The Love That Was Always There: Why I Would Like Samaira-Neil Together

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Posted: 8 years ago
Hello everyone! :)

Before I come to the topic, I'd like to tell you that I basically really like love stories. In all their shapes, sizes and kinds. So i'm generally okay with all pairigs because I'll find something to like in each. But some attract me more than others and in this show, it is Samaira and Neil.


Right from the first episode, it has been established that Sam and Neil have a really strong bond. Neil being the first person Sam thinks of when she is trouble and him running to Rishikesh only to cheer her up set the tone of how their friendship will be depicted and with each passing episode it's being beautifully developed. 


Deep friendships can sometimes make really deep love stories as well. You share great understanding, love and trust. You know how to make each other laugh or cry. You talk the day and night away and yet forget what you actually wanted to say. Or just sit together enjoying each other's companionable silence. Friendships turned into love are based on all this and so much more. It's beautiful when you realise that you love each other and are also in love with each other. That all those years of strong friendship have evolved into something so much stronger. That you've always had each other and will not need anyone else. I think this makes a relationship really special.


Some might say that all this is quite linear and unexciting. But honestly, the path to any love isn't straightforward and the same is the case here. You might be the closest of friends and there will still be new stuff to discover about each other everyday. And the phase when both are confused about their relationship and discovering new feelings brings forth brilliant angst, fear, guilt and passion which is beautiful to watch.  Also, this doesn't mean that the friendship will change. It will just have an added dimension.


I saw a post on Tumblr by TheGoodLannister some time back whose lines I'll quote here:
"give me shared inside jokes that date back to wayyy before a first kiss was ever shared.  give me confused reactions from people who already assumed the two of them were dating. give me arguments over what counts as an anniversary because should we start at the date we met or the date we became friends or the date we got over our stupid selves and finally started kissing?"


This describes exactly what i feel. According to me, Samaira and Neil's friendship has that spark which can turn it into a beautiful love. I'm okay with Radhika and Neil, i think they could be sweet. Sam and Arjun, i guess will possibly grow on me. But Samaira and Neil will always be special, regardless of whether they get together or not. 

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Posted: 8 years ago
I love the friendship bond Neil and Samaira share. They wil forever be The Best Friends. I adore Neil-Radhika. I am in love wid Arjun-Samaira..
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Posted: 8 years ago
Beautifully writtenπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘
Agree that two best frns make a great couple
I am impressed with both SamArj & SamNeil scenes...wont mind sam neil pair m kind of attracted more towards SamArj
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Posted: 8 years ago
if i would have got a best friend like neil i would never give it a complex name i.e love.i would love to see a story through sam and neil where we can explore the tru meaning of friendship without giving a name love.samarj r intense.raneil r adorable.i dont want at all any romantic angle in such a beautiful friendship story.
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Posted: 8 years ago
I would love to see NeSam cause I am a big Jane Tu Ya Jane Na fan.
N I'm cool with double shipping.
I used to ship Blair wih Chuck n Nate more. [with Chuck more obviously]
I ship Felicity with Olver n Rey both [Olicity more Relicity]

I would love to see NeSam n SamArj both
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Posted: 8 years ago
Really it is beautiful post and I really agree that what you have said. Yes friends ship is first step to the love. Lovers can be friends and it makes their love more strong. But friends can not be lovers. Once in a life time I really want to see a pure friends ship with out any romantic feelings. I want to believe that a boy and girl can be friends with out any romantic feeling. And I want some one change the aspect of "" ek ladka aur ladki kabhi dosth nahi ban sakhthi "". I want some one change this attitude. And coming the show may be I accept saneil if they didn't show samarj . But they showed them they give a passionate Jodi and I am in love with them. Now I can't accept any one other than samarj as a jodi. After some time if CVS want to change pair May be I will OK with arjun and radhika but I never accept Sam and neil as a jodi. They still remain together with out any romantic interest in their lifes. But I want pure friends ship between them.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: beatsdongandy

if i would have got a best friend like neil i would never give it a complex name i.e love.i would love to see a story through sam and neil where we can explore the tru meaning of friendship without giving a name love.samarj r intense.raneil r adorable.i dont want at all any romantic angle in such a beautiful friendship story.

Agree loves comes to some expectations, responsibilities, explanations, judgements. And friends don't expect anything they just support each other. That's why love can break but friendship never breaks. We can see love breakups, marriage ke liye divorce. But friends ke liye no break ups. And I want that kind of relationship between saneil.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: veeranu

I love the friendship bond Neil and Samaira share. They wil forever be The Best Friends. I adore Neil-Radhika. I am in love wid Arjun-Samaira..


All the potential pairings in this show have something going for them. I'd be happy either ways. Thank you for replying! :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
Lovely post and lovelier quote! πŸ‘

For me frankly I wouldn't have minded Sam Neil in the beginning... They truly are adorable...But Arjun came and messed up my mind with all his intense passion towards Sam be it hate or love that now I can't seem to move past it... I like cute stories but I love intensely passionate ones more... It leaves an impact on me which I can never shake off no matter how many yrs pass... Something like those vintage classic novels... Scarlet Pimpernel, Jane Eyre, Wuthering hts, PnP, etc... Lives with u forever...Edited by Lifez_Beautiful - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
In life sometimes you need a friend to share your problems with. If they turn Sam/Neil into lovers they will lose that edge. The charm with Sam and Neil lies in their strong friendship. I don't see the desire between them that would probably like between Sam -Arjun or Radhika-Neil. Look at Lucas and Hayley from OTH. A typical example of best friends who fell in love with different people but their friendship stood the test of time. I kind of want them to be best friends who always have each other's back thru life's various up and downs. When Sam is in trouble and vice versa she will need her friend not her lover. If Neil comes into the place of her lover she will lose that friend! My opinion anyways:)