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Posted: 9 years ago
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I felt sandhir doesn't need to give any explanations to Aryan n sanaya at all..
they r just friends of sanyu n rd..n neither sanyukta is in a relationship with Aryan nor rd with sanaya..so this shldnt bother them n I personally felt sanyu n rd acting like they r trying to give explanations to Aryan n sanaya respectively like they are somehow debted for the friendship with them. which is not a good sign in a true friendship...

Aryans case is not much surprising..he is in love with sanyu n I think he is not going to give up without a fight..n its gonna interesting to watch his other side..but still I think sanyukta is not bounded to give any explanation to him..she can share her past with him but no need to justify n explain...

n more than Aryan I'm surprised with sanaya..why shld it bother her this much..she is questioning him like she is his gf n why he still hv feelings for his ex...n he is explaining to her like no I'm not cheating..I don't have any feelings for her..like seriously...real randhir never explained his side in front of anybody...uff forgot he is shekhu naa..but precap can be misleading...I seriously hope she is upset coz rd doesn't share abt sanyu to her not the other way...I don't want one more one sided love..but still here too I felt rd doesn't need to give any justification to sanaya..she knows everything abt him after she befriended him right..if he doesn't shared something abt his life before he became friends with her just respect that..it means he doesn't want to remember n discuss his past with anyone n give him some space...n why she is calling sanyu his ex..he hvnt with anyone else after sanyu n sanaya doesn't knw sandhir ended their relationship or not..i didn't like that part Its like she is controlling him by demanding answer for why u still have feelings for sanyu..if she is truly want to see his happiness as a friend she shld be happy that he still hav some feelings for sanyu n she can help him to be happy again..it left me to think that may be she hav some hidden feelings for him...I hope i am wrong n she was in tears coz rd hvnt shared abt sanyu...anyways I personally don't think she doesn't have any right to question him n he doesn't need to give an explanation to her...

anyways I just felt that sandhir not bound to give any explanations to their new friends..sure they can share their past with them only if they wanted not coz they bounded to give an explanation to them coz they are with them in their lonely phase in life...

but on the other hand im happy to know that they hvnt shared abt their past relationship with Aryan n sanaya coz it proves tht these besy friends r not that much close to them in reality as they claimed to be..but anyways Aryan going to show his obsessive side so don't want sanaya to become another...she can remain as a good friend...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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golmaal golmaal everything is golmaal in sadda haq😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Exactly..
At least Randhir and Sanaya are friends from a long time, so she can question him but Aryan... He and sanyukta aren't even close as RanYa
But I guess Aryan was angry as he had feelings for sanyukta. But he shouldn't have shouted...
Sanaya's feelings aren't clearly portrayed but I feel she's upset because she thought she was the only one who knew Randhir perfectly and now suddenly the truth is in front of her..

But this is #saddaHaq... Expect the unexpected... Moreover precaps can be misleading
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I love your post ...😊 But each person sees a situation from different perspective... 😛For me , i think sandhir have to give explanations ... Not because they are bound to but because of the expectations from the relationship ( be it friendship or anything else ) to the respective partners they are linked with.
what i feel is , if you invest more in a relationship , you expect the opposite person to invest the same ... This expectation when not being fulfilled , it hurts..

I think if rd and sanyu could have directly approached sanaya n aryan and told them their past instead of vidu , maybe the current situation could have been better and different... 😊

For sanaya , she has invested a lot in her relationship with rd n so is aryan for sanyu... So when these two ( sanaya n aryan ) are on the recieving end didnt get what they expected , they reacted like this... Anyone would react like this yaar... 😊

Without expectations no relationship works ... And if expectation is there , if its not being fulfilled , on the recieving end obviously they will be hurt...😕

And if sandhir are giving explanations , it means they knew they did wrong.😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Even i feel sandhir don't owe an explanation to aryan or sanaya. They are only friends ...sandhir r not in a relationship with them. Aryan likes sanyukta...he can't be over-imposing to know every detail of her life...if she wishes to tell she will.. but if she chose not to...i think he should respect that.
Maybe this news was very sudden ... that's the reason for Aryan to react that way...but what i am concerned about is will she accept aryan to be her boyfriend to make him believe that she is not into randhir anymore?...eeks hope not😒 I don't want Aryan to become obsessive n bring rift b/w sandhir by playing mind games.
How does sanaya know he broke up with sanyukta?...hope she remains a friend all along..n plays cupid in re-uniting sandhir. I liked sanaya telling him to first stop lying to himself...that's the best thing she said..😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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thanks for all ur opinions..
@truby yeahh...i too want sanaya to act as a cupid n i dont want sanyu to give a chance to aryan so suddenly just coz she hv to prove that she had moved on

@yawfeh..yeahhh as u said each person sees a situation from different angles...i still feel that sandhir doesnt need to give any explanation to aryan n sanaya...aryan havnt questioned her...he is just upset abt the fact that sanyu was in a relationship with another in the past and he is still here n there is a possibility tht she may hv feelings for rd n it can be really frustrating for him coz he want sanyu for himself...n i think aryan going to fight for sanyus love n not going to give up..anyways sanyukta can share her past with him if she really wanted to do not coz she cant lose her friendship with aryan n he is upset..
n for me friendship shld be without any expectations...so sanaya has overconfidence that she is the most important one in rds life n she knew him so well...but the truth is she doesnt know the real randhir at all..she is with shekhu not the real rd...so not only abt sandhir but also she hv no clue abt his real character...anyways i felt she doesnt hv any right to question him until he himself come forward to open up abt his past...just my opinion...n disagree with sandhir explaining things coz somewhat they felt they hav done something wrong..instead i felt like they dont want to make their only friends upset coz of their hidden past..

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Posted: 9 years ago
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there Aryan is behaving really in a wrong way.. n sanyu y should she is behind giving explanation to him..

its their past n that's k y should she worried for him...she nt in love with him or accepted his love then y is is giving explanation..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: FrozenRain

thanks for all ur opinions..

@truby yeahh...i too want sanaya to act as a cupid n i dont want sanyu to give a chance to aryan so suddenly just coz she hv to prove that she had moved on

@yawfeh..yeahhh as u said each person sees a situation from different angles...i still feel that sandhir doesnt need to give any explanation to aryan n sanaya...aryan havnt questioned her...he is just upset abt the fact that sanyu was in a relationship with another in the past and he is still here n there is a possibility tht she may hv feelings for rd n it can be really frustrating for him coz he want sanyu for himself...n i think aryan going to fight for sanyus love n not going to give up..anyways sanyukta can share her past with him if she really wanted to do not coz she cant lose her friendship with aryan n he is upset..
n for me friendship shld be without any expectations...so sanaya has overconfidence that she is the most important one in rds life n she knew him so well...but the truth is she doesnt know the real randhir at all..she is with shekhu not the real rd...so not only abt sandhir but also she hv no clue abt his real character...anyways i felt she doesnt hv any right to question him until he himself come forward to open up abt his past...just my opinion...n disagree with sandhir explaining things coz somewhat they felt they hav done something wrong..instead i felt like they dont want to make their only friends upset coz of their hidden past..

thanks dear for your reply 😊

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