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Posted: 8 years ago
The last line of the update and the rest of the update is a blur now. Hope it's a false alarm and periappa gets better soon but I am on a different tangent here. It's got me thinking on how a call or a msg about the illness or death of a loved one while far from home is all our worst fears realised.
No one wants to hear a dear one being gravely ill or worse and if you are far away or an emigrant , it's even harder to bear. It doesn't look good , you hv to come home ns then it's a race against the clock. Amma or vandu take maximum care to keep away periappa's bouts of sickness from II. And they would have been even more careful not to make II more anxious in her pregnant state. And that's why this msg now to II in Paris feels like an axe on tge shoulder, ominous tone to it.

I've heard from people of Generation Emigration, who hv gone through this of the sudden helplessness engulfing you, million thoughts exploding in your head, a last ditch prayer to be able to make it on time to say your final byes and your concern on the impact for your other loved ones and the flight bk is a blur.

For II, dude and Ranjanji are good people to have around her now.

May be, periappa will rebound from this , stay alive and may be II will get a similar call later sometime but for now , will be glad if he stays afloat to see II's little one.

Loved sri's lines on problems to face. Yeah it's a tough reconcilation , the arrivals and departures at the port of call called 'Life'


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Posted: 8 years ago
Hello everyone!

Trust Sosy family is doing well. Has been weeks since I have got here.

Nisha I managed to catch up with the updates and i think by the time I manage to get here again RnB just might reach MM after this Parisian goodbye.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Poignant!!

How can he even think of staying away from his unborn baby and Wife.

And how can she count things around her as important. I find it interesting distances are not physical anymore. It's almost always there because we chose to stay remote. Staring at different screens in the same living room or simply refusing to pay attention to anything that challenges our description of ideal life.

Did you people catch the reunion of north and South Korean families after decades of civil war. Please do if you have not. These things remind me why I have so much to be thankful for.

Loss is difficult but how terrible is the loss of knowing your Father or Sister is on the wrong side of the border and you get 12 hours of family time after 63 years. A privilege for a few picked by a lucky draw 😭 .
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Posted: 8 years ago
Yo Yo😊😊
 
O is here...
How are you?
 
Orangen thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: putti77

Yo Yo😊😊


O is here...

How are you?



Thank you my dear. How are you?
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Orangen



Thank you my dear. How are you?

Everyone in SoSY are doing good O..
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Posted: 8 years ago
Hey guys
Terrible amount of work...tha ks to the holidays on cards...its been crazy 
Won't be around till late in the night...thanks for the texts asking for me 

See you all soon
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Posted: 8 years ago
Homeward bound...

She called Akka, she was told he was in the hospital, she was home at D II 16 hours later, R&B dropped them off at the airport 4 hours after she saw her text.
It was a strange vacation in many ways, Ranjan accompanying her, her being pregnant,
having Manya show up a day later, sharing the confined space of the Paris apartment.
Their first fight in front of family. And now Periappa in the hospital

She packed quietly, as Ranjan brought her food. "U should atleast rest for a bit betaji" he muttered, thoughtfully

"I just feel so bad" she said bravely trying not to cry, arresting her tears... walking to the balcony

"Do u want me to go with you?" R&B asked leaning on the rail characteristically,  one foot up

She shook her head

"Are they all at the hospital?"

"I guess so, Akka cant go, because of baldie, Athim must be at work, it must be Amma Appa and Selvi maybe, and the nurse" II calculated whos where
"Unless it happened after Selvi left after the morning chores" "Teriyale" "I am glad atleast Akka was home, u know, I would always worry when I was in IIM or Georgia
Tech how it will be if he became sick and Amma and Appa both were at work. And Akka was too... in Delhi u cant get home for atleast two hours even on a good day.
Appa has almost two years left how can he quit now?  Amma is a long ways away from retiring, I am lying 4 ish maybe? Amma is the closest I am in Gurgaon all day"

He sighed nodding

"We cant take him to work with us everyday" she sniffled and chuckled and began to cry

"U want to some days?"

She nodded looking at him

He dragged her close and rocked on his feet

"U can have ur freedom back, u are probably going to go on a trek tonight arent you, or read the three 1500 page tomes I saw in office, twirling those goddamn curls

They squeezed the air out of each other

"I think if I see u it hurts me more so I shud just stay in Delhi, but then if I dont see u" she stopped

AYYYO!!!
FROM PERIAPPA
U VEERED TO URSELF?
TELL HIM TELL HIMM
HOW YOU PINE FOR HIM

He kissed her cheek long and hard

She felt the hairy jaw... rubbed it and sighed and shut her eyes

"No shaving orders?" he asked

"No" she "Hmppph" she grunted

R&B was quiet, loading that one large suitcase, and she took one of his with her clothes she had prank packed before

"Give me my stuff" she sulked leaning on the closet wall

He opened the huge chest of drawer and showed where the contents of her purse was, in a fiberglass navy tray

"U hid it in full view?" she accused

She smacked him

He held her face in his palm and kissed her softly

"How come u are being so nice to me?" she demanded

she wanted him to say "I miss you, I dont want u to go, life sucks without you"

He kissed her lips, pressing down on it for the longest time

"That doesnt mean anything" she whispered

"II" he begged her to shut up

"Thats all u ever say "II" and yet I come running" "What a dork I am" she cursed

He chuckled and exhaled audibly... caressing her mound she pressed her belly against his palm, letting the warmth seep through to the baby




She slept all the way through the flight throwing up after she boarded and before landing

First Class service was impeccable, and she was pampered.

Ranjan had called Chachu but he hadnt bothered to come by to the airport
But he wanted to go to D II anyway so he went with her and visited with Vandu for a few minutes and
held baldie (after thoroughly washing his hands and even changing into a different shirt)
The house was quiet

II just couldnt bring herself to peek into Periappa's room

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Posted: 8 years ago
Sad about his health.

But he is a lucky man. He has a family around him that loves him despite what he has been. The work dis rarely kind to people with dependencies.


Nisha I have always found the way you have sketched him very humane almost ideal 👏

I Guess the end is all about dignity. Edited by Orangen - 8 years ago