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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-

Well said, Anku.

Idk what they are planning on doing bc wasn't Shagun sent to break some surrogacy ring...maybe this has to do with that if they haven't forgetten like many other things?

I would hope they handle this carefully because getting a surrogate for a 3rd child some how even undermines one of the core relationships of the show - Ishita/Ruhi, who represent that blood isn't needed to form a parent/child relationship.

If this doesn't lead to surrogacy, then it's a thoughtful way to include the struggles a woman faces bouncing between doctors & treatments.

But I now have incredibly little expectations for the show & more watch/keep up out of habit, which is so sad bc the show has such great potential that they keep throwing away. Khair chodo...


I won't mind struggles. We all knew there would be. But if you conclude such a track with Shagun being mother to the third child as well? Then it's just plain disgusting

Infertility and pregnancy both are sensitive issues. So many woman go through that. They should not be used for trp's 😕 yuck.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: -Anku-


Whenever I imagined a pregnancy track for Ishita. I imagined emotional bonding for the couple and not inclusion of Shagun. I expect at least one track to NOT be used for drama. At least not something as sensitive as this 😕


Pregnancy can't be more beautiful if Ishita gets to experience that with Raman by her side. I really really hope cv's don't let this go off their hands. Shagun will have a role and i am ready for the same but not as surrogate mom. Would be happy if cv's consider so much.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said anku di... cant they just not involve shagun in each n every step...n regarding hospital issues,they maintain confidentiality... but even a newspaper wala ll know wats going on between them..just stop throwing shagun at us... its suffocating.. der is a stigma till now in society.so no subfertile women ll want their information to be known by others.. dont show hospitals in bad light...im fed up
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Word to everything you've written, Anku! Thanks for the thread.

As far as I can remember, and I have been recently reminded of (watching all the old promos), YHM's soul belongs to 2 ideas: Nature vs Nurture (IshRu) and a Second chance at love & life (IshRa + IshRaRu).

Surrogacy, as a concept alone, murders both these ideas, and hence the soul of the show, cold-bloodedly. With Shagun being the surrogate, they'll bury the dead remains of this soul in a far-away land, never to be traced.

If they only need drama, I believe there is A LOT OF drama in Ishita's struggle and pregnancy. Ishita-Raman's equation, Ishita-Ruhi's bond, Adi-Ruhi-Raman's connect, Ishita-Adi's relationship - everything should and WILL get questioned, and immense emotional drama can be created around each of these threads.

But divorce, remarriage, infertility, and surrogacy are not light issues to be mocked at by taking creative liberties just for the sake of drama. For all they know, they could send out a strong message and be an inspiration for so many real people out there fighting these problems.

And logically speaking, if she can't get pregnant, she already has 2 adorable kids who love her so much, and whom she loves so much, esp. Ruhi, who she claims has given her, her life back, why does she even need a 3rd surrogate kid?

Seeing SBS, I'm very fearful if Ishita's going to hide this news from Raman. She has done it time and again, and if they again show her as the Queen of Sacrifice Female Lead who would herself get a surrogate because Raman wants a 3rd kid - Biggest W*F moment!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#25
Awesome post anku 👏
This is what we get after tolerating
all the crap that was shoved down
our throats from past 8 months 🤢
All CVS of yhm noe is to make mockery
of anything and everything 😔
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: s_kavya

Word Anku.. you said it all.. surrogacy track will be the last nail in coffin... just for the sake of one character CV 's should not ruin the entire show and concept.. CV 's already sacrificed with many logical things after slot change.. but if they show shagun as surrogate mother then it will definitely end of YHM for me... CV 's obsession for shagun will doom the show.. my mood is already off after SBS/sbb segment.. i don't think i will be able to enjoy watching show.. till i hear confirm news about "NO surrogacy track" being ishra fan i can't watch mockery of there relation by making shagun surrogate mother of there child... Just hope and pray CV 's don't take route of surrogacy track...


I agree. To ruin a track with so much promise merely because one actor or character needs to be included somewhere in the track is derogatory to the whole show. It's ruining it. They think this will get them numbers. I think such a track will sink their already drowning ship
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

Beautifully put Anku. Ishita can't conceive and that was the truth before everything in YHM started. I don't get where they are going with this and why they showed so many doctor change before the treatment even began but the thing is, she's there seeking treatments because she can't conceive; if it was otherwise she wouldn't need a doctor. Just because one doctor diagnosed what they've always known, jumping to surrogacy is not only absurd but humiliating. The normal thing is do here is get another opinion, get a better doctor, not rent another woman's womb!


If a woman cannot conceive, even in real life, various attempts are made. Here they've just begun 😕 can they go slow, can they be sensitive? In which world is a conclusion like this reached so quick? And which hospital calls and gives information like this on the phone?

The shows base was Nurture versus Nature. A track like this will be an insult to the 2 years of this show honestly
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Posted: 10 years ago
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As far as a typical EKTA serial is concerned SURROGaCY is nt a big thing to b involved bt in case of YHM as v al hv seen its diffrnt dn ol othr typical ekta shows n i dnt think such wud happen in yhm... i dnt knw whthr its my overconfidence or wat bt i hv a strong feeling dat SURROGACY vl nt happen in YHM !!! D way v ol r thinkin i.e. struggles,pain, flood of emotions, abundance care love n support of raman n family to ishita vl happen... If u c passt tracks of yhm...
1. shagun track... if it wud had been typical ekta dn ishita wud hv sacrificd for adi sake
2. ruhi adi swap... if typical ekta show dn... ruhi wud nt hv returned n ruhi wud hv turned negatv totally...
3. juice track... ishita wud hv ended up in problm lyk in bade ache lagte hai

THis is my opinion n i might b too optimistic bt ds is wat i feel...
I jst hope it goes ds way only n lives up too its own standards n our expectations !!! 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If ishita cannot b mother aftr ol struggles n pain dn its better to nt opt for 3rd child n progress wid d show as it is... Hoping for SOME LOGICAL n PRACTICAL tracks...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Anku-



If a woman cannot conceive, even in real life, various attempts are made. Here they've just begun😕can they go slow, can they be sensitive? In which world is a conclusion like this reached so quick? And which hospital calls and gives information like this on the phone?

The shows base was Nurture versus Nature. A track like this will be an insult to the 2 years of this show honestly


Excately. Surrogacy is the last resort when everything else fails. Here Ishra has just consummated, even nature needs time!! The cvs r mocking the viewers who r still sticking here for DivAn sake. Can't Ekta make another serial for her best frnd,?!!!

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