Lets play 'Husband and wife'

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Posted: 9 years ago
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There was just so much wrong with today's episode!

I'm going to start with Suman. She is a nice lady. But she is totally delusional!! Goodness me, it's so difficult to sympathise with her! Kalindi, funnily enough has so much more sense than Suman.
And since when can Pandit's predict if someone's heart going to be broken! These shraaps and apshagun dialogues are just getting more ridiculous in this show!


And as most of you know, I have a lot of time for Ravish. I've felt bad for him because he got caught up in this mess that wasn't his fault. But today, he disappointed me with some of his decisions.

First of all, I do appreciate the fact that he acknowledged the fact that Vividha didn't love him and didn't want her to stay in a marriage that didn't mean anything to her. And I applauded the fact that he took off Vividha's mangal sutra and told her that from today, they were no longer husband and wife. But after that, his whole thought process was so wrong.


First of all, Vividha has just told him that she was forced to get married because she loved Atharv, and that he was nearly beaten to death by her father and his goons. So why isn't Ravish, as a high ranking officer, going out to look for these people who hurt his brother and getting justice for him. He wants to give Atharv all his rights, so he really needs to start where a crime has been committed.

Secondly he orders Vividha to stay in the house until Atharv is better, to protect his mother. Again, this is just going to make matters worse for Suman and the family later on. He needs to tell everyone the truth now. Just think how much more betrayed and devastated Suman is going to be when she finds out later. And what if it takes Atharv two years to get better? Does Vividha have to stay that long and pretend to be Ravish's wife? And is poor Atharv going to be kept hidden in one room for that amount of time?

And the drama of the mangal sutra was hilarious! First Ravish takes it off Vividha, telling her that he knows it means nothing to her, and we have their whole wedding being shown in reverse. And we all applaud! And then we have Vividha putting it back on, because Ravish has ordered her to stay and now they are going to pretend to be husband and wife for Suman's sake. And because Vividha is kind and is already feeling guilty for hurting Ravish and his family, she agrees. And we all groan with frustration! Should have just kept it on!

I'm not going to belittle Ravish for crying over his broken heart because you can not control who you fall in love with. And since Suman has been telling him from day one that Vividha loves him, i guess he fell in love with her too. He realised today that both him and his mum deluded themselves over Vividha's feelings for him. I guess we're all allowed to feel sorry for ourselves sometimes.

The pre-cap shows exactly why this fake marriage drama is going to be an epic fail.

Suman asks Ravish to fill Vividha's maang, and she looks pretty uncomfortable at the thought of it. Ravish sneezes and drops the sindoor pot on purpose. I bet I know what's going to be Suman's reaction tomorrow! Starts with 'apsha' and ends with 'gun'


And for all those who think this is the start of Vividha and Ravish's love story, I'm going to tell you something.

There's a movie which has one of my favourite dialogues.

In it, a man and woman were passionately in love, but they broke up, and she found another guy who fell completely in love with her. Eventually though, he told her to go back to her first love. When he was asked why he let her go, he said

"Because she never looked at me the way she looks at him."

I think I've made my point!


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa...loved the caption 😆
It was totally a bakwaas episode...
I was looking forward to see atharv and vividha's scene and only got fainted atharv 😆 and ... vv
What's vividha and ravish was doing 🤣 I love that ravish removed the mangalsuthra...
But after that vv is putting again...
It's nice of her to stay in that house until the truth reveals to the family...but...😆
First saying that this marriage is not important her and again wearing the mangalsuthra...it seemed funny to me...


Edited by Ultimatevikku7 - 9 years ago
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You know keeping Vitharv aside, the SHEER frustration of reading that the mangalsutra is taken off ONLY to be put on again in the next few minutes. It literally was going 10 steps forward and 10 steps then back again!

I was like, ok so what have we actually achieved? Fake husband-wife drama shit? I don't think it'll last long though.

It's just frustrating when you have to hear the words BAHU, SINDOOR & MANGALSUTRA in these Indian shows.

It's frustrating if anything!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yeah this decision will make things even more complicated..I dun y Sujata is juz watching everything like an idol and saying nothng..She has left everything to others..She is d one who has to be strongest and smartest for Atharv rights..She shud have argued Ravish to disclose everything to family its been enough noww..Ravish if disclose abt vividha she wnt be allowed to stay in vashisht house logically and Sujata is in no mood to stay with Vividha alone So i was pretty sure it was coming up..
Edited by mridula28 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa 🤗
its not letting me like your post but you made it quite clear with your title itself..lets play husband and wife. thats exactly what is happening here..

Why is he complicating his life , vividha's life and his mom's life... its never a good time to tell a bad news...the sooner it is the better it will be for everyone.

Also I so not fond of Suman..I used to like her before but here ..she is beyond foolish...my husband never loved me..so I will hate the person he loved...my son should not go through the same...but i will stil marry him off with a complete stranger and would expect her to love his son..no matter what,,,

I will consult tantrik..pandit...but I do not believe in KC...

she is epitome of oxymoron!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Girl let me res... I will be back ... Soon!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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As usual a great post Whispa!
You have pretty much added all the points as to why their pretentious marriage is going to be an Epic fail and I gave nothing to add but completely agree with everything that you have pointed out!
Even I felt bad for Ravish, he is in this mess for no fault of his and even though how he fell for her is beyond me, I have to agree with what you said "Sometimes you can't help whom you fall for and why" and I have actually seen it happen to few people around me and when their feelings are not reciprocated they react the Same Ravish did by questioning if something is wrong with them? So yes I agree with you I don't feel like belittling his feelings just because I can't connect with it!
But like you said,the way he accepted everything today was nice but his plan sucks! How does waiting for few more months going to make a difference to Suman's heartbreak if not anything it's only going to aggravate it further, she is going to come to know that Vividha is not in love with Ravish but with Atharv who happens to be the son of her husband and the woman she despises the most!
I guess we shouldn't be surprised because he brought Sujatha and Atharv along to take care of them but is hiding them from the family if he is planning on giving Atharv his right then everything has to be brought to the front sooner or later so how is postponing it going to make a difference?
I have tried to sympathise with Suman but there is only so many apshaguns & shraps that I can take in an episode and there is a mention of it in every scene that she is in, this lady dreads all festivals be it KC or Diwali there is some apshagun associated to it!
Ravish's "My brother" dialogues would have been appreciated if he hadn't hit him the way he had, I don't I will ever be able to connect to any brother bond in the future if there is no remorse shown from his side.
And you have also rightly pointed out about why his military brain is not focusing on investigating and punishing Kailash now that he knows who the culprit is? May be they might show it tomorrow? But somehow I don't feel like it's going to happen..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa...Hugs to you for your lovely post 🤗
Loved the last bit totally 😃...Once more for that 🤗...I was kind of annoyed with the whole MS scene

Yaa ravish has complicated things further ...Why should Atharv and Sujatha stay like criminals hidden in the same house just because his foolish mother is not able to handle it 😡 ...

If you want to do something your dad has asked you to ...do it in the open ...your mom better accept it by now that she has lived in a hopeless marraige and dont make you do the same mistake...


Poor Vividha...She is just a sweet soul all troubled right now from every side ...She should take atharva and run away somewhere ...really...😳


I have heard this one thing which somebody once told me ...
If something is destined for you nobody can take it away...
If something is not destined for you nobody can give it to you...

No matter how many tantriks , priests come vividha will always be in Atharvs heart and Atharv in Vividhas 😳 while the rest can play whatever games they want 😆


Edited by ARCHRE - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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hi whispa,

delu suman toh delu suman hi rahegi use koi badal nshi sakta, but sujatha too now became delu sujatha staying in sumans house

i agree and my sympathy towards sujatha for wjat she has to bore but i am feeling she is doing over now that vividha told her everything , she even broke her marriage , what can any girl do given the circumstances , her being non caring with vividha is ok but she is hating vividha now, i think if any twist im vitharv love story happens it will be bcoz of sujatha only

my sherni vividha is back, she is speaking with most clarity last 3 days and i think she found her strength from her atharv

ravish today was good in my view , i differ with u whispa here he did what he did in a dignified manner, other wise breaking of marriage in such a situation can become very ugly, iam not going to the part that his treating atharv or his part in hallucinations of vividha

ravish today in that situation did what he thought is best, he knows he is going to break his mothers heart sooner or later with 2 different things, one is vividha and other is sujatha and atharv , so he asked her to stay

but this staying i dont know whst it leads to? ? he didn't want to show he was broken and pained inside so he just told her he was ordering her, i liked his line where he says mere pyar adura nahin, shuru hone sevpehle khatam hogayi

she doesnt find me good enough to love me, kya mein itna bura huin, he is suffering , but my main concern is atharv and vividha

my baby atharv was sleeping in the whole episode, i need a vitharv private moment now , its been many days and now vivi can take cate of baby atharv , she is frre from this bondage

i liked the fact that vividha asked ravish first to relieve her from this marriage not the other way


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: whispa

There was just so much wrong with today's episode!


I'm going to start with Suman. She is a nice lady. But she is totally delusional!! Goodness me, it's so difficult to sympathise with her! Kalindi, funnily enough has so much more sense than Suman.
And since when can Pandit's predict if someone's heart going to be broken! These shraaps and apshagun dialogues are just getting more hysterical in this show!

This lady is a gone case, She assumes and sees what she wants to believe in and wanna see.. No matter how much Kalindi tries to bring her into reality and give her proofs but nothing effects her and then she thinks about aphshaguns, that will happen 2mrw also.

And as most of you know, I have a lot of time for Ravish. I've felt bad for him because he got caught up in this mess that wasn't his fault. But today, he disappointed me with some of his decisions.

First of all, I do appreciate the fact that he acknowledged the fact that Vividha didn't love him and didn't want her to stay in a marriage that didn't mean anything to her. And I applauded the fact that he took off Vividha's mangal sutra and told her that from today, they were no longer husband and wife. But after that, his whole thought process was so wrong.

I too appreciate Ravish here because he straight away understood that she doesn't love him and he genuinely relieved her from this marriage, Not many men do that just to rakhraofy women and for revenge too even after knowing the truth just for their ego.


First of all, Vividha has just told him that she was forced to get married because she loved Atharv, and that he was nearly beaten to death by her father and his goons. So why isn't Ravish, as a high ranking officer, going out to look for these people who hurt his brother and getting justice for him. He wants to give Atharv all his rights, so he really needs to start where a crime has been committed.


Oh this is too much to expect in a 25min episode for now and this is drama so this will be done only in the end when Vitharv will reunite, so for me no expectations there and Infact I would like Atharva to be part of that revenge rather Ravish doing it all alone.

Secondly he orders Vividha to stay in the house until Atharv is better, to protect his mother. Again, this is just going to make matters worse for Suman and the family later on. He needs to tell everyone the truth now. Just think how much more betrayed and devastated Suman is going to be when she finds out later. And what if it takes Atharv two years to get better? Does Vividha have to stay that long and pretend to be Ravish's wife? And is poor Atharv going to be kept hidden in one room for that amount of time?

I understand he needs a bit of time to give a heartbreak to suman otherwise he would have done it earlier as their was no concerned with Vividha but it was his decision earlier too as I assume. But now its a give and take for Vividha and him so she had agreed. Apart from this I guess Atharvas healing process will start, I just hope this Mangalsutra doesnt create any problem though its not a ekta mata show. This also might be just to carry off the drama because anyways Vividha doesnt have a place to go and take care of Atharva until Sujata accepts her.

And the drama of the mangal sutra was hilarious! First Ravish takes it off Vividha, telling her that he knows it means nothing to her, and we have their whole wedding being shown in reverse. And we all applaud! And then we have Vividha putting it back on, because Ravish has ordered her to stay and now they are going to pretend to be husband and wife for Suman's sake. And because Vividha is kind and is already feeling guilty for hurting Ravish and his family, she agrees. And we all groan with frustration! Should have just kept it on!

I'm not going to belittle Ravish for crying over his broken heart because you can not control who you fall in love with. And since Suman has been telling him from day one that Vividha loves him, i guess he fell in love with her too. He realised today that both him and his mum deluded themselves over Vividha's feelings for him. I guess we're all allowed to feel sorry for ourselves sometimes.

Me too, He did have a broken marriage even if his love is an illusion or attraction or whatever and no fault of him. He just has to suffer his parents and KKs deeds and still promising his father to make up for his wrong doing. But that doesnt mean I take him as right w.r .t. whhat he has to done to Atharva at times.


The pre-cap shows exactly why this fake marriage drama is going to be an epic fail.

Suman asks Ravish to fill Vividha's maang, and she looks pretty uncomfortable at the thought of it. Ravish sneezes and drops the sindoor pot on purpose. I bet I know what's going to be Suman's reaction tomorrow! Stats with 'apsha' and ends with 'gun'


And for all those who think this is the start of Vividha and Ravish's love story, I'm going to tell you something.

There's a movie which has one of my favourite dialogues.

In it, a man and woman were passionately in love, but they broke up, and she found another guy who fell completely in love with her. Eventually though, he told her to go back to her first love. When he was asked why he let her go, he said

"Because she never looked at me the way she looks at him."

This line was also in Kuch Kuch Hota Hai 😃

I think I've made my point!


Edited by Shweta13 - 9 years ago

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