is so pure that he is ready to suffer all kinds of pain and bear it silently for the happiness of the girl he loves? Neither man loves vividha less or more and both are ready do sacrifice something or the other for vividha. Atharv is willing to give up his life for vividha's love and safety, and ravish is willing to die everyday for her knowing that she can never be his but will still do anything for her. Neither man's love can be underestimated, so how can vividha be blamed for having somewhat of feelings for ravish whilst being in love with atharv?
I know that we all commonly believe that true love means loving only one person, but is it not possible to love more than one person at once in such a case where we feel emotions and endearment for the good qualities of two men as well as the love they both have for a woman?
Edit: Ok, so listening to the two slightly over-defensive replies i've just gotten (the first reply a little too over-defensive), i need to clarify that you guys aren't making sense of what i'm talking about here before actually replying. i'm not questioning vividha's love for atharv or saying she is confused between two people, as i haven't said that anywhere on my post, your misinterpreting the topic question i have raised. I am asking whether it is possible for a woman to love two men or have feelings for two men, especially when the men and their love are like atharv and ravish. I'm saying how it must be a dilemma for a girl caught up between the intense love of two such lovely men. Vividha has thankfully made it clear who she loves, but my question is more to do with the title question i have raised, and how hard it must be for a woman to not be inclined to two such men at a time.
