Pihu is not a spoilt brat

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Everyone is calling her a spoilt brat
Why?
She thinks her mother has been separated from her and her family because of Ishita
She thinks Ishita is the other woman
Ever since Ishita came back, she is living with her dad in her room
Her parents didn't get married and now her "mom" is married to someone else
Do you guys even realise what the poor child is going through?
Her reaction is very normal
Any child would react like this if they think an other woman has taken over her family

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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is indeed sad to see people blaming an antagonist's actions on a kid. The same happened with Ruhi when she was against IshRa, and with Adi when he was against Ishita pre-leap pre-Satuan-saga.

Pity people don't look at the situations from the said kid's point of view, whether it was Adi, or Ruhi, or Pihu. Glad to see a sane voice 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I haven't read anywhere Pihu was called a spoiled brat, but I don't expect any different if she was. It's sad that people don't realize what she is going through and how Shagun instead of explaining the complex dynamics to her child is using those complicated relationship to her advantage. I can't believe anyone would blame the child when the adult is the one who is using her and leading her down the wrong path for her own needs. If anyone is to be blamed it is Shagun who yet again failed as a parent.
Edited by Prabh. - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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pihu is not spoilt brat .
though talks lil too much .
watches daily soaps too much.
LOL! when she says paarvati .
she is lil manipulative.
its not her fault to hate ishitha.
I see its the fault of raman .
I dint understand y do raman
has to hide abt ishitha? now even
pihu dint know ruhi is her own
sister. he can say both her
mom n sister died in a accident .
y to allow shagun. when manoj is there
raman should have settled her with him .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well I feel bad for Pihu and I want her to be rescued but again she will behave as a brat in coming episodes because of shagun's evilness she is a second Adi who will be used by Shagun for her selfish motives I blame Shagun for her upbringing and using Pihu for her selfish motives and manipulating Pihu
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you for opening this post... As much as we hate Shagun .. The minute we start hating a small kid who is constantly brainwashed by her 'Mom' to go against the woman who has 'snatched' all their happiness, I feel we fail as adults ... The problem lies also with the Bhalla's especially Raman who probably needed to explain the complicated situation to his 8 year old before intriducing a 'stranger' in her life with who he's going to play house.. From her perspective Raman and Shagun were a couple till Ishita came in the picture.. And now Shsgun is out of the house and she's bound to feel insecure and her Papa is quiet and Momma is feeding her all wrong ideas.. She's as much a victim of the circumstance as Ruhi, Adi were...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very nice post..
Her reaction is natural from hrr pov..
Someone suddenly came n took over her mom's place ...i nvr blame kids b it adi ruhi or pihu bcs all were/r right at their place..
For tge misbehave they do i blame shagun who manipulate them for adi pihu or cvs who goes ott for the sake of drama n show kids as vamps..
And in ruhi's situation it ws her hurt pain anguish that she had gone through ws coming out in form of anger bcs tgat day ishra actually failed as parents..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree.. and this child has actually been brought up with good values and knows right from wromg..unlike adi who was brainwashed and waylaid from a tender age..pihu seemed a smart , balanced kid in the ruhu track .
Today it's clearly the lack of hand holding this kid and gently explaining the situation that has brought them here..plus the fact that most people still believe shagun to be the mother she has been for 7 yrs and seem to have left out to her to 'handle' pihu., has led to this situation. ..

The child is not wrong in trusting her mother figure either...everyone does that..when adults cant perceive the mother is no longer correct. .how can a child.

Pihu needs to be told a lot of truths...but firstly she needs to see the scenario for what it is...shagun and raman were never married. ..shagun was taking care of her in ishita's absence...and finally the truth of her birth..hopefully in that order...

But then cvs wanted the drama they are dishing out to us today and show the antagonist brainwashing her and the protagonist finally coming out on tops. , sadly the child is used as a pawn in the ugliest way possible. ..
Otherwise ideally ishita and v raman both discussed and agreed pihu needed to know the truth., and raman almost started to tell her., but cvs shifted gears🥱

No..I can never 'hate' any child on this show. .how much ever cvs try to turn them into full blown vamps for the sake of drama..
But here in pihu's case I am holding on to small hope that since pihu always saw her grandparents and father and brother and knows them well..she hopefully on her own sees the 'right' over the 'wromg' eventually ..that would be a befitting slap to shagun for trying to manipulate her ...😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I felt this way with pre-leap Adi, pre-leap Ruhi during child swap, post-leap Ruhi, and now Pihu. Thank you for opening this
These kids are pawns. Yes they are misbehaving and acting out. But come on...kids are impressionable souls.

Pihu has been shown as so innocent and living in her own dream world almost until this point...now her entire world is shaken. What child would not act out?

I, like many who have commented here, expected this reaction from some viewers.

Yes the leads are hurting...but so is this innocent child who has had the stability of her life shaken

I don't like seeing kids act out, but I even more so cannot understand the villianization and lack of empathy towards these kids. This is a chance to teach kids right as adults are supposed to...not bash them especially because they are so blatantly being manipulated by someone they once trusted.

Just because the makers don't focus on their hurt and POV doesn't mean we should disservice these kids
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: bscorp13

Agree.. and this child has actually been brought up with good values and knows right from wromg..unlike adi who was brainwashed and waylaid from a tender age..pihu seemed a smart , balanced kid in the ruhu track .

Today it's clearly the lack of hand holding this kid and gently explaining the situation that has brought them here..plus the fact that most people still believe shagun to be the mother she has been for 7 yrs and seem to have left out to her to 'handle' pihu., has led to this situation. ..

The child is not wrong in trusting her mother figure either...everyone does that..when adults cant perceive the mother is no longer correct. .how can a child.

Pihu needs to be told a lot of truths...but firstly she needs to see the scenario for what it is...shagun and raman were never married. ..shagun was taking care of her in ishita's absence...and finally the truth of her birth..hopefully in that order...

But then cvs wanted the drama they are dishing out to us today and show the antagonist brainwashing her and the protagonist finally coming out on tops. , sadly the child is used as a pawn in the ugliest way possible. ..
Otherwise ideally ishita and v raman both discussed and agreed pihu needed to know the truth., and raman almost started to tell her., but cvs shifted gears🥱

No..I can never 'hate' any child on this show. .how much ever cvs try to turn them into full blown vamps for the sake of drama..
But here in pihu's case I am holding on to small hope that since pihu always saw her grandparents and father and brother and knows them well..she hopefully on her own sees the 'right' over the 'wromg' eventually ..that would be a befitting slap to shagun for trying to manipulate her ...😛


@bold should've been started long ago and not from Ruhi. It should also of have been consider before playing fake house. It's annoying how stupid the adults, especially Raman, in this area. It's just like Child Swap where they didn't show any scenes of Raman trying to address Ruhi's chief complaints or emotions nor did Ishita...but there Raman had the in to try. Alas - why cry over the character of Raman Bhalla when I'm getting lollipops. As of now I believe Pihu's realization is coming sans Raman's active role when what ideally was sold to us post-leap was that Pihu-Raman had a really special bond that was dropped like a fly 🤔

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