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Ah...so II is going back...Surprise !!! surprise !!!.

Happyyy Happyyy Weddingg  Anniversaryyy Jasmine! Wishing you both many more years of togetherness peace love and happiness. 

Love Amma always handle the situation very well... From the day R&B came to propose their daughter Amma's tough time has started she has to argue and convince Appa in every matter that is about II and her in-laws... Finally Appa agreed Bala is a selfish man.  Everyone is sad at DII as Nivi is leaving including Selvi 😔 What about II?  Eagerly waiting for the naming ceremony at MM

Happy wedding anniversary Jas. ..be happy healthy and together always 😃. Have a great dayEdited by shidin0117 - 8 years ago

For me the last line clinched it...Nivi is Appa's kozhandai...

Being Good and Being too good

There are always boundaries to relationships, inherent I feel .
But we fail to set it most times only to be reminded of our place if it's considered overstepping or by being taken for granted .

We do take care of boundaries professionally but when it comes to interpersonal relationships and when it's emotions in a relationship we do get very lost in drawing our lines.
Love and care do not define boundaries but we should count our blessings if it's reciprocal and not one sided.

But it is weird that a new mother is leaving her kid and going to babysit another ??? Guess it is good that she returned to MM...otherwise shubhang would have been at DII and II would have had to babysit the entire 3 months...(Swan's post)

Originally posted by: moonwearer

But it is weird that a new mother is leaving her kid and going to babysit another ??? Guess it is good that she returned to MM...otherwise shubhang would have been at DII and II would have had to babysit the entire 3 months...(Swan's post)

Munirka's needs and demands on II have always taken precedence. In her pregnant state she had spent the evening dishing dosas ...shes been to Narayana alone at night and lost HIM she obsessed over. Slipping one night's stand in support she has been treated so badly by her Akka. When one is so willing to give and is taken for granted and an entitlement attitude sets in...that is when the limits come to one's mind. In india family and friends happily pitch in but we need to accept it with grace. That is wanting and running away from a baby she claims she cannot be away from...I find it strange

The families slugging it out about who gets to keep II.

Amma now has on hands what she so desparately wanted when little Baldie was born. She wanted Bala to take charge and have the baby and the Mom looked after and for Bala's sibling to care for his parents so that over worked Vandu could get the time, space and rest she deserved. Bala had too much to do. His situation financially did not change overnight. He is a very dedicated Son but somewhere along the line he's is a lot like Appa. They decide for their wives too! Especially where the task involves increased demands on time energy and money for the family! Appa who did not want RnB to leave would now happily banish him to Paris😃

The Bhallas have for the first time asked for something! This marriage and the traditions were all II's pick - Just as dude and she decided it would be! 😃 now begins the marriage of the families and decisions that come with the parenting journey!

Sam shifting gears - true to form.

We have seen Manny fray at II and spit venom at chachi, when she feels threatened or decides yo prot ct her Mom, and Bala snap at the offer of help that he somehow believes his Wife does not need. Good one Nisha 👏 so so in love with this family Tapestry. No one is right no one is wrong. Situations present themselves, there are choices to be made. What we prioritise is what we love and sometimes what we can afford!

Welcome to parenting II and RnB the first step in a journey of many 1000 steps!