ShraMan/Nimik AT#7 - Somebody That I Used To Know

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: prc_fan1

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Poor sumo too.. waiting to see t what she did in the past 10 yrs

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Posted: 9 years ago

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I'm sorry poppins but my heart goes out to Shravan more. At least she was able to cling onto the happy memories of their friendship, while Shravan had to leave with a suitcase full of memories and moments that he was now convinced were fake.

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: hasinig89
Mammu...serial dekha kya kal? Poor Shravan

yes i really felt bad for him😭😭

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: .SankaDevi.

I feel like Ramnath's chauvanism comes from his upmost priority of keeping the family together. Considering he has rather old fashioned ideologies about gender roles, to him it's a woman's job to keep the family together, and thus probably doesn't have tolerance for anyone who defies that gender role because to him, it's a threat to keeping his family together. But my only question is, isn't his wife his family too? But anyways, I hate that he's chauvanistic and I feel some garbar there too, but I like how the writers didn't just portray him as "bad-chauvanistic-father" like he never felt manipulative to me, with all of these things I hate about him, even I can't deny that he really loves his son and that I adore their bond. Like it felt like he fed him this ideology because he genuinely believed it to be true, hopefully once Sumo gets in the picture she can change that.

He's too cute of a dad to turn vamp, and he seems to love his son a lot. He'll learn to love and respect Sumo too, when we get there.

As for Shravan, I don't really think that like his dad he DEEP DOWN believes all that chauvanistic crap. It's more like this ideology was exposed to him at a very sensitive time in his life that later on ended up having great impact on the way he turned out/saw the world. Betrayed by his best friend and possibly his mom, I think it just comes from a grudge more than genuine hatred.

So yeah, mere do paise 😆

Sometimes too much love and value system can suffocate.

I think ramnath is flawed and betrayed shrav already by not disclosing fully about his mom. Shrav has the right to be with his mom. In fact he wanted to be with his mom but the day she left him he decides to leave for London. Issue here is not just sumo humiliating him but the muvh deeper issue of his mom, leaving him. I think she was his anchor. I want to know more about their relationship.

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Mine too krithi. Sumo humiliated him that was very wrong. But she was always childsh and peer pressure can do it at school.

But i think shravan is putting his entire problems on sumo. He is affected in 2 ways his mom left him and his friend was nota friend in thereal sense. He had no one to go back home to. ..I bet he is not close to his dad.

So he decides to go to London. But its 10 years and this public revenge is still uncalled for. .. Can't go back in tone and change past events. The best sumo van do is ask for forgiveness... however she asked her intent was genuine... He was the one to say that what happened was nothing. ..

. I feel sorry for the young shra but not for what he has become.

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Posted: 9 years ago

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I still feel that there is more to Shravan's inner turmoil than meets the eye.

As someone said in the forum... being a drama there definitely was over dramatization. How can the entire school hear what transpired between Shra and Sumo. And how can the entire school laugh? Not everyone would be insensitive.

Sumo as she stated was STUPID. Seriously stupid. But she was a child woman too. Peer pressure is a serious thing and we cannot take that away. Impulsive as Sumo is she would realize the gravity of her mistake after it is committed.

Maybe she might have redeemed herself in Shravan's eyes had he stayed back at school and faced the situation.

Scars fade with time, the intensity of the pain reduces. Shravan is not thinking as an adult now.. he planning and humiliating Sumo would not make his pain go away. So nothing is equal now...

His pain will go away ONLY with realization and forgiveness. He has to forgive himself first and then the other people involved.

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Posted: 9 years ago

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I still feel that there is more to Shravan's inner turmoil than meets the eye.

As someone said in the forum... being a drama there definitely was over dramatization. How can the entire school hear what transpired between Shra and Sumo. And how can the entire school laugh? Not everyone would be insensitive.

Sumo as she stated was STUPID. Seriously stupid. But she was a child woman too. Peer pressure is a serious thing and we cannot take that away. Impulsive as Sumo is she would realize the gravity of her mistake after it is committed.

Maybe she might have redeemed herself in Shravan's eyes had he stayed back at school and faced the situation.

Scars fade with time, the intensity of the pain reduces. Shravan is not thinking as an adult now, he is still 16 at his heart and is unable to take that his mom and his girl ditched him..

He planned and humiliated Sumo... will this make his pain go away? No way. Like Shra, Sumo is also haunted by the past, her childish act and the impact that it had on her friend. She has also been suffering due to her action. We had such an argument on why she was wearing a torn dress. That is an indication of what Sumo would do to try to make it up to Shravan.

The past has changed her too!!

His pain will go away ONLY with realization, acceptance and forgiveness. He has to accept the 16 year old Shravan and forgive hims first, followed by others. Grudge and rage will never give him the peace of mind.

Sumo will now has no option but to keep her distance. Shravan has made it very clear that he detests her without hearing her out.

So nothing is equal now... Shravan will still be in pain, Sumo will continue to be guilty and face her family problems too. The one thing that is different is that Shravan's real feelings are out in the open and we should come to know Sumo's soon.

The CVs are very good... I will reserve my thoughts till I see Sumo's side of the story :)

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: .SankaDevi.
I'm sorry poppins but my heart goes out to Shravan more. At least she was able to cling onto the happy memories of their friendship, while Shravan had to leave with a suitcase full of memories and moments that he was now convinced were fake.

WORD. She has damaged him. Someone pointed out in a thread yesterday on how Shravan seems to have some sort of PTSD. That point never dawned upon me, but now that I think about it is so so true, especially after Suman's dialogue 'tum kya se kya ban gaye ho Shravan'.

He has been holding on to all that hurt for years, & somewhere he's developed a fear of being hurt again that way, & being left in the same spot he was a decade ago, thus came his need for revenge. Also, the way he's changed, really. That shattered self-esteem of his. The negativity that's developed in his brain - regarding people, the world, the future. Quite a contrast to young mature Shravan, who wouldn't hurt a fly & would continue to be optimistic about himself regardless of what Sumo said.

BTW, I love your icons/siggy <3

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