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Guys I just watched the repeat of the show only now. Was really tied up and now only free and can spare some real time on analysis. And the first post I read today was the complaint post. I have replied to the complaint post on what I think is the problem or what the CVs are doing. But my post as usual will only have the best message of the day.
Ram asks a very profound question. Has Dasrath taken the consent of the family. Why that question was important. It is very important. Because when such major decisions are announced all the family has to stay united. irrespective of the day or night of the coronation announcement one thing I know is that the queens knows about the coronation announcement through other sources and not through the king.
Though when I had read Ramayan I have not looked at this aspect very deeply, but when I watched SKR it touched me deeply.
Reason having born in a joint family, having grown up in a joint family till early teenage I have seen the family disintegrating and when I turn back I still love my days in the joint family as a child. Though as a teenager I didnt know why it broke up, later in my youth and post my marriage I understood why the family disintegrated. Why trust faded. Why it became nuclear families.
Reason was ego clashes, power equations and the inability of the family head to handle the moral conflict the proper way. issues were pushed under the carpet expecting them to corrected on their own. But they were never healed. There were enough Manthara's around to open the raw wounds and they burst open now and then.
Even if you look from Valmiki Ramayan perspective you see Dasrath was unable to handle his family. His wife overrode his decision shaming him. It doesnt matter what she did or what became of her. But this man's inability to take his wife into confidence the proper way or keep a tag on a dasi Manthara by putting an ultimatum ( comon he is the king and if the king feels something is threatneing for his family and country harsh decisions has to be taken) ended up destroying the lives of 8 youngsters who had nothing to do with the mess.
And in SKR it was shown most prominently. Dasrath knew Kaikeyi had conflict of interest. Why didnt he speak to her on Ram's coronation. Infact why didnt he speak to the queens on the coronation aspect before announcing to public.
First you convince the inside people, before you go outside. Because if you cannot convince inside, how were you convincing outside. You are just pretending and that's the truth. You are just sticking to traditions and ruling according to set customs that's it. But unfortunately great things are not done by walking the path travelled by mutliple people, but by cutting a new path of one's own.
So before you go outside, ensure you are able to convince everyone inside. First convince your decision to yourself. Then convince your family. You will see a much better result than taking decisions to appease your ego. Because it will back fire. It can only bring destruction.
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