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Posted: 11 years ago
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Amidst all the " he done it", " she done it" posts, I just wanted to acknowledge something pathbreaking and revolutionary about the female voice we are witnessing in this show
The last few episodes we have seen Manik and Nandini moving towards physical intimacy.
Sheltered and shy Nandini has given voice to her feelings. She is not feeling guilty about feeling these emotions and why should she? She is in love, just as a man feels the need to be intimate, she too feels the need to be intimate with the man she loves. The writing of her voice the last few days has been decisive and bold and pathbreaking. She is no coy, mopey abla nari but a shy 18 year old on the cusp of womanhood who knows her mind. In her veins, runs blood like any other human being, her heart races when he kisses her , her love for him makes her seek the intimacy and she is not afraid to acknowledge it. While she is not ready yet to take the next step, she offers no apologies for her feelings of desire. And yet through it all she is like a fledgling waiting to take flight, poised on the brink of her nest, lapping up the open breeze, and when she does take flight, she will fly with the conviction of her feelings, her feelings of what she wants and her feelings about what she feels for him!

Kudos to the show for giving us the voice, for the acknowledgment that women too have feelings and desires. For not showing a coy and helpless girl but a bold but shy girl, confident of her feelings.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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indeed... its good.. today's talk between Nandini and Navya also regarding this was very sweet
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wise Cat said it all.

Nandini is a girl who just entered the thresholds of womanhood and is getting aware of her own desires, wants and need as any normal human being. So when Manik last week asked her is that is not what she wants too- her smiles, blushes said it . But today she lays it all on rest- girl wants it , desires and just needs time to get used to the new emotions, intimacy that she is experiences. She wants her first time to be full of awareness , not like a log - with a pecker at it .

This is is a girl who is rejoicing their touches, who is happy with their intimacy and she is proud of her man for going slow, respecting both her desire and her inexperience with all of it. He is giving her time to savour every brush and she is reciprocating with her own attempts to word her emotions, desire.


Thank You writers for making woman be human enough to embrace their sexuality, desires. Thank You for keeping this aspect of their relationship so balanced.

Kudos to Niti for bringing out this phase in Nandu so beautifully. And adore Manik for being there for his girl and easing her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well said👏
Nandini is a 21st century girl and the show
is working on to remove the taboo from pre marital
sex.Girls have feelings.Loving the bold avataar of nandu.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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We shouldnt forget that this girl had never like she never had experienced such a feeling. This all is so new to her. No crushes, nt had any wet dreams so as much as she loves manik and all this new emotion this all is overwhelming for her. She needs time to process it all. Its k.
Now will copy everything I hd already wrote-
Nandini had broke all d norms of
telly world.
A girl has some feelings, some
desires and she is not ashamed
to accept it. She knows what she
is feeling, what she is doing is
not wrong. Such a refreshing
change.
A modern girl doesnt mean that
u have to wear short dresses.
And it also doesnt mean that if a
girl wants to do it then she is
characterless.
Such a beautiful change. We r
used to seeing heroines who
just knows how to step back
when their men cm to them but
no1 had ever tried to match thei
steps. It alqays feels like aat d
guy only wants it. Ah! But manan
r a diff game altogether.
My feelings r all over d place,
wants to write so many things
but words r nt cmng to me.

Well done NITI, kudos to u cv's.

Adhi- nice post dear.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome post...
⭐️

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Suoer post.
just hope the team keeps building upon this. I think they will.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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So so true. Way to go writers...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Absolutely agree with you. Really bow down to cvs for presenting a growth in a relationship like this. Till now they have kept each and every step of manan in a right place. Just want to see how they will put their steps forward in their upcoming phases of a relationship without any misunderstanding and separation.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kudos to the writers to making it so real.
We all can relate to such feelings.

The nervousness of the first time, along with the desire we feel for the person we love.

Niti is bringing out the feelings Nandini is going through so brilliantly.

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